You are a creator. You create in your thoughts first, and then it appears in your reality.
You do not recognize it as the law of attraction, because it seems too simple, these things you do so ordinarily on a daily basis, but it is the LOA whether you acknowledge that it is or not.
Have you ever wanted a specific type of sneaker? Have you ever found the exact pair of sneakers, bought them and then worn them? If you have, that is the Law of Attraction.
What first happened in your thoughts, you then created in your physical.
First what you were wanting was part of the non-physical; a thought, and then it was experienced in your reality as a physicality; a material thing.
If you did not BELIEVE it were possible for you to acquire those sneakers, then you would never have found them.
Your non belief would have cancelled your wanting of them, and thus would have killed the birthing of your desire.
If you are in an unhappy, violent relationship and do NOT believe you can leave it, then you will not.
Instead you will remain stuck and overwhelmed by all the negative energy that is being stagnated by your inability to pull your thinking forward towards more positive non physical thoughts. Without a belief for that which you are wanting, you cannot use the LOA effectively.
If you want something you do not believe you can do, or acquire, it can never be drawn to you...
What you create in your non physical (thoughts) will produce in the physical (reality in time space).
Science has proven that thoughts are magnetically charged, and that like attracts like.
Your time space reality is merely a mirror into your subconscious BELIEF system. If you live in a beautiful home, enjoy your job, have health, prosperity, and a fulfilling relationship, know this is a reflection of the relationship you have with your Self, or your inner being. It reflects a Self that has found love in its own beingness.
If your life is chaotic, unsettling, and if you are unhealthy, and in an dysfunctional relationship, it is because your relationship with your Self is chaotic, unsettled, unhealthy, and dysfunctional. Your lack of love for your Self, is being mirrored in your time space reality.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Pain And How To Transcend It
Speaking from a metaphysical point of view, if you can change your perception of pain, you can transcend it.
If you can change the meaning you have attached to pain and DETACH from the fear the human mind has learned to attach to pain, you can move beyond it.
If you were to thank pain for pointing out to you what area of your life you are needing to pay attention to, you would associate a good feeling to pain rather than a negative one like fear.
Pain is often not what holds people back from healing. Instead it is the fear and the whirlwind of attracting negative emotion through like thoughts that is ultimately what destroys the being and renders it assuming it is helpless.
If you can change the meaning you have attached to pain and DETACH from the fear the human mind has learned to attach to pain, you can move beyond it.
If you were to thank pain for pointing out to you what area of your life you are needing to pay attention to, you would associate a good feeling to pain rather than a negative one like fear.
Pain is often not what holds people back from healing. Instead it is the fear and the whirlwind of attracting negative emotion through like thoughts that is ultimately what destroys the being and renders it assuming it is helpless.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Enablers and How To Leave An Addict
If you are an enabler, then you are enabling whomever it is you are in a relationship with. If you are involved with an addict, you, as defined by your own definition are enabling that addiction.
If you truly believe this is so, you must fully and consciously become aware,(completely, drop the B/S of denial you may have been living in) that you are only helping the addict stay sick.
You have only one choice. Stop...stop doing whatever it is you are doing to help them stay sick. Stop lying, stop covering up, stop turning your head, stop rushing them to the ER, stop making excuses for why you are so overwhelmed, and most of all stop acting like how YOU feel doesn't matter.
Think about this...
You came into this world alone, and you will die alone...In your last moments on this physical earth, and as your physical being begins to shut down, your energy will be summoned out of your body. What should have been a life long journey that was full of joy, excitement, and new Self discoveries, will have been lost...because rather than seeking to find things that make you happy, you will have instead given all your attention to a sick brain...On top of that, in all the caring for that you thought you were doing, you did nothing more but help keep that brain sick...
Enablers, release your desire to control the actions of one who is sick...
Enablers, DETACH from the negative emotion of guilt, and wanting to control the other who is choosing his own destiny, and attracting to him only more negativity. By the power of the Law of Attraction, you are both, you and the addict attracting only more of what you are already experiencing. And until one of you shifts his/her point of focus, you can only attract more of what you are already getting.
Change your mind, and change the course of your life. It is law...
