If you are no longer finding yourself happily married, but still married you will be finding it difficult not to continually find fault in your mate.
Our intimate relationship is the one relationship that mirrors to us our subconscious beliefs about ourselves and the world.
How we view our mate, very much reflects how we see ourselves.
If we no longer desire our mate, then you have lost interest in your own desires.
If you wish to ignore your mate, there is something inside of you you are neglecting.
If you are angry at your mate, there is something within you you are angry about.
If you no longer enjoy sex, you have stopped enjoying your own company.
If you are angry at your partner because he/she won't do act like you want them to act, then you are feeling controlled by your circumstances, and rather than start with changing yourself, you would rather have others change so that your existence is more tolerable...but it doesn't work that well...not well anyway...
If you have lost passion for your mate, you have lost passion for YOU...
If you are in an abusive relationship, then you abuse yourself, and for whatever reason see yourself as a victim.
If you are generally unhappy, irritable, and negative, chances are your self talk is unhappy, irritating and negative.
Uncover the subconscious beliefs that generate the thoughts you think, and detangle your minds self.
Monday, July 18, 2011
Saturday, July 16, 2011
You Are Not, Nor Ever Were A Victim
Dear Friend,
If you are reading my writing, and have been for quite some time, what you have read is actually a coming of my mind, or my reality.
Once I believed in the illusion of separateness. Once I believed that my parents, peers, and eventually husband, were those who were doing something "to me". Now I know better. Now I realize at a conscious level, that what I believe I expected, and thus projected onto those around me. Believing I was no good, or not enough, caused me to "expect" to have others treat me as if I was not enough, so therefore even if that was not a reality for others in my life, because it is what I believed, projected, and expected, it is what I experienced and ultimately created in my life.
There is no separateness. On a quantum level, we are all one. The idea of separateness is a complete illusion. Our experiences are based on what we believe on an unconscious level. These beliefs have been programmed since childhood and along the way we have picked up beliefs, notions and ideas from those who have come in and out of our lives.
In order for you to be happy, you must uncover your deep belief systems, pick them apart and dispose of those who lead you onto any path that is rooted in the idea of separateness or hate.
At your core, you are perfect. Happiness is found when you return to that. There is no other in this world that can satisfy you the way in which you truly need to be satisfied. There is no man, no woman, no child, no car, no home, no trip that can give you what you are truly in need of...The healing you must seek must be one of de-programming your unconscious.
If you believe you need a mans attention to feel good, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to be a certain weight to be good enough, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to have a certain amount of money in the bank to be happy, that is a lie.
If you believe you must die of sickness in order to die, that is a lie.
If you believe someone is doing something to you to make you uncomfortable, even that is a lie.
If you are in an uncomfortable relationship with someone, that is because you do not believe you are worthy of a loving one, which means you do not believe you are love. Or it may be that you do not believe the other is capable of loving you, or being kind...either way you will experience in the other what you believe of the other from within.
If you do not believe you are worthy or are love, then whenever you look out into your environment you will project what you feel onto others, so even if they are trying to love you, you will not be able to accept it. Instead you will expect not to see love through your projection of it from within your own self. Eventually you will be disappointed by those in your life and believe on a conscious level that the others failed you. But the truth will be that you created what you experienced in real time, and thus will complete your internal cycle 360 degrees...Your inner speaks to you, "I am not worthy" and then your outer proves it...as you experience others as treating you as you are not worthy.
If we were all to return to our truth, which is that we are enough, that we are love, that we are all connected to one life source, then the need to feel unworthiness, or old, or used up, or not enough, would fade.
But the collective mind of government, who strongly believes in money and power, prefer to have you be the distracted, self loathing, obese, reality tv obsessed, terrorist fearing, diseased beings that so many of us are.
Freedom comes when one begins to understand that what they believe they create.
Turn off your televisions, for they serve only to confuse you and keep you in a state of chaotic unconscious programming. Turn off your radio's, for they too serve only to depress you, and fill you with more fear. Stop reading your newspapers. But if you do decide to watch the television, or listen to the radio, or read the newspaper, do it with a discerning ear. Absorb only those things that serve to uplift you, and refuse to allow the fear that is being projected globally through the various forms of vibrational energies out there, root within you. Fear is a very dense vibrational space. Do not put your eyes upon statistics, ideas of terrorism, cancer, or disease, for all of these things cannot be experienced within your reality unless invited by thought and held in place by fear of it, and a belief that it is or one day may be a part of your experience here.
Instead begin loving. Begin loving you, your children, your spouse, your apartment, your bed, your bathroom, your toenails, your lips, and your soul. Allow that love vibration to grow so that when you look outside you train your brains eye to see only things that uplift you like the beauty in cloud formation, or the vibrant colors in flowers. Train your mind to look away from news and information that takes you out of harmonious alignment. When in conversation with others, do not participate when the conversation turns in a negative direction. Keep still to what vibration you are trying to maintain.
Decide right now to begin creating your own reality by choosing to believe your own thoughts. But know that no matter what beliefs you hold true, at your core, you are perfect, complete and a loving being.
If you are reading my writing, and have been for quite some time, what you have read is actually a coming of my mind, or my reality.
Once I believed in the illusion of separateness. Once I believed that my parents, peers, and eventually husband, were those who were doing something "to me". Now I know better. Now I realize at a conscious level, that what I believe I expected, and thus projected onto those around me. Believing I was no good, or not enough, caused me to "expect" to have others treat me as if I was not enough, so therefore even if that was not a reality for others in my life, because it is what I believed, projected, and expected, it is what I experienced and ultimately created in my life.
