What you don't like in someone else, is what you refuse to see in your self.
No one is bothering you. You are bothered by them.
The world doesn't owe you a thing. Your world is as happy or as miserable as you decide you want it to be.
You don't have the right to expect others to change. But you can change who you choose to have relationships with.
You can't expect others to like you, when you don't even like you.
You alone are responsible for your own happiness. If you're not happy, its because you're not thinking happy thoughts.
You're dysfunctional relationships, are simply manifestations of the dysfunctional relationship you have with your self.
Analyze you, before you analyze others.
If you have any hate for others in your heart, then you still don't understand that we are all connected.
This life is but a blink of an eye, in the grand scheme of the universes.
If you don't learn to control the direction of your thoughts, your living by default, and have not yet mastered the art of deliberate creating....
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
You Were Born Free, You Will Die Free-Will You Live Free?
Each one of us was born free. As newborn infants we were void of attachments to ideas. Our mind was our own, and we did with it what we pleased. Completely detached from thoughts, our beings felt free to express whatever it was we tiny beings needed to. We did what felt natural and what was instinctive. We laughed and we cried when we wanted to. And we opened our eyes and closed them according to our own will, unconcerned with the opinions, needs or wants of others.
Each one of us will also die. And in the moment our physical body ceases to be able to sustain our bodily functions, we shall once again be free. We will leave this realm detached from any form of conditioned societal, familial, religious or governmental programming. It is a fact. No one expects anything from us in the moments we are born, or in the moments we die.
The key to living a joyous experience, is found in learning how to live freely, detached from dysfunctional programming. Imagine if the world around you continued treating you as if in every moment you were still being born, or taking your last breaths. How would you think your parents, spouses, siblings, friends, or religious leaders would treat you? How would you treat you?
When infants are born, or when people are dying, the world around them leaves them alone, and stops expecting them to be something they are not. We never feel more accepted by others or of by our selves than in the moments we are born, and in the moments we are dying. The key to happiness however, is found in learning to find that acceptance right where you are, now!
Learning To Accept You
It is impossible to respect others if you do not respect yourself. Begin learning to accept you, by practicing self love, self responsibility, and self reliance. Commit to honoring your self by telling your truth. Be responsible for your own finances and well being. Stop blaming others for your downfalls or misfortunes.
Be Honest
Tell the truth even when it hurts others. You're truest responsibility is to your self.
Be Kind
Practice being kind to others, but especially to your self.
Be Easy
Stop judging others, and others will stop judging you, and eventually you'll stop judging your self.
Try to remember what it felt like the moment you were born.
Each one of us will also die. And in the moment our physical body ceases to be able to sustain our bodily functions, we shall once again be free. We will leave this realm detached from any form of conditioned societal, familial, religious or governmental programming. It is a fact. No one expects anything from us in the moments we are born, or in the moments we die.
The key to living a joyous experience, is found in learning how to live freely, detached from dysfunctional programming. Imagine if the world around you continued treating you as if in every moment you were still being born, or taking your last breaths. How would you think your parents, spouses, siblings, friends, or religious leaders would treat you? How would you treat you?
When infants are born, or when people are dying, the world around them leaves them alone, and stops expecting them to be something they are not. We never feel more accepted by others or of by our selves than in the moments we are born, and in the moments we are dying. The key to happiness however, is found in learning to find that acceptance right where you are, now!
Learning To Accept You
It is impossible to respect others if you do not respect yourself. Begin learning to accept you, by practicing self love, self responsibility, and self reliance. Commit to honoring your self by telling your truth. Be responsible for your own finances and well being. Stop blaming others for your downfalls or misfortunes.
Be Honest
Tell the truth even when it hurts others. You're truest responsibility is to your self.
Be Kind
Practice being kind to others, but especially to your self.
Be Easy
Stop judging others, and others will stop judging you, and eventually you'll stop judging your self.
Try to remember what it felt like the moment you were born.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Where Your Attention Goes Energy Flows
So what's going on with you these days? Are you depressed or happy? Are you doing well in business, or losing your shirt? Are your relationships harmonious, or are they draining?