If you truly believe this is so, you must fully and consciously become aware,(completely, drop the B/S of denial you may have been living in) that you are only helping the addict stay sick.
You have only one choice. Stop...stop doing whatever it is you are doing to help them stay sick. Stop lying, stop covering up, stop turning your head, stop rushing them to the ER, stop making excuses for why you are so overwhelmed, and most of all stop acting like how YOU feel doesn't matter.
Think about this...
You came into this world alone, and you will die alone...In your last moments on this physical earth, and as your physical being begins to shut down, your energy will be summoned out of your body. What should have been a life long journey that was full of joy, excitement, and new Self discoveries, will have been lost...because rather than seeking to find things that make you happy, you will have instead given all your attention to a sick brain...On top of that, in all the caring for that you thought you were doing, you did nothing more but help keep that brain sick...
Enablers, release your desire to control the actions of one who is sick...
Enablers, DETACH from the negative emotion of guilt, and wanting to control the other who is choosing his own destiny, and attracting to him only more negativity. By the power of the Law of Attraction, you are both, you and the addict attracting only more of what you are already experiencing. And until one of you shifts his/her point of focus, you can only attract more of what you are already getting.
Change your mind, and change the course of your life. It is law...
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Married Too Quickly
I was recently contacted by a reader who told me he thought he got married too quickly. He said that although he knew his bride for many years prior to their marriage, he was feeling that they married too quickly once they began planning a life together for the future.
He was concerned with the idea that he didn't feel like he and his bride had a real connection. He felt distant from her. He felt as if they were just coexisting. He felt as if there were no sparks between them.
What my reader was describing was the lack of "attracting" power between he and his wife. What this man is looking for is something "metaphysical". He is looking for a thing which cannot be seen, nor touched, but can only be felt in the emotional realm. Where is this emotional realm within us then? Where is this feeling place? Where is the piece of us that is looking to "feel" within us, that draws us to and repels us against others and things in our environment?
I am going to attempt to explain a very complex subject area in a very simple way...and believe you will have a greater understanding as well as an appreciation for that which you and I truly are.
At your core you are an atom.
At the core of all that you see, and don't see, like oxygen, is an atom.
An atom contains within it pure light or energy. That's all. It is a molecular balloon if you will that holds energy, opposed to water like a balloon. This space is within every cell of your body...every cell.
Within each molecular balloon is energy. That is your "feeling" place. Ever hear the phrase, "you lit up when you saw him"? Or what about, "you're glowing"? Ever feel sick to your stomach while watching something violent on television? Where was this place, or this thing within you that made you feel such repulsion? And notice I said "feel"...
We humans speak of emotions but rarely consider where they take place within us, or even what emotions are...
Your belief system, which is primarily your childhood programming and conditioning, plays a significant role in how you process the world around you...If you believe eating caterpillars is the way to get to heaven, then you will light up around caterpillars because that is your conditioning, while someone else would "feel" sick to their stomach watching you delight in the ingestion of such fuzzy yellow creatures.
Back to my reader.
Without him being able to objectively and without judgement uncover the beliefs that govern his thinking, he will never be able to know why it is he feels what he does.
If in his mind he hears the phrase, "I got married too quickly", then throughout the day he will attract ideas from his environment that support that uncovered belief. If he is hanging out with guys who are single, or if he is attracting other attractive women into his life, or if he is simply unable to make himself happy within the confines of a marital union, and on some unconscious level presumes it is his wife's duty to "make" him happy, he will continually find things to support those uncovered beliefs.
The first thing he must do is, know what he is thinking.
Then he must try to figure out why he thinks as he does. Have his friends been influencing him? Does he need to find a passion for a hobby of his own? Are his expectations of marriage unrealistic, or is his bride a truly draining, uninteresting person?
Until he comes to know what it is he is thinking, and until his core beliefs are unearthed, his life will continue to draw to him information that supports his thinking, through the law of attraction.
What ever you spend most of the time thinking about always shows up. It can be no other way. It is the law.
Know what you are thinking, and you can begin to draw to you that which you do want instead of that which you do not want.
He was concerned with the idea that he didn't feel like he and his bride had a real connection. He felt distant from her. He felt as if they were just coexisting. He felt as if there were no sparks between them.