There is no separateness. On a quantum level, we are all one. The idea of separateness is a complete illusion. Our experiences are based on what we believe on an unconscious level. These beliefs have been programmed since childhood and along the way we have picked up beliefs, notions and ideas from those who have come in and out of our lives.
In order for you to be happy, you must uncover your deep belief systems, pick them apart and dispose of those who lead you onto any path that is rooted in the idea of separateness or hate.
At your core, you are perfect. Happiness is found when you return to that. There is no other in this world that can satisfy you the way in which you truly need to be satisfied. There is no man, no woman, no child, no car, no home, no trip that can give you what you are truly in need of...The healing you must seek must be one of de-programming your unconscious.
If you believe you need a mans attention to feel good, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to be a certain weight to be good enough, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to have a certain amount of money in the bank to be happy, that is a lie.
If you believe you must die of sickness in order to die, that is a lie.
If you believe someone is doing something to you to make you uncomfortable, even that is a lie.
If you are in an uncomfortable relationship with someone, that is because you do not believe you are worthy of a loving one, which means you do not believe you are love. Or it may be that you do not believe the other is capable of loving you, or being kind...either way you will experience in the other what you believe of the other from within.
If you do not believe you are worthy or are love, then whenever you look out into your environment you will project what you feel onto others, so even if they are trying to love you, you will not be able to accept it. Instead you will expect not to see love through your projection of it from within your own self. Eventually you will be disappointed by those in your life and believe on a conscious level that the others failed you. But the truth will be that you created what you experienced in real time, and thus will complete your internal cycle 360 degrees...Your inner speaks to you, "I am not worthy" and then your outer proves it...as you experience others as treating you as you are not worthy.
If we were all to return to our truth, which is that we are enough, that we are love, that we are all connected to one life source, then the need to feel unworthiness, or old, or used up, or not enough, would fade.
But the collective mind of government, who strongly believes in money and power, prefer to have you be the distracted, self loathing, obese, reality tv obsessed, terrorist fearing, diseased beings that so many of us are.
Freedom comes when one begins to understand that what they believe they create.
Turn off your televisions, for they serve only to confuse you and keep you in a state of chaotic unconscious programming. Turn off your radio's, for they too serve only to depress you, and fill you with more fear. Stop reading your newspapers. But if you do decide to watch the television, or listen to the radio, or read the newspaper, do it with a discerning ear. Absorb only those things that serve to uplift you, and refuse to allow the fear that is being projected globally through the various forms of vibrational energies out there, root within you. Fear is a very dense vibrational space. Do not put your eyes upon statistics, ideas of terrorism, cancer, or disease, for all of these things cannot be experienced within your reality unless invited by thought and held in place by fear of it, and a belief that it is or one day may be a part of your experience here.
Instead begin loving. Begin loving you, your children, your spouse, your apartment, your bed, your bathroom, your toenails, your lips, and your soul. Allow that love vibration to grow so that when you look outside you train your brains eye to see only things that uplift you like the beauty in cloud formation, or the vibrant colors in flowers. Train your mind to look away from news and information that takes you out of harmonious alignment. When in conversation with others, do not participate when the conversation turns in a negative direction. Keep still to what vibration you are trying to maintain.
Decide right now to begin creating your own reality by choosing to believe your own thoughts. But know that no matter what beliefs you hold true, at your core, you are perfect, complete and a loving being.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Yes! Ignore Reality
If it is so that the brain cannot tell the difference between what is a fantasy, and what is true in time space reality, and if it is so that the brain can do a thing in time space reality, while being lost within ones thoughts, like when one arrives home at the end of the day, has sat in much traffic, and once inside his/her home, wonders, "How the hell did I get home? I can't even remember what route I took to get here."
If this is all true, then it is not necessary to 'react or give in' to any chaos that is happening in time and space. If this is so, then it is possible to instead make the conscious choice to create ones own reality within the rails of ones own mind, while still doing what needs to be done in time space reality.
It is possible then to have a boss who is wishing to pressure you to work more effectively, and for you to although acknowledge the bosses wishes, to not take on the bosses anxiety and instead visualize yourself laying on a beach in the Caribbean somewhere while you are doing the work it is you normally do.
It is possible to instead of reacting to a disagreement you may have had with your spouse, by pondering and attracting into your mind through your unguarded thoughts and through the power of the law of attraction more thoughts that get you angry, which by the way is what you DON'T want, to stay in your mind and create the feeling you DO want.
If your primary intent is harmony, then it is necessary for you to ignore what is happening in time space reality, and to instead stay FOCUSED on what you DO want.
Most people spend more time focusing on what they DO NOT want instead of what they DO want.
What is happening in time space reality is a by product of all the pre paving of thought and or fear or hopefully of joy, that you have done before this time. The key to manifesting the life you want is to choose to begin focusing more NOW, so you can begin to pre pave the reality and the feelings you want to show up in the future.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are considering an affair.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if you today you ignore your children.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you choose to get drunk-again.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are irresponsible in your finances.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if all you can think about is how to get through today.
If you want peace tomorrow, you have to begin finding here and now, so to help you attract more of it in your future. We always get what we think of most. What are you thinking my friend?
If this is all true, then it is not necessary to 'react or give in' to any chaos that is happening in time and space. If this is so, then it is possible to instead make the conscious choice to create ones own reality within the rails of ones own mind, while still doing what needs to be done in time space reality.