Wherever you focus your attention, your energy is flowing in that direction. Energy makes whatever it touches grow. So, if your focus is usually upon negative things rather than positive things, know that your attention to the very thing you don't want in your life, has no choice but to expand.
If you change the way you look at your world, the world changes. Focusing on things that only make you feel worse will in no way ever make you feel better. No matter who you are, if you are breathing there is something you can be happy about. The sun always comes up tomorrow, and the world continues to spin, without checking with you first.
If you pay more attention to the things you don't like about someone opposed to pondering upon the things you do like about someone, by the law of attraction, and of course good old common sense, momentum of thought alone will cause your negativity towards that someone to grow. In time, if this thinking is not altered, a pattern of negative thought will have been ingrained within your mindset, and a habit of thought will have formed, which will ultimately cement itself in your mind as a belief. Once a belief has been learned, it is very difficult to change, although it can be done.
Learning how to steer your mind is the most important work you can do. Here are some things you can try to help you figure out what your paying attention to, so you can begin directing where your energy flows.
Journaling; Through journaling of thoughts, one learns to observe ones own belief system.
Meditation; Meditation helps clear negative thoughts.
Learning: Reading self help books that teach how to uncover faulty belief systems helps us learn about why we do what we do, and how we can change our minds for the better.
Without knowing what we think, it is hard to decide if what we think, we want to think. When we learn to think what we want to think, we finally harness the secrets to the universe, through the deliberate creating of our desired realities.
Wherever you focus your attention, your energy is flowing in that direction. Energy makes whatever it touches grow. So, if your focus is usually upon negative things rather than positive things, know that your attention to the very thing you don't want in your life, has no choice but to expand.
If you change the way you look at your world, the world changes. Focusing on things that only make you feel worse will in no way ever make you feel better. No matter who you are, if you are breathing there is something you can be happy about. The sun always comes up tomorrow, and the world continues to spin, without checking with you first.
If you pay more attention to the things you don't like about someone opposed to pondering upon the things you do like about someone, by the law of attraction, and of course good old common sense, momentum of thought alone will cause your negativity towards that someone to grow. In time, if this thinking is not altered, a pattern of negative thought will have been ingrained within your mindset, and a habit of thought will have formed, which will ultimately cement itself in your mind as a belief. Once a belief has been learned, it is very difficult to change, although it can be done.
Learning how to steer your mind is the most important work you can do. Here are some things you can try to help you figure out what your paying attention to, so you can begin directing where your energy flows.
Journaling; Through journaling of thoughts, one learns to observe ones own belief system.
Meditation; Meditation helps clear negative thoughts.
Learning: Reading self help books that teach how to uncover faulty belief systems helps us learn about why we do what we do, and how we can change our minds for the better.
Without knowing what we think, it is hard to decide if what we think, we want to think. When we learn to think what we want to think, we finally harness the secrets to the universe, through the deliberate creating of our desired realities.
Thursday, October 27, 2011
Love: What It Really Is
"Damn...I am so angry..it's raining today", "Wow, I am so happy, its sunny today". Both of these sentences describe a "feeling".
These feelings are the results of perception.
These perceptions are based on ones core beliefs.
The mind has been taught to place judgements to beliefs.
Beliefs then are judged according to our perceptions of what is happening in our reality.
So if my core conditioned belief about rain is negative, I will then experience a negative "FEELING".
If my core conditioned belief about the sun is positive, then I will experience a positive "FEELING".
LOVE MY FRIENDS IS NOT A FEELING.....
Feelings are based on values we place on experiences we have been conditioned to believe in.
The word LOVE has been abused throughout history.
Men who batter their wives, parents who beat their children, and owners who beat their dogs all "believe" they love their wives, children and animals.
LOVE-Real Authentic Love is emotionless, meaning, it is attached to no outcome...The object of your affection, needs not to be or prove anything to you in order to gain your love...
When love is pure, it is non-reactive, pure and stable.
If you were to study mountains, and flowers, and if you were to open your mind to the romance the mountains have with the sky and the wind, you would understand the true meaning of love.
Love-Authentic love requires a letting go of the intellectual and emotional ideas about love.