What my reader was describing was the lack of "attracting" power between he and his wife. What this man is looking for is something "metaphysical". He is looking for a thing which cannot be seen, nor touched, but can only be felt in the emotional realm. Where is this emotional realm within us then? Where is this feeling place? Where is the piece of us that is looking to "feel" within us, that draws us to and repels us against others and things in our environment?
I am going to attempt to explain a very complex subject area in a very simple way...and believe you will have a greater understanding as well as an appreciation for that which you and I truly are.
At your core you are an atom.
At the core of all that you see, and don't see, like oxygen, is an atom.
An atom contains within it pure light or energy. That's all. It is a molecular balloon if you will that holds energy, opposed to water like a balloon. This space is within every cell of your body...every cell.
Within each molecular balloon is energy. That is your "feeling" place. Ever hear the phrase, "you lit up when you saw him"? Or what about, "you're glowing"? Ever feel sick to your stomach while watching something violent on television? Where was this place, or this thing within you that made you feel such repulsion? And notice I said "feel"...
We humans speak of emotions but rarely consider where they take place within us, or even what emotions are...
Your belief system, which is primarily your childhood programming and conditioning, plays a significant role in how you process the world around you...If you believe eating caterpillars is the way to get to heaven, then you will light up around caterpillars because that is your conditioning, while someone else would "feel" sick to their stomach watching you delight in the ingestion of such fuzzy yellow creatures.
Back to my reader.
Without him being able to objectively and without judgement uncover the beliefs that govern his thinking, he will never be able to know why it is he feels what he does.
If in his mind he hears the phrase, "I got married too quickly", then throughout the day he will attract ideas from his environment that support that uncovered belief. If he is hanging out with guys who are single, or if he is attracting other attractive women into his life, or if he is simply unable to make himself happy within the confines of a marital union, and on some unconscious level presumes it is his wife's duty to "make" him happy, he will continually find things to support those uncovered beliefs.
The first thing he must do is, know what he is thinking.
Then he must try to figure out why he thinks as he does. Have his friends been influencing him? Does he need to find a passion for a hobby of his own? Are his expectations of marriage unrealistic, or is his bride a truly draining, uninteresting person?
Until he comes to know what it is he is thinking, and until his core beliefs are unearthed, his life will continue to draw to him information that supports his thinking, through the law of attraction.
What ever you spend most of the time thinking about always shows up. It can be no other way. It is the law.
Know what you are thinking, and you can begin to draw to you that which you do want instead of that which you do not want.
Monday, July 18, 2011
Enablers-Those Who Care Too Much
We all know one. We all know someone who for whatever reason seems to feel like the weight of the world is on his/her shoulders. They are those amongst us who are forever scouring around town, running everyone else's errands and usually doing those things for others, that those others could certainly do for themselves.
Most often enabling is a term reserved for those who are involved with another who is chemically addicted. The term 'codependent' was coined a few decades ago to describe the 'emotional disease' that occurs between one who is addicted, and another who is not addicted. The emotional disease is one that requires two participants. One person pursues the other while the other partner tends to withdraw.
In the case of an alcoholic fueled codependent relationship, the pursuer is the one trying to control the alcoholic. The goal is to get the alcoholic to stop drinking. The pursuer is so aware that the alcoholic is ruining his/her life, that they become obsessed with taking care of the alcoholic to the extreme. The pursuer spends more time thinking about how to take care of the alcoholic than they do worrying about what it is they need themselves. The problem is, the more the enabler pursues the alcoholic, the more the alcoholic withdraws and begins to shut down.
On the surface enablers look like they are only doing what is right for the person they care about. But that would only be a smidgeon of the real story.
When we pay more attention to what others think than to what we think, the mirror reality of that, which is our inner truth is, we simply do not know what we think. In fact, we are so foreign to our own Selves, that we would prefer to busy ourselves taking care of someone else than to take care of our own needs.
Enablers have been programmed to believe that their worth is found in doing for others. Enablers were raised to worry more about what others think, want or need, than what they think, want or need. Enablers are those who live in fear of disappointing others, and who can easily anticipate the needs of others, all while having no real clue as to what it might be that may make them happy.