It is possible then to have a boss who is wishing to pressure you to work more effectively, and for you to although acknowledge the bosses wishes, to not take on the bosses anxiety and instead visualize yourself laying on a beach in the Caribbean somewhere while you are doing the work it is you normally do.
It is possible to instead of reacting to a disagreement you may have had with your spouse, by pondering and attracting into your mind through your unguarded thoughts and through the power of the law of attraction more thoughts that get you angry, which by the way is what you DON'T want, to stay in your mind and create the feeling you DO want.
If your primary intent is harmony, then it is necessary for you to ignore what is happening in time space reality, and to instead stay FOCUSED on what you DO want.
Most people spend more time focusing on what they DO NOT want instead of what they DO want.
What is happening in time space reality is a by product of all the pre paving of thought and or fear or hopefully of joy, that you have done before this time. The key to manifesting the life you want is to choose to begin focusing more NOW, so you can begin to pre pave the reality and the feelings you want to show up in the future.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are considering an affair.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if you today you ignore your children.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you choose to get drunk-again.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are irresponsible in your finances.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if all you can think about is how to get through today.
If you want peace tomorrow, you have to begin finding here and now, so to help you attract more of it in your future. We always get what we think of most. What are you thinking my friend?
Thursday, July 14, 2011
What To Do When Things Go Wrong
In life, when things seem to go wrong, sometimes what is truly happening is you are being pulled away and or off of those things in which you are truly not wanting.
One early morning, as I was writing at my computer I heard a tremendous 'whoosh' outside my home. A few moments later my neighbor knocked at my front door. The giant half rotten tree that was standing directly in front of my home had been uprooted and was now laying spread across the front of my home. When it landed it totaled my grey, beat up minivan, and also took out an old white fence that lined my front yard.
To my neighbors and even to my children the site was one of devastation. But in my heart I could feel this little happy dance going on.
The truth is, I hated the site of that big, old rotten tree, I had grown tired of that beat up old minivan, and the white rickety fence did not match the rest of the fence that surrounded my home. Inside of me, as the firemen arrived to survey the damages, I was so happy that the three things I wished to change in my life at the time, all got taken care of in one shot.
The interesting thing was, at the time, I was not as aware as I am now about the law of attraction. I spoke of it like I would about my breakfast choice of the day. Now I know better.
I remember the negative feelings I had about that tree, my minivan and my fence. But I also remember the positive feelings I had when I dreamed about what my house might look like without that rotten tree spoiling the way it looked, and about getting a new white Equinox. I remember going to Home Depot and checking out what types of fences I would prefer to line my home, and I remember how happy that made me feel inside.
Just a few short days later, I had enough insurance money to help me buy the exact white Equinox I wanted. In fact I drove it off the showroom floor. I also purchased the exact cute little white picket fence I wanted to line my yard. The city has yet to replace the tree.
When things go wrong externally, sometimes its just the energy around you kicking up speed. As you become more and more in alignment with what you are truly wanting, energy speeds up.
When things go wrong, it is important to learn how to step out of your reality of time and space and take a broader perspective on your situation. Most often what manifests as something wrong, is the path the universe has chosen to get you to where you are truly wanting to go. If you are able to mind your emotions along the way, you will have an effortless transition from here to there.
When frightening thoughts enter your mind, feel the negative emotion of it, and then quickly force your focus onto something, or someone that you love. Today while writing this piece, fear began to fill me as I had intended to write about the Holocaust. As I began to write, I felt a strong negative emotion come into me, and so I deleted the piece. Then I quickly changed my point of attraction and deliberately focused on a beautiful picture of my daughter Lee Lee when she was about 4 at the beach. Her smile is wide, her hair is flowing in the breeze and the ocean is rolling towards her in the background. I immediately felt my energy shift from negative to positive. And then and only then I started to write again. This piece is what was born.
I hope it has enlightened you.
One early morning, as I was writing at my computer I heard a tremendous 'whoosh' outside my home. A few moments later my neighbor knocked at my front door. The giant half rotten tree that was standing directly in front of my home had been uprooted and was now laying spread across the front of my home. When it landed it totaled my grey, beat up minivan, and also took out an old white fence that lined my front yard.
To my neighbors and even to my children the site was one of devastation. But in my heart I could feel this little happy dance going on.
The truth is, I hated the site of that big, old rotten tree, I had grown tired of that beat up old minivan, and the white rickety fence did not match the rest of the fence that surrounded my home. Inside of me, as the firemen arrived to survey the damages, I was so happy that the three things I wished to change in my life at the time, all got taken care of in one shot.
The interesting thing was, at the time, I was not as aware as I am now about the law of attraction. I spoke of it like I would about my breakfast choice of the day. Now I know better.
I remember the negative feelings I had about that tree, my minivan and my fence. But I also remember the positive feelings I had when I dreamed about what my house might look like without that rotten tree spoiling the way it looked, and about getting a new white Equinox. I remember going to Home Depot and checking out what types of fences I would prefer to line my home, and I remember how happy that made me feel inside.
Just a few short days later, I had enough insurance money to help me buy the exact white Equinox I wanted. In fact I drove it off the showroom floor. I also purchased the exact cute little white picket fence I wanted to line my yard. The city has yet to replace the tree.
When things go wrong externally, sometimes its just the energy around you kicking up speed. As you become more and more in alignment with what you are truly wanting, energy speeds up.