The key is to choose to love those who add to your experience rather than take away from your experience. Deeper, we all first must learn to love ourselves without judgements, very much the way a flower welcomes and needs both the sun as well as the rain.
These feelings are the results of perception.
These perceptions are based on ones core beliefs.
The mind has been taught to place judgements to beliefs.
Beliefs then are judged according to our perceptions of what is happening in our reality.
So if my core conditioned belief about rain is negative, I will then experience a negative "FEELING".
If my core conditioned belief about the sun is positive, then I will experience a positive "FEELING".
LOVE MY FRIENDS IS NOT A FEELING.....
Feelings are based on values we place on experiences we have been conditioned to believe in.
The word LOVE has been abused throughout history.
Men who batter their wives, parents who beat their children, and owners who beat their dogs all "believe" they love their wives, children and animals.
LOVE-Real Authentic Love is emotionless, meaning, it is attached to no outcome...The object of your affection, needs not to be or prove anything to you in order to gain your love...
When love is pure, it is non-reactive, pure and stable.
If you were to study mountains, and flowers, and if you were to open your mind to the romance the mountains have with the sky and the wind, you would understand the true meaning of love.
Love-Authentic love requires a letting go of the intellectual and emotional ideas about love.
The key is to choose to love those who add to your experience rather than take away from your experience. Deeper, we all first must learn to love ourselves without judgements, very much the way a flower welcomes and needs both the sun as well as the rain.
Want More Money? Try This...
While the Law of Attraction is one that is the quantum truth that proves likes attract like, but also proves that simply by "observing" a field of energy, the field itself changes...can bring many of our desires to manifestation in the physical realm, sometimes the actualizing of money can be a little tricky.
When we visualize things like a healthy body, or a soul mate, it is easy to tune into the "emotions" a healthy body of a soul mate will bring. Those "emotions" are waves that, when sent out into the universe, attract more unto it, since emotions are charged wave particles.
When we visualize money, what we must do is find the "feeling" money will bring to us by having it.
While visualizing money, or the more having of it, it is critical to attach to your meditation, the emotion of gratitude.
Look around you...Be thankful for the car you have, or the shoes you are wearing, or the meal you had this morning, and will have later. Be grateful for the gas you put in your car, for the plates you ate from...and most importantly, on a deep level-connect to the thought that "money" is what made all that you have, eat and do possible.
It is not the thing...that you want...it is not even the money that you want...What you want is the "feeling" the money can bring in exchange for the "thing" that will supply to you the "feeling" of having that "thing" represent...
Coupling the Law of Attraction with The Law of Gratitude is the key to manifesting more money into your life...
When we visualize things like a healthy body, or a soul mate, it is easy to tune into the "emotions" a healthy body of a soul mate will bring. Those "emotions" are waves that, when sent out into the universe, attract more unto it, since emotions are charged wave particles.
When we visualize money, what we must do is find the "feeling" money will bring to us by having it.
While visualizing money, or the more having of it, it is critical to attach to your meditation, the emotion of gratitude.
Look around you...Be thankful for the car you have, or the shoes you are wearing, or the meal you had this morning, and will have later. Be grateful for the gas you put in your car, for the plates you ate from...and most importantly, on a deep level-connect to the thought that "money" is what made all that you have, eat and do possible.
It is not the thing...that you want...it is not even the money that you want...What you want is the "feeling" the money can bring in exchange for the "thing" that will supply to you the "feeling" of having that "thing" represent...
Coupling the Law of Attraction with The Law of Gratitude is the key to manifesting more money into your life...
Lady Gaga Uses Law of Attraction
On a recent journey through keystroke land, I found a plethora of cyberspace articles written about Lady Gaga and the LOA. It seems as if there is some kind of debate as to whether her success is the result of her using magical laws of the universe to her advantage. I had to laugh out loud...and those of you who are enlightened probably already know why.
WE ARE ALL UNDER THE LAW OF ATTRACTION WHETHER WE COHERENTLY, WITH A CONSCIOUS MIND ACKNOWLEDGE THAT TRUTH OR NOT.
Ones life is the result of ones thoughts-period! What is in, will come out-period! If you are a happy being, it is because your source, your soul-your being, is...If you are an irritable person, it is because you have not connected truly to the essence of who you are, which is light, peace and love-period.