On a psychological level, enablers are looking for a reflection of Self in the validation of others. Their personal belief system is one that has been twisted through the generations. Never having been taught that they are enough, enablers chase that fleeting sense of Self in the reflections of validations drenched in the bitterness of martyrdom. Enablers do and do and do, until their hearts bleed, all in the name of love. But this is not authentic love. This is codependency. A game of cat and mouse.
Although enablers are very kind, empathetic and compassionate human beings, the truth is they are just as manipulating as the addict. Holding true to the Laws of Attraction which states; That which is liken to itself is drawn', enablers and addicts fit like a tailor made glove on a delicate hand.
Whenever we are trying to manipulate someone into doing for us what we believe they should do under the false premise, that others are responsible for our happiness, we cheapen our existence, and fail to rise to the level of Self Actualization that serves us as glorious human beings.
Addicts need help, but not from those who enable their dependency on others as well as chemicals. Addicts need to fall when they trip, and learn to get back up again of their own accord. Enablers need not hide their alcohol, follow them home from work, pay their credit card or cell phone bills, go through their emails, or stalk them on facebook. Instead, enablers need to stop seeking a pseudo sense of Self in the doing for others or in the excessive worrying for others.
The key to any successful and healthy relationship is to first master ones relationship with ones Self.
Most often enabling is a term reserved for those who are involved with another who is chemically addicted. The term 'codependent' was coined a few decades ago to describe the 'emotional disease' that occurs between one who is addicted, and another who is not addicted. The emotional disease is one that requires two participants. One person pursues the other while the other partner tends to withdraw.
In the case of an alcoholic fueled codependent relationship, the pursuer is the one trying to control the alcoholic. The goal is to get the alcoholic to stop drinking. The pursuer is so aware that the alcoholic is ruining his/her life, that they become obsessed with taking care of the alcoholic to the extreme. The pursuer spends more time thinking about how to take care of the alcoholic than they do worrying about what it is they need themselves. The problem is, the more the enabler pursues the alcoholic, the more the alcoholic withdraws and begins to shut down.
On the surface enablers look like they are only doing what is right for the person they care about. But that would only be a smidgeon of the real story.
When we pay more attention to what others think than to what we think, the mirror reality of that, which is our inner truth is, we simply do not know what we think. In fact, we are so foreign to our own Selves, that we would prefer to busy ourselves taking care of someone else than to take care of our own needs.
Enablers have been programmed to believe that their worth is found in doing for others. Enablers were raised to worry more about what others think, want or need, than what they think, want or need. Enablers are those who live in fear of disappointing others, and who can easily anticipate the needs of others, all while having no real clue as to what it might be that may make them happy.
On a psychological level, enablers are looking for a reflection of Self in the validation of others. Their personal belief system is one that has been twisted through the generations. Never having been taught that they are enough, enablers chase that fleeting sense of Self in the reflections of validations drenched in the bitterness of martyrdom. Enablers do and do and do, until their hearts bleed, all in the name of love. But this is not authentic love. This is codependency. A game of cat and mouse.
Although enablers are very kind, empathetic and compassionate human beings, the truth is they are just as manipulating as the addict. Holding true to the Laws of Attraction which states; That which is liken to itself is drawn', enablers and addicts fit like a tailor made glove on a delicate hand.
Whenever we are trying to manipulate someone into doing for us what we believe they should do under the false premise, that others are responsible for our happiness, we cheapen our existence, and fail to rise to the level of Self Actualization that serves us as glorious human beings.
Addicts need help, but not from those who enable their dependency on others as well as chemicals. Addicts need to fall when they trip, and learn to get back up again of their own accord. Enablers need not hide their alcohol, follow them home from work, pay their credit card or cell phone bills, go through their emails, or stalk them on facebook. Instead, enablers need to stop seeking a pseudo sense of Self in the doing for others or in the excessive worrying for others.
The key to any successful and healthy relationship is to first master ones relationship with ones Self.
No Longer Happily Married, But Still Married
If you are no longer finding yourself happily married, but still married you will be finding it difficult not to continually find fault in your mate.