When things go wrong, it is important to learn how to step out of your reality of time and space and take a broader perspective on your situation. Most often what manifests as something wrong, is the path the universe has chosen to get you to where you are truly wanting to go. If you are able to mind your emotions along the way, you will have an effortless transition from here to there.
When frightening thoughts enter your mind, feel the negative emotion of it, and then quickly force your focus onto something, or someone that you love. Today while writing this piece, fear began to fill me as I had intended to write about the Holocaust. As I began to write, I felt a strong negative emotion come into me, and so I deleted the piece. Then I quickly changed my point of attraction and deliberately focused on a beautiful picture of my daughter Lee Lee when she was about 4 at the beach. Her smile is wide, her hair is flowing in the breeze and the ocean is rolling towards her in the background. I immediately felt my energy shift from negative to positive. And then and only then I started to write again. This piece is what was born.
I hope it has enlightened you.
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
The Key to Manifestations
Your brain is a magnet. Your brain is a transmitter as well as a receiver. All day long, whether you acknowledge it consciously or not, you are emitting and receiving information, (vibrations). When you are driving and you notice an angry irate driver beside you, what you are noticing are his/her vibrations. You receive these messages vibrationally and then interpret them through your brain. Whatever you are in tune with internally or shall I say vibrationally, you will be drawn into your environment.
This is such great news...because if you want really wonderful things to show up in your time space reality, then all you have to do is spend more time in your mind vibrationally, thinking and pondering about things you believe are wonderful. When you allow your mind to consider only what things you know will bring you joy, and when you allow the thinking of those joyful things to grow in you like a wildfire you increase the intensity of the frequency you are emitting with your brain...You increase tremendously your brains attracting power through the intensity of your thoughts.
Doubt me?
Okay...try this...Today I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz...All day long I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz. Put a picture of a white Mercedes Benz in your mind, and consider it as often as you remember to do so today...And watch how often you notice one in your environment today...
You will notice a white Mercedes Benz today because you have keyed up your vibration for it, and in doing so you likened your vibration with it, so will draw it into your experience.
Learning to focus on what you do want instead of what you don't want so to deliberately create the manifestation you desire is the key to absolute joy.
There are no victims here. Just beings who have not yet learned to, or are aware that they are the creator of whatever reality they are living.
This is such great news...because if you want really wonderful things to show up in your time space reality, then all you have to do is spend more time in your mind vibrationally, thinking and pondering about things you believe are wonderful. When you allow your mind to consider only what things you know will bring you joy, and when you allow the thinking of those joyful things to grow in you like a wildfire you increase the intensity of the frequency you are emitting with your brain...You increase tremendously your brains attracting power through the intensity of your thoughts.
Doubt me?
Okay...try this...Today I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz...All day long I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz. Put a picture of a white Mercedes Benz in your mind, and consider it as often as you remember to do so today...And watch how often you notice one in your environment today...
You will notice a white Mercedes Benz today because you have keyed up your vibration for it, and in doing so you likened your vibration with it, so will draw it into your experience.
Learning to focus on what you do want instead of what you don't want so to deliberately create the manifestation you desire is the key to absolute joy.
There are no victims here. Just beings who have not yet learned to, or are aware that they are the creator of whatever reality they are living.
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
How To Lead A Happy Life
If your life is full of worry, know you are going in the wrong direction. If your life is full of anxiety, know your mind is simply swimming upstream instead of downstream.
Your mind, when uncontrolled by your consciousness is like a speed boat without a driver. Every mind needs someone behind the wheel, otherwise it will simply do what it was intended to do physically, and hold thought. The mind connects one thought to a similar thought. So if your thoughts are uncontrolled, or un-policed, or you are unaware that you can even tell your mind what thoughts you want to think, your negative thoughts will create another similar thought, and so on and so on.
Please consider that which I have just written.
Much of what we worry about, need not be. It is the law of attraction working in a negative direction rather than a positive direction.
Your feelings are your internal guidance system. Your feelings will tell you if your thoughts are not being controlled by your conscious thinking aware self.
When you begin to feel doubt, or shame, or anger, or frustration, use those feelings as a tool to help you think more in alignment with how you truly want to feel.
The goal isn't to jump from rage to joy in seconds...The goal is to feel a little better from moment to moment. If you are feeling rage, then the feeling you should reach for might be one of frustration rather than the rage. Then as you ALLOW yourself the freedom to feel a little better in frustration, the next feeling you can reach for is acceptance. As you ALLOW your body to feel the ease of acceptance, you then shift your mind to create a thought that ALLOWS you to feel a little better than acceptance, like perhaps understanding...and so it is as you try to reach up the emotional ladder.
This process is within your control at all times. It is a process we should be teaching our children from birth.
But far too often people find themselves wanting to stay in the negative because it fuels their silly ego...
The ego is worldly based....
The enlightened mind understands it is an energy being first, and that joy is its only reason for existence...
Ego's are incapable of joy....
Your mind, when uncontrolled by your consciousness is like a speed boat without a driver. Every mind needs someone behind the wheel, otherwise it will simply do what it was intended to do physically, and hold thought. The mind connects one thought to a similar thought. So if your thoughts are uncontrolled, or un-policed, or you are unaware that you can even tell your mind what thoughts you want to think, your negative thoughts will create another similar thought, and so on and so on.
Please consider that which I have just written.
Much of what we worry about, need not be. It is the law of attraction working in a negative direction rather than a positive direction.