If you are in a dysfunctional relationship-that is because you are in a dysfunctional relationship with your-self.
If you abuse food, eat in secret, drink in secret, gamble in secret, have affairs in secret, and alike, that is because your true essence is a mystery to you...
BUT when you are in alignment with your magnificence, like Lady Gaga is, and when you are pure love, peace and joy, like Lady Gaga is...and when you are an Indigo Child like Lady Gaga is, you are a physical manifestation of pure positive energy source....and the world notices...
In my opinion, Lady Gaga is the Princess of Indigo Children...
She is one who has come to inspire other Indigo's with her creativity and her norm busting will...
May she forever reign....
And may all creatures eventually KNOW their lives are governed by the Law of Attraction...its just that some of us use that law to our advantage, while others live ignorant of it...
WE ARE ALL UNDER THE LAW OF ATTRACTION WHETHER WE COHERENTLY, WITH A CONSCIOUS MIND ACKNOWLEDGE THAT TRUTH OR NOT.
Ones life is the result of ones thoughts-period! What is in, will come out-period! If you are a happy being, it is because your source, your soul-your being, is...If you are an irritable person, it is because you have not connected truly to the essence of who you are, which is light, peace and love-period.
If you are in a dysfunctional relationship-that is because you are in a dysfunctional relationship with your-self.
If you abuse food, eat in secret, drink in secret, gamble in secret, have affairs in secret, and alike, that is because your true essence is a mystery to you...
BUT when you are in alignment with your magnificence, like Lady Gaga is, and when you are pure love, peace and joy, like Lady Gaga is...and when you are an Indigo Child like Lady Gaga is, you are a physical manifestation of pure positive energy source....and the world notices...
In my opinion, Lady Gaga is the Princess of Indigo Children...
She is one who has come to inspire other Indigo's with her creativity and her norm busting will...
May she forever reign....
And may all creatures eventually KNOW their lives are governed by the Law of Attraction...its just that some of us use that law to our advantage, while others live ignorant of it...
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Reality is Not a Reality (When You Hate, You Hate You)
The statement, "Reality is Not a Reality", to those who have studied metaphysics, is one that is easily understood. To those however, who have not yet found the desire to ponder the world beyond ones current understanding of it, the statement is not so easily comprehended, although the statement holds true whether it is understood or not.
Any one persons reality is based on the perceptions of the one doing the observing.
A tall oak tree, when viewed through the eyes of a mosquito, is perceived in one way, and a bird perched high on one of the trees branches perceives the tree in an entirely different way.
Both mosquito and bird observing the same tree, but whose realities concerning the tree are completely unalike, thus reality is created by the observer of it.
Reality, whether we realize it consciously or not, is based on the perceptions of the observer.
Relationships get tricky when two or more people get together, and assume they share the same reality concerning any number of topics.
The way a woman perceives the thing called "her marriage" may not be a vibrational match for the thing her husband calls "his marriage". Both sharing this thing called "marriage", but both perceiving it quite differently.
Time, is a concept that was created centuries ago to help keep people on track...but even time does not exist, for time is not a "thing" that has feet or legs, that has the ability to "pass" us. The phrase, "so much time has past", means what?
Space is not space, and although we have been conditioned to believe in these things called reality, time and space, the truth is all of it is an illusion.
Space is far from void. It is made up of electromagnetic fields full of atomic stuff...The idea or the notion that space is "empty" is bogus.
It is a testament to mankind at all that we are as civilized a society as we are, considering the scientific fact that each one of us creates our own distinct reality.
While I may look at an attractive, fun loving, intelligent woman and think, "Wow...she looks amazing. And I am going to try and be more like her, because her energy is so uplifting", another woman might look at her and think, "Hmm...who does she think she is? She is so stuck up...what a b_____."
Although both of us would be perceiving the same woman, the notions about "who" we are effects our realities concerning the woman.
In reality, no pun intended...its never about the other person...It's always about us...