Our intimate relationship is the one relationship that mirrors to us our subconscious beliefs about ourselves and the world.
How we view our mate, very much reflects how we see ourselves.
If we no longer desire our mate, then you have lost interest in your own desires.
If you wish to ignore your mate, there is something inside of you you are neglecting.
If you are angry at your mate, there is something within you you are angry about.
If you no longer enjoy sex, you have stopped enjoying your own company.
If you are angry at your partner because he/she won't do act like you want them to act, then you are feeling controlled by your circumstances, and rather than start with changing yourself, you would rather have others change so that your existence is more tolerable...but it doesn't work that well...not well anyway...
If you have lost passion for your mate, you have lost passion for YOU...
If you are in an abusive relationship, then you abuse yourself, and for whatever reason see yourself as a victim.
If you are generally unhappy, irritable, and negative, chances are your self talk is unhappy, irritating and negative.
Uncover the subconscious beliefs that generate the thoughts you think, and detangle your minds self.
Our intimate relationship is the one relationship that mirrors to us our subconscious beliefs about ourselves and the world.
How we view our mate, very much reflects how we see ourselves.
If we no longer desire our mate, then you have lost interest in your own desires.
If you wish to ignore your mate, there is something inside of you you are neglecting.
If you are angry at your mate, there is something within you you are angry about.
If you no longer enjoy sex, you have stopped enjoying your own company.
If you are angry at your partner because he/she won't do act like you want them to act, then you are feeling controlled by your circumstances, and rather than start with changing yourself, you would rather have others change so that your existence is more tolerable...but it doesn't work that well...not well anyway...
If you have lost passion for your mate, you have lost passion for YOU...
If you are in an abusive relationship, then you abuse yourself, and for whatever reason see yourself as a victim.
If you are generally unhappy, irritable, and negative, chances are your self talk is unhappy, irritating and negative.
Uncover the subconscious beliefs that generate the thoughts you think, and detangle your minds self.
Saturday, July 16, 2011
You Are Not, Nor Ever Were A Victim
Dear Friend,
If you are reading my writing, and have been for quite some time, what you have read is actually a coming of my mind, or my reality.
Once I believed in the illusion of separateness. Once I believed that my parents, peers, and eventually husband, were those who were doing something "to me". Now I know better. Now I realize at a conscious level, that what I believe I expected, and thus projected onto those around me. Believing I was no good, or not enough, caused me to "expect" to have others treat me as if I was not enough, so therefore even if that was not a reality for others in my life, because it is what I believed, projected, and expected, it is what I experienced and ultimately created in my life.
There is no separateness. On a quantum level, we are all one. The idea of separateness is a complete illusion. Our experiences are based on what we believe on an unconscious level. These beliefs have been programmed since childhood and along the way we have picked up beliefs, notions and ideas from those who have come in and out of our lives.
In order for you to be happy, you must uncover your deep belief systems, pick them apart and dispose of those who lead you onto any path that is rooted in the idea of separateness or hate.
At your core, you are perfect. Happiness is found when you return to that. There is no other in this world that can satisfy you the way in which you truly need to be satisfied. There is no man, no woman, no child, no car, no home, no trip that can give you what you are truly in need of...The healing you must seek must be one of de-programming your unconscious.
If you believe you need a mans attention to feel good, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to be a certain weight to be good enough, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to have a certain amount of money in the bank to be happy, that is a lie.
If you believe you must die of sickness in order to die, that is a lie.
If you believe someone is doing something to you to make you uncomfortable, even that is a lie.
If you are in an uncomfortable relationship with someone, that is because you do not believe you are worthy of a loving one, which means you do not believe you are love. Or it may be that you do not believe the other is capable of loving you, or being kind...either way you will experience in the other what you believe of the other from within.
If you do not believe you are worthy or are love, then whenever you look out into your environment you will project what you feel onto others, so even if they are trying to love you, you will not be able to accept it. Instead you will expect not to see love through your projection of it from within your own self. Eventually you will be disappointed by those in your life and believe on a conscious level that the others failed you. But the truth will be that you created what you experienced in real time, and thus will complete your internal cycle 360 degrees...Your inner speaks to you, "I am not worthy" and then your outer proves it...as you experience others as treating you as you are not worthy.