Your feelings are your internal guidance system. Your feelings will tell you if your thoughts are not being controlled by your conscious thinking aware self.
When you begin to feel doubt, or shame, or anger, or frustration, use those feelings as a tool to help you think more in alignment with how you truly want to feel.
The goal isn't to jump from rage to joy in seconds...The goal is to feel a little better from moment to moment. If you are feeling rage, then the feeling you should reach for might be one of frustration rather than the rage. Then as you ALLOW yourself the freedom to feel a little better in frustration, the next feeling you can reach for is acceptance. As you ALLOW your body to feel the ease of acceptance, you then shift your mind to create a thought that ALLOWS you to feel a little better than acceptance, like perhaps understanding...and so it is as you try to reach up the emotional ladder.
This process is within your control at all times. It is a process we should be teaching our children from birth.
But far too often people find themselves wanting to stay in the negative because it fuels their silly ego...
The ego is worldly based....
The enlightened mind understands it is an energy being first, and that joy is its only reason for existence...
Ego's are incapable of joy....
Monday, July 11, 2011
Why Do I Keep Getting What I Don't Want
Whatever you focus most upon will manifest in your time and space reality, because you are sending out a vibration that insists that is what you are looking for.
We all must become more deliberate in our thoughts...waking each morning...training our minds to intend how the day is going to be.
Waking up with the words, "I hate getting up", just might set out the vibration that you don't want to get up tomorrow...And so you might not wake up at all...
Focus upon that which you are wanting to see...Intend to have peaceful days with your spouse...Intend for harmony with others to be your greatest desire for the day, and watch how your day unfolds...
We all must become more deliberate in our thoughts...waking each morning...training our minds to intend how the day is going to be.
Waking up with the words, "I hate getting up", just might set out the vibration that you don't want to get up tomorrow...And so you might not wake up at all...
Focus upon that which you are wanting to see...Intend to have peaceful days with your spouse...Intend for harmony with others to be your greatest desire for the day, and watch how your day unfolds...
Saturday, July 9, 2011
How Can I Attract the Things That I Want Using The Law of Attraction
If you are wanting to attract the things that your heart desires into your experience, there are things you first must know.
Just as you must be made aware of the laws of society so that you may stay within their guidelines, so to avoid trouble, or lead a peaceful life because you have chosen to obey these manmade laws, it is with laws that govern this universe.
Likes attract likes through their magnetic pulling power as which is evident in every physical thing of the universe.
If you are truly wanting physical things to appear in your time space reality, and you want to use the law of attraction more effectively to ensure you get what you want, then it will be necessary for you to become a student of the law of attraction, for there is much to know.
What you think of most, you attract. If you are worried about a cheating spouse, you will fill your marriage with so much doubt, you will undermine it and eventually find a cheating spouse. If you are afraid your child will not do well in school, your anxiety will cause your child not to do well. If you fill your life with panic and anxiety, you will undoubtedly be experiencing circumstances that fill your realty with panic and anxiety, like cheating spouses and struggling children.
You first must spend time learning to still your mind so that you can hear what it is you are wanting...When you have finally fallen upon that thought, then you will need to ask yourself why it is you want what you want...
The reason for this is so to help you illicit positive emotional responses within you vibrationally, so that your mind can attract more strongly that which you want.
The more you think about what you want, and the more positively you feel about that which you want the faster what you want appears.
A quick tip; You must learn NOT to give your focus to silly things...like what someone else is wearing, or how they are behaving, what color their hair is, or whether or not they have breast implants...You must not invite into your mind, the worry about what others think about you, feel about you or what they are doing on Friday night.
What you do need to do is invite into your mind an allowing...You must learn to stay focused in your mind on the thing you are wanting. And when your mind wanders off to something silly that society has tried to program you to deem worthy of thought, turn from that silly thought and find your point of focus again.
Another tip; You cannot attract love when all you focus upon is how lonely you feel. You must focus upon how it would feel for you to attract the love you want. You must write about it, imagine it, buy the perfume you would buy to wear around the love of your life, go to the places you would like to go when you find your love, and buy clothes you would wear if you were in love.
In doing so you will create strong positive emotions within, which will help your vibrations fall into alignment with what you are asking...And as you come more into alignment with what you desire, the universe can then work its magic...
If you begin focusing on what you do want, and how you will feel when you get what you want, the law of attraction will deliver to you that which you are wanting...It has to..Its the Law.
If you are wanting peace, but all you do is focus on the fear you are feeling, perhaps in a bad relationship, only more fear can show up. Whatever you think of most will keep reappearing. If you are in a bad relationship, you must find something in your mind to focus upon and love, so that that feeling of love and peace can grow. It isn't easy...but the only way out of whatever hell you are in, is through your mind...
If you are overweight, and all you focus upon is how heavy you are...you will stay heavy...What you must learn to do is find that feeling place within you that forces you to feel as if you are already thin. Look at the clothes you would buy if you were thin, shop in places you would if you were thin, and ease into feeling as if you truly were thin...
THE TRUE KEY TO ALL OF THIS...IS TO LEARN TO STOP PUSHING WHAT YOU WANT AWAY...WHEN YOU SEE A CAR YOU WANT, JUST PULL IT IN WITH YOUR MIND...DON'T STOP THE ATTRACTING POWER OF IT BUY SAYING TO YOURSELF YOU WILL NEVER GET THAT CAR...YOU DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR THAT CAR ETC...WHEN YOU SEE PEOPLE IN LOVE, DON'T HATE THEM FOR HAVING WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU WANT TO FEEL...PULL IT IN...PULL IN THEIR FEELINGS FOR ONE ANOTHER INTO YOU...DON'T PUSH IT AWAY...
IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT, DO NOT SAY ILL THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE WHO ARE THIN...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU HOW YOU COULD DRESS AND HOW YOU COULD FEEL...PULL THIN PEOPLE INTO YOU...DO NOT PUSH THIN AWAY BY FOCUSING ON WHAT THEY HAVE THAT YOU WANT IN A NEGATIVE LIGHT...WHEN YOU DO YOU REINFORCE YOUR OWN OBESE MINDSET...
Remember, your predominant emotional thoughts are why you are wherever you are in your life...
You can choose however, deliberate creation of your physical reality.
Just as you must be made aware of the laws of society so that you may stay within their guidelines, so to avoid trouble, or lead a peaceful life because you have chosen to obey these manmade laws, it is with laws that govern this universe.
Likes attract likes through their magnetic pulling power as which is evident in every physical thing of the universe.
If you are truly wanting physical things to appear in your time space reality, and you want to use the law of attraction more effectively to ensure you get what you want, then it will be necessary for you to become a student of the law of attraction, for there is much to know.
What you think of most, you attract. If you are worried about a cheating spouse, you will fill your marriage with so much doubt, you will undermine it and eventually find a cheating spouse. If you are afraid your child will not do well in school, your anxiety will cause your child not to do well. If you fill your life with panic and anxiety, you will undoubtedly be experiencing circumstances that fill your realty with panic and anxiety, like cheating spouses and struggling children.
You first must spend time learning to still your mind so that you can hear what it is you are wanting...When you have finally fallen upon that thought, then you will need to ask yourself why it is you want what you want...
The reason for this is so to help you illicit positive emotional responses within you vibrationally, so that your mind can attract more strongly that which you want.
The more you think about what you want, and the more positively you feel about that which you want the faster what you want appears.
A quick tip; You must learn NOT to give your focus to silly things...like what someone else is wearing, or how they are behaving, what color their hair is, or whether or not they have breast implants...You must not invite into your mind, the worry about what others think about you, feel about you or what they are doing on Friday night.
What you do need to do is invite into your mind an allowing...You must learn to stay focused in your mind on the thing you are wanting. And when your mind wanders off to something silly that society has tried to program you to deem worthy of thought, turn from that silly thought and find your point of focus again.
Another tip; You cannot attract love when all you focus upon is how lonely you feel. You must focus upon how it would feel for you to attract the love you want. You must write about it, imagine it, buy the perfume you would buy to wear around the love of your life, go to the places you would like to go when you find your love, and buy clothes you would wear if you were in love.
In doing so you will create strong positive emotions within, which will help your vibrations fall into alignment with what you are asking...And as you come more into alignment with what you desire, the universe can then work its magic...
If you begin focusing on what you do want, and how you will feel when you get what you want, the law of attraction will deliver to you that which you are wanting...It has to..Its the Law.
If you are wanting peace, but all you do is focus on the fear you are feeling, perhaps in a bad relationship, only more fear can show up. Whatever you think of most will keep reappearing. If you are in a bad relationship, you must find something in your mind to focus upon and love, so that that feeling of love and peace can grow. It isn't easy...but the only way out of whatever hell you are in, is through your mind...
If you are overweight, and all you focus upon is how heavy you are...you will stay heavy...What you must learn to do is find that feeling place within you that forces you to feel as if you are already thin. Look at the clothes you would buy if you were thin, shop in places you would if you were thin, and ease into feeling as if you truly were thin...
THE TRUE KEY TO ALL OF THIS...IS TO LEARN TO STOP PUSHING WHAT YOU WANT AWAY...WHEN YOU SEE A CAR YOU WANT, JUST PULL IT IN WITH YOUR MIND...DON'T STOP THE ATTRACTING POWER OF IT BUY SAYING TO YOURSELF YOU WILL NEVER GET THAT CAR...YOU DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR THAT CAR ETC...WHEN YOU SEE PEOPLE IN LOVE, DON'T HATE THEM FOR HAVING WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU WANT TO FEEL...PULL IT IN...PULL IN THEIR FEELINGS FOR ONE ANOTHER INTO YOU...DON'T PUSH IT AWAY...
IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT, DO NOT SAY ILL THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE WHO ARE THIN...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU HOW YOU COULD DRESS AND HOW YOU COULD FEEL...PULL THIN PEOPLE INTO YOU...DO NOT PUSH THIN AWAY BY FOCUSING ON WHAT THEY HAVE THAT YOU WANT IN A NEGATIVE LIGHT...WHEN YOU DO YOU REINFORCE YOUR OWN OBESE MINDSET...
Remember, your predominant emotional thoughts are why you are wherever you are in your life...
You can choose however, deliberate creation of your physical reality.
How Can I Attract the Things That I Want Using The Law of Attraction
If you are wanting to attract the things that your heart desires into your experience, there are things you first must know.
Just as you must be made aware of the laws of society so that you may stay within their guidelines, so to avoid trouble, or lead a peaceful life because you have chosen to obey these manmade laws, it is with laws that govern this universe.
Likes attract likes through their magnetic pulling power as which is evident in every physical thing of the universe.