We create our own realities, and until mankind wakes up...and begins to COMPREHEND the vast being he/she is, and that we are all connected on a vibrational level to all that is, and that when we hate others, we hate extensions of who and what we truly are, our realities will fail to be as joyous as our source intended it to be...
Any one persons reality is based on the perceptions of the one doing the observing.
A tall oak tree, when viewed through the eyes of a mosquito, is perceived in one way, and a bird perched high on one of the trees branches perceives the tree in an entirely different way.
Both mosquito and bird observing the same tree, but whose realities concerning the tree are completely unalike, thus reality is created by the observer of it.
Reality, whether we realize it consciously or not, is based on the perceptions of the observer.
Relationships get tricky when two or more people get together, and assume they share the same reality concerning any number of topics.
The way a woman perceives the thing called "her marriage" may not be a vibrational match for the thing her husband calls "his marriage". Both sharing this thing called "marriage", but both perceiving it quite differently.
Time, is a concept that was created centuries ago to help keep people on track...but even time does not exist, for time is not a "thing" that has feet or legs, that has the ability to "pass" us. The phrase, "so much time has past", means what?
Space is not space, and although we have been conditioned to believe in these things called reality, time and space, the truth is all of it is an illusion.
Space is far from void. It is made up of electromagnetic fields full of atomic stuff...The idea or the notion that space is "empty" is bogus.
It is a testament to mankind at all that we are as civilized a society as we are, considering the scientific fact that each one of us creates our own distinct reality.
While I may look at an attractive, fun loving, intelligent woman and think, "Wow...she looks amazing. And I am going to try and be more like her, because her energy is so uplifting", another woman might look at her and think, "Hmm...who does she think she is? She is so stuck up...what a b_____."
Although both of us would be perceiving the same woman, the notions about "who" we are effects our realities concerning the woman.
In reality, no pun intended...its never about the other person...It's always about us...
We create our own realities, and until mankind wakes up...and begins to COMPREHEND the vast being he/she is, and that we are all connected on a vibrational level to all that is, and that when we hate others, we hate extensions of who and what we truly are, our realities will fail to be as joyous as our source intended it to be...
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Indigo Children
Indigo's are suspected to be those amongst us who have come with a purpose. They were born tender souls, with the ability to encompass great empathy for others. Unlike so many, who are born unaware of any obligation or connection to others, Indigo's come into this world feeling connected to all that is.
The problem for Indigo's is that this material world does not encourage connectedness. In fact, it is a world system that implies separateness, and not enoughness. Mass consciousness today, is the result of old world energy systems, most of which have been born out of suffering, like the Great Depression, World Wars, Genocide and the AIDS epidemic. If we take a giant step back and sit on the moon, while peering down on our societal "mind set", the programming done by our government, through the various media streams, hovers above not only our glorious planet, but our minds, like the grim reaper.
Indigo's are children who have been chastised by others for being different. They are different. They are not bullies, for they feel too deeply for others to dare harm another emotionally. But because the world's emotional system is the result of many fear based birthed ideas, bullies stroll this planet conditioned to be the tyrants they are. Indigo's unfortunately, because they have been born with such an extreme ability to "feel", are often seen as weak, and suffer at the fingers of ill ideas.
When I was 12 years old, I was teased so severely I put a pistol to my head.
The pain of not being loved was so deep it nearly swallowed me up. I, an intense, feeling child, was bewildered by the vast contrast between my innate desire to love those around me, and their visceral inability to love me at all.
While tears broke from the corners of my eyes, and as I stared deeply into my soul, in my mothers bedroom mirror, I recall distinctly hearing a voice...who told me..."Lisa, put the gun down...One day you will show them."
Over the years, and through extremely painful experiences, I wondered what that message meant. But, always felt deep within, a pulling towards something more...
As I learned to confront fear after fear, the clouds parted, and life became beautiful.
Free of the old programming of my family, and of the world as well, I no longer listen to the news, read the paper, or speak of issues that reflect the fear "the old world system" wishes for the masses to believe in.
With the coming of 2012, only "New World Ideas" will thrive. As human consciousness rises, herd mentalities must diminish. Those who share my ideas of enlightenment have spent their time studying consciousness, ascension of the mind and alike.