If we were all to return to our truth, which is that we are enough, that we are love, that we are all connected to one life source, then the need to feel unworthiness, or old, or used up, or not enough, would fade.
But the collective mind of government, who strongly believes in money and power, prefer to have you be the distracted, self loathing, obese, reality tv obsessed, terrorist fearing, diseased beings that so many of us are.
Freedom comes when one begins to understand that what they believe they create.
Turn off your televisions, for they serve only to confuse you and keep you in a state of chaotic unconscious programming. Turn off your radio's, for they too serve only to depress you, and fill you with more fear. Stop reading your newspapers. But if you do decide to watch the television, or listen to the radio, or read the newspaper, do it with a discerning ear. Absorb only those things that serve to uplift you, and refuse to allow the fear that is being projected globally through the various forms of vibrational energies out there, root within you. Fear is a very dense vibrational space. Do not put your eyes upon statistics, ideas of terrorism, cancer, or disease, for all of these things cannot be experienced within your reality unless invited by thought and held in place by fear of it, and a belief that it is or one day may be a part of your experience here.
Instead begin loving. Begin loving you, your children, your spouse, your apartment, your bed, your bathroom, your toenails, your lips, and your soul. Allow that love vibration to grow so that when you look outside you train your brains eye to see only things that uplift you like the beauty in cloud formation, or the vibrant colors in flowers. Train your mind to look away from news and information that takes you out of harmonious alignment. When in conversation with others, do not participate when the conversation turns in a negative direction. Keep still to what vibration you are trying to maintain.
Decide right now to begin creating your own reality by choosing to believe your own thoughts. But know that no matter what beliefs you hold true, at your core, you are perfect, complete and a loving being.
If you are reading my writing, and have been for quite some time, what you have read is actually a coming of my mind, or my reality.
Once I believed in the illusion of separateness. Once I believed that my parents, peers, and eventually husband, were those who were doing something "to me". Now I know better. Now I realize at a conscious level, that what I believe I expected, and thus projected onto those around me. Believing I was no good, or not enough, caused me to "expect" to have others treat me as if I was not enough, so therefore even if that was not a reality for others in my life, because it is what I believed, projected, and expected, it is what I experienced and ultimately created in my life.
There is no separateness. On a quantum level, we are all one. The idea of separateness is a complete illusion. Our experiences are based on what we believe on an unconscious level. These beliefs have been programmed since childhood and along the way we have picked up beliefs, notions and ideas from those who have come in and out of our lives.
In order for you to be happy, you must uncover your deep belief systems, pick them apart and dispose of those who lead you onto any path that is rooted in the idea of separateness or hate.
At your core, you are perfect. Happiness is found when you return to that. There is no other in this world that can satisfy you the way in which you truly need to be satisfied. There is no man, no woman, no child, no car, no home, no trip that can give you what you are truly in need of...The healing you must seek must be one of de-programming your unconscious.
If you believe you need a mans attention to feel good, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to be a certain weight to be good enough, that is a lie.
If you believe you need to have a certain amount of money in the bank to be happy, that is a lie.
If you believe you must die of sickness in order to die, that is a lie.
If you believe someone is doing something to you to make you uncomfortable, even that is a lie.
If you are in an uncomfortable relationship with someone, that is because you do not believe you are worthy of a loving one, which means you do not believe you are love. Or it may be that you do not believe the other is capable of loving you, or being kind...either way you will experience in the other what you believe of the other from within.
If you do not believe you are worthy or are love, then whenever you look out into your environment you will project what you feel onto others, so even if they are trying to love you, you will not be able to accept it. Instead you will expect not to see love through your projection of it from within your own self. Eventually you will be disappointed by those in your life and believe on a conscious level that the others failed you. But the truth will be that you created what you experienced in real time, and thus will complete your internal cycle 360 degrees...Your inner speaks to you, "I am not worthy" and then your outer proves it...as you experience others as treating you as you are not worthy.
If we were all to return to our truth, which is that we are enough, that we are love, that we are all connected to one life source, then the need to feel unworthiness, or old, or used up, or not enough, would fade.