If you are truly wanting physical things to appear in your time space reality, and you want to use the law of attraction more effectively to ensure you get what you want, then it will be necessary for you to become a student of the law of attraction, for there is much to know.
What you think of most, you attract. If you are worried about a cheating spouse, you will fill your marriage with so much doubt, you will undermine it and eventually find a cheating spouse. If you are afraid your child will not do well in school, your anxiety will cause your child not to do well. If you fill your life with panic and anxiety, you will undoubtedly be experiencing circumstances that fill your realty with panic and anxiety, like cheating spouses and struggling children.
You first must spend time learning to still your mind so that you can hear what it is you are wanting...When you have finally fallen upon that thought, then you will need to ask yourself why it is you want what you want...
The reason for this is so to help you illicit positive emotional responses within you vibrationally, so that your mind can attract more strongly that which you want.
The more you think about what you want, and the more positively you feel about that which you want the faster what you want appears.
A quick tip; You must learn NOT to give your focus to silly things...like what someone else is wearing, or how they are behaving, what color their hair is, or whether or not they have breast implants...You must not invite into your mind, the worry about what others think about you, feel about you or what they are doing on Friday night.
What you do need to do is invite into your mind an allowing...You must learn to stay focused in your mind on the thing you are wanting. And when your mind wanders off to something silly that society has tried to program you to deem worthy of thought, turn from that silly thought and find your point of focus again.
Another tip; You cannot attract love when all you focus upon is how lonely you feel. You must focus upon how it would feel for you to attract the love you want. You must write about it, imagine it, buy the perfume you would buy to wear around the love of your life, go to the places you would like to go when you find your love, and buy clothes you would wear if you were in love.
In doing so you will create strong positive emotions within, which will help your vibrations fall into alignment with what you are asking...And as you come more into alignment with what you desire, the universe can then work its magic...
If you begin focusing on what you do want, and how you will feel when you get what you want, the law of attraction will deliver to you that which you are wanting...It has to..Its the Law.
If you are wanting peace, but all you do is focus on the fear you are feeling, perhaps in a bad relationship, only more fear can show up. Whatever you think of most will keep reappearing. If you are in a bad relationship, you must find something in your mind to focus upon and love, so that that feeling of love and peace can grow. It isn't easy...but the only way out of whatever hell you are in, is through your mind...
If you are overweight, and all you focus upon is how heavy you are...you will stay heavy...What you must learn to do is find that feeling place within you that forces you to feel as if you are already thin. Look at the clothes you would buy if you were thin, shop in places you would if you were thin, and ease into feeling as if you truly were thin...
THE TRUE KEY TO ALL OF THIS...IS TO LEARN TO STOP PUSHING WHAT YOU WANT AWAY...WHEN YOU SEE A CAR YOU WANT, JUST PULL IT IN WITH YOUR MIND...DON'T STOP THE ATTRACTING POWER OF IT BUY SAYING TO YOURSELF YOU WILL NEVER GET THAT CAR...YOU DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR THAT CAR ETC...WHEN YOU SEE PEOPLE IN LOVE, DON'T HATE THEM FOR HAVING WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU WANT TO FEEL...PULL IT IN...PULL IN THEIR FEELINGS FOR ONE ANOTHER INTO YOU...DON'T PUSH IT AWAY...
IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT, DO NOT SAY ILL THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE WHO ARE THIN...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU HOW YOU COULD DRESS AND HOW YOU COULD FEEL...PULL THIN PEOPLE INTO YOU...DO NOT PUSH THIN AWAY BY FOCUSING ON WHAT THEY HAVE THAT YOU WANT IN A NEGATIVE LIGHT...WHEN YOU DO YOU REINFORCE YOUR OWN OBESE MINDSET...
Remember, your predominant emotional thoughts are why you are wherever you are in your life...
You can choose however, deliberate creation of your physical reality.
Just as you must be made aware of the laws of society so that you may stay within their guidelines, so to avoid trouble, or lead a peaceful life because you have chosen to obey these manmade laws, it is with laws that govern this universe.
Likes attract likes through their magnetic pulling power as which is evident in every physical thing of the universe.
If you are truly wanting physical things to appear in your time space reality, and you want to use the law of attraction more effectively to ensure you get what you want, then it will be necessary for you to become a student of the law of attraction, for there is much to know.
What you think of most, you attract. If you are worried about a cheating spouse, you will fill your marriage with so much doubt, you will undermine it and eventually find a cheating spouse. If you are afraid your child will not do well in school, your anxiety will cause your child not to do well. If you fill your life with panic and anxiety, you will undoubtedly be experiencing circumstances that fill your realty with panic and anxiety, like cheating spouses and struggling children.
You first must spend time learning to still your mind so that you can hear what it is you are wanting...When you have finally fallen upon that thought, then you will need to ask yourself why it is you want what you want...
The reason for this is so to help you illicit positive emotional responses within you vibrationally, so that your mind can attract more strongly that which you want.
The more you think about what you want, and the more positively you feel about that which you want the faster what you want appears.
A quick tip; You must learn NOT to give your focus to silly things...like what someone else is wearing, or how they are behaving, what color their hair is, or whether or not they have breast implants...You must not invite into your mind, the worry about what others think about you, feel about you or what they are doing on Friday night.
What you do need to do is invite into your mind an allowing...You must learn to stay focused in your mind on the thing you are wanting. And when your mind wanders off to something silly that society has tried to program you to deem worthy of thought, turn from that silly thought and find your point of focus again.