To those who think my writing borders Obey One type language, I beckon you to concern yourself less with the mundane.
Know that you are enough. Know that no one has to make you happy. You have all the tools within you to be joyful, content, and one with all that is. Know that separateness is a tool of the old world system, (think Genocide...think Hitler...think KKK) to spark fear and hate in the heart of man.
Know that governments, CEO's, and the elite, know these truths. If one man can make another man angry, or hate, or believe he is in danger, then the one infusing the ideas, can predict the actions of the man he is controlling. Cancer, diabetes, adultery, alcoholism, and gambling, are all ways those at the wheel get to keep the herds in line.
And as far as ADD meds go, I find myself hoping that in the "New World", that instead of suppressing the multi dimensional forms of communication and perceptions children of ADD possess, we seek to learn from them instead.
This world is multi dimensional, all though the powers at large, prefer you go on believing in what you see on the news.
Humans are good....Humans are love...and when you love you, you cannot help but love others..Then wars stop...then obesity stops, then racism stops...then self loathing stop...then alcoholism stops...then divorce stops...Then what? What happens to our court systems, our pharmaceutical companies...our government spending on wars...on our stock market???
Think about it....
The problem for Indigo's is that this material world does not encourage connectedness. In fact, it is a world system that implies separateness, and not enoughness. Mass consciousness today, is the result of old world energy systems, most of which have been born out of suffering, like the Great Depression, World Wars, Genocide and the AIDS epidemic. If we take a giant step back and sit on the moon, while peering down on our societal "mind set", the programming done by our government, through the various media streams, hovers above not only our glorious planet, but our minds, like the grim reaper.
Indigo's are children who have been chastised by others for being different. They are different. They are not bullies, for they feel too deeply for others to dare harm another emotionally. But because the world's emotional system is the result of many fear based birthed ideas, bullies stroll this planet conditioned to be the tyrants they are. Indigo's unfortunately, because they have been born with such an extreme ability to "feel", are often seen as weak, and suffer at the fingers of ill ideas.
When I was 12 years old, I was teased so severely I put a pistol to my head.
The pain of not being loved was so deep it nearly swallowed me up. I, an intense, feeling child, was bewildered by the vast contrast between my innate desire to love those around me, and their visceral inability to love me at all.
While tears broke from the corners of my eyes, and as I stared deeply into my soul, in my mothers bedroom mirror, I recall distinctly hearing a voice...who told me..."Lisa, put the gun down...One day you will show them."
Over the years, and through extremely painful experiences, I wondered what that message meant. But, always felt deep within, a pulling towards something more...
As I learned to confront fear after fear, the clouds parted, and life became beautiful.
Free of the old programming of my family, and of the world as well, I no longer listen to the news, read the paper, or speak of issues that reflect the fear "the old world system" wishes for the masses to believe in.
With the coming of 2012, only "New World Ideas" will thrive. As human consciousness rises, herd mentalities must diminish. Those who share my ideas of enlightenment have spent their time studying consciousness, ascension of the mind and alike.
To those who think my writing borders Obey One type language, I beckon you to concern yourself less with the mundane.
Know that you are enough. Know that no one has to make you happy. You have all the tools within you to be joyful, content, and one with all that is. Know that separateness is a tool of the old world system, (think Genocide...think Hitler...think KKK) to spark fear and hate in the heart of man.
Know that governments, CEO's, and the elite, know these truths. If one man can make another man angry, or hate, or believe he is in danger, then the one infusing the ideas, can predict the actions of the man he is controlling. Cancer, diabetes, adultery, alcoholism, and gambling, are all ways those at the wheel get to keep the herds in line.
And as far as ADD meds go, I find myself hoping that in the "New World", that instead of suppressing the multi dimensional forms of communication and perceptions children of ADD possess, we seek to learn from them instead.
This world is multi dimensional, all though the powers at large, prefer you go on believing in what you see on the news.
Humans are good....Humans are love...and when you love you, you cannot help but love others..Then wars stop...then obesity stops, then racism stops...then self loathing stop...then alcoholism stops...then divorce stops...Then what? What happens to our court systems, our pharmaceutical companies...our government spending on wars...on our stock market???
Think about it....
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