But the collective mind of government, who strongly believes in money and power, prefer to have you be the distracted, self loathing, obese, reality tv obsessed, terrorist fearing, diseased beings that so many of us are.
Freedom comes when one begins to understand that what they believe they create.
Turn off your televisions, for they serve only to confuse you and keep you in a state of chaotic unconscious programming. Turn off your radio's, for they too serve only to depress you, and fill you with more fear. Stop reading your newspapers. But if you do decide to watch the television, or listen to the radio, or read the newspaper, do it with a discerning ear. Absorb only those things that serve to uplift you, and refuse to allow the fear that is being projected globally through the various forms of vibrational energies out there, root within you. Fear is a very dense vibrational space. Do not put your eyes upon statistics, ideas of terrorism, cancer, or disease, for all of these things cannot be experienced within your reality unless invited by thought and held in place by fear of it, and a belief that it is or one day may be a part of your experience here.
Instead begin loving. Begin loving you, your children, your spouse, your apartment, your bed, your bathroom, your toenails, your lips, and your soul. Allow that love vibration to grow so that when you look outside you train your brains eye to see only things that uplift you like the beauty in cloud formation, or the vibrant colors in flowers. Train your mind to look away from news and information that takes you out of harmonious alignment. When in conversation with others, do not participate when the conversation turns in a negative direction. Keep still to what vibration you are trying to maintain.
Decide right now to begin creating your own reality by choosing to believe your own thoughts. But know that no matter what beliefs you hold true, at your core, you are perfect, complete and a loving being.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Yes! Ignore Reality
If it is so that the brain cannot tell the difference between what is a fantasy, and what is true in time space reality, and if it is so that the brain can do a thing in time space reality, while being lost within ones thoughts, like when one arrives home at the end of the day, has sat in much traffic, and once inside his/her home, wonders, "How the hell did I get home? I can't even remember what route I took to get here."
If this is all true, then it is not necessary to 'react or give in' to any chaos that is happening in time and space. If this is so, then it is possible to instead make the conscious choice to create ones own reality within the rails of ones own mind, while still doing what needs to be done in time space reality.
It is possible then to have a boss who is wishing to pressure you to work more effectively, and for you to although acknowledge the bosses wishes, to not take on the bosses anxiety and instead visualize yourself laying on a beach in the Caribbean somewhere while you are doing the work it is you normally do.
It is possible to instead of reacting to a disagreement you may have had with your spouse, by pondering and attracting into your mind through your unguarded thoughts and through the power of the law of attraction more thoughts that get you angry, which by the way is what you DON'T want, to stay in your mind and create the feeling you DO want.
If your primary intent is harmony, then it is necessary for you to ignore what is happening in time space reality, and to instead stay FOCUSED on what you DO want.
Most people spend more time focusing on what they DO NOT want instead of what they DO want.
What is happening in time space reality is a by product of all the pre paving of thought and or fear or hopefully of joy, that you have done before this time. The key to manifesting the life you want is to choose to begin focusing more NOW, so you can begin to pre pave the reality and the feelings you want to show up in the future.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are considering an affair.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if you today you ignore your children.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you choose to get drunk-again.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are irresponsible in your finances.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if all you can think about is how to get through today.
If you want peace tomorrow, you have to begin finding here and now, so to help you attract more of it in your future. We always get what we think of most. What are you thinking my friend?
If this is all true, then it is not necessary to 'react or give in' to any chaos that is happening in time and space. If this is so, then it is possible to instead make the conscious choice to create ones own reality within the rails of ones own mind, while still doing what needs to be done in time space reality.
It is possible then to have a boss who is wishing to pressure you to work more effectively, and for you to although acknowledge the bosses wishes, to not take on the bosses anxiety and instead visualize yourself laying on a beach in the Caribbean somewhere while you are doing the work it is you normally do.
It is possible to instead of reacting to a disagreement you may have had with your spouse, by pondering and attracting into your mind through your unguarded thoughts and through the power of the law of attraction more thoughts that get you angry, which by the way is what you DON'T want, to stay in your mind and create the feeling you DO want.
If your primary intent is harmony, then it is necessary for you to ignore what is happening in time space reality, and to instead stay FOCUSED on what you DO want.