Another tip; You cannot attract love when all you focus upon is how lonely you feel. You must focus upon how it would feel for you to attract the love you want. You must write about it, imagine it, buy the perfume you would buy to wear around the love of your life, go to the places you would like to go when you find your love, and buy clothes you would wear if you were in love.
In doing so you will create strong positive emotions within, which will help your vibrations fall into alignment with what you are asking...And as you come more into alignment with what you desire, the universe can then work its magic...
If you begin focusing on what you do want, and how you will feel when you get what you want, the law of attraction will deliver to you that which you are wanting...It has to..Its the Law.
If you are wanting peace, but all you do is focus on the fear you are feeling, perhaps in a bad relationship, only more fear can show up. Whatever you think of most will keep reappearing. If you are in a bad relationship, you must find something in your mind to focus upon and love, so that that feeling of love and peace can grow. It isn't easy...but the only way out of whatever hell you are in, is through your mind...
If you are overweight, and all you focus upon is how heavy you are...you will stay heavy...What you must learn to do is find that feeling place within you that forces you to feel as if you are already thin. Look at the clothes you would buy if you were thin, shop in places you would if you were thin, and ease into feeling as if you truly were thin...
THE TRUE KEY TO ALL OF THIS...IS TO LEARN TO STOP PUSHING WHAT YOU WANT AWAY...WHEN YOU SEE A CAR YOU WANT, JUST PULL IT IN WITH YOUR MIND...DON'T STOP THE ATTRACTING POWER OF IT BUY SAYING TO YOURSELF YOU WILL NEVER GET THAT CAR...YOU DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR THAT CAR ETC...WHEN YOU SEE PEOPLE IN LOVE, DON'T HATE THEM FOR HAVING WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU WANT TO FEEL...PULL IT IN...PULL IN THEIR FEELINGS FOR ONE ANOTHER INTO YOU...DON'T PUSH IT AWAY...
IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT, DO NOT SAY ILL THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE WHO ARE THIN...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU WHAT YOU WANT...THEY ARE THERE TO SHOW YOU HOW YOU COULD DRESS AND HOW YOU COULD FEEL...PULL THIN PEOPLE INTO YOU...DO NOT PUSH THIN AWAY BY FOCUSING ON WHAT THEY HAVE THAT YOU WANT IN A NEGATIVE LIGHT...WHEN YOU DO YOU REINFORCE YOUR OWN OBESE MINDSET...
Remember, your predominant emotional thoughts are why you are wherever you are in your life...
You can choose however, deliberate creation of your physical reality.
Thursday, July 7, 2011
What Is My Purpose?
If you are pondering the question, "What is my purpose?", know that you are amongst rare human beings who have had the insight to contemplate such an enormous thought.
You are rare because somewhere inside of you you have connected to the idea that your life is supposed to have meaning. You do not want to leave this earth, as if you had never existed at all. Within you is a desire to know more, to understand more, and to find a way to figure it all out.
Which is what lead you to this blog.
You are of the same life force or source, that has given birth to the moons, the oceans, the stars and the flowers that blanket this land we inhabit. That same life source, that causes the beating of a cellular heart, beats within you. You are magnificent.
Your work here, is to figure out through trial as well as errors, what feels right for you. As you collect information about the experiences you have attracted into your life, it is your purpose to begin sifting through that information for what makes your spirit soar. And as you begin discovering more of the thoughts that make you feel joy, you begin to lean more towards it. You learn, as so many humans do not, to lean towards what feels right instead of what feels negative or bad.
That means if you are in a marriage that is draining you, and your partner refuses to grow and move in a more harmonious direction, you must leave it. First mentally, then emotionally and then finally physically. If you dislike your job, and you can feel yourself doing something else that you love, then you must begin moving in another direction that pleases you.
This all means, you begin taking emotionally inventory, and stop blaming others for why you are where you are...
You created it all...even the parts you don't like very much.
But in a heartbeat, and with many future heartbeats, you can begin designing your life deliberately, reaching for joy as the proof that you are moving in the right direction.
You came here to figure that out, so that life source can live through you and use reality as its "thought canvas"...
You are rare because somewhere inside of you you have connected to the idea that your life is supposed to have meaning. You do not want to leave this earth, as if you had never existed at all. Within you is a desire to know more, to understand more, and to find a way to figure it all out.
Which is what lead you to this blog.
You are of the same life force or source, that has given birth to the moons, the oceans, the stars and the flowers that blanket this land we inhabit. That same life source, that causes the beating of a cellular heart, beats within you. You are magnificent.
Your work here, is to figure out through trial as well as errors, what feels right for you. As you collect information about the experiences you have attracted into your life, it is your purpose to begin sifting through that information for what makes your spirit soar. And as you begin discovering more of the thoughts that make you feel joy, you begin to lean more towards it. You learn, as so many humans do not, to lean towards what feels right instead of what feels negative or bad.
That means if you are in a marriage that is draining you, and your partner refuses to grow and move in a more harmonious direction, you must leave it. First mentally, then emotionally and then finally physically. If you dislike your job, and you can feel yourself doing something else that you love, then you must begin moving in another direction that pleases you.
This all means, you begin taking emotionally inventory, and stop blaming others for why you are where you are...
You created it all...even the parts you don't like very much.
But in a heartbeat, and with many future heartbeats, you can begin designing your life deliberately, reaching for joy as the proof that you are moving in the right direction.
You came here to figure that out, so that life source can live through you and use reality as its "thought canvas"...
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