Most people spend more time focusing on what they DO NOT want instead of what they DO want.
What is happening in time space reality is a by product of all the pre paving of thought and or fear or hopefully of joy, that you have done before this time. The key to manifesting the life you want is to choose to begin focusing more NOW, so you can begin to pre pave the reality and the feelings you want to show up in the future.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are considering an affair.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if you today you ignore your children.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you choose to get drunk-again.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if today you are irresponsible in your finances.
Do not claim to want peace tomorrow if all you can think about is how to get through today.
If you want peace tomorrow, you have to begin finding here and now, so to help you attract more of it in your future. We always get what we think of most. What are you thinking my friend?
Thursday, July 14, 2011
What To Do When Things Go Wrong
In life, when things seem to go wrong, sometimes what is truly happening is you are being pulled away and or off of those things in which you are truly not wanting.
One early morning, as I was writing at my computer I heard a tremendous 'whoosh' outside my home. A few moments later my neighbor knocked at my front door. The giant half rotten tree that was standing directly in front of my home had been uprooted and was now laying spread across the front of my home. When it landed it totaled my grey, beat up minivan, and also took out an old white fence that lined my front yard.
To my neighbors and even to my children the site was one of devastation. But in my heart I could feel this little happy dance going on.
The truth is, I hated the site of that big, old rotten tree, I had grown tired of that beat up old minivan, and the white rickety fence did not match the rest of the fence that surrounded my home. Inside of me, as the firemen arrived to survey the damages, I was so happy that the three things I wished to change in my life at the time, all got taken care of in one shot.
The interesting thing was, at the time, I was not as aware as I am now about the law of attraction. I spoke of it like I would about my breakfast choice of the day. Now I know better.
I remember the negative feelings I had about that tree, my minivan and my fence. But I also remember the positive feelings I had when I dreamed about what my house might look like without that rotten tree spoiling the way it looked, and about getting a new white Equinox. I remember going to Home Depot and checking out what types of fences I would prefer to line my home, and I remember how happy that made me feel inside.
Just a few short days later, I had enough insurance money to help me buy the exact white Equinox I wanted. In fact I drove it off the showroom floor. I also purchased the exact cute little white picket fence I wanted to line my yard. The city has yet to replace the tree.
When things go wrong externally, sometimes its just the energy around you kicking up speed. As you become more and more in alignment with what you are truly wanting, energy speeds up.
When things go wrong, it is important to learn how to step out of your reality of time and space and take a broader perspective on your situation. Most often what manifests as something wrong, is the path the universe has chosen to get you to where you are truly wanting to go. If you are able to mind your emotions along the way, you will have an effortless transition from here to there.
When frightening thoughts enter your mind, feel the negative emotion of it, and then quickly force your focus onto something, or someone that you love. Today while writing this piece, fear began to fill me as I had intended to write about the Holocaust. As I began to write, I felt a strong negative emotion come into me, and so I deleted the piece. Then I quickly changed my point of attraction and deliberately focused on a beautiful picture of my daughter Lee Lee when she was about 4 at the beach. Her smile is wide, her hair is flowing in the breeze and the ocean is rolling towards her in the background. I immediately felt my energy shift from negative to positive. And then and only then I started to write again. This piece is what was born.
I hope it has enlightened you.
One early morning, as I was writing at my computer I heard a tremendous 'whoosh' outside my home. A few moments later my neighbor knocked at my front door. The giant half rotten tree that was standing directly in front of my home had been uprooted and was now laying spread across the front of my home. When it landed it totaled my grey, beat up minivan, and also took out an old white fence that lined my front yard.
To my neighbors and even to my children the site was one of devastation. But in my heart I could feel this little happy dance going on.
The truth is, I hated the site of that big, old rotten tree, I had grown tired of that beat up old minivan, and the white rickety fence did not match the rest of the fence that surrounded my home. Inside of me, as the firemen arrived to survey the damages, I was so happy that the three things I wished to change in my life at the time, all got taken care of in one shot.
The interesting thing was, at the time, I was not as aware as I am now about the law of attraction. I spoke of it like I would about my breakfast choice of the day. Now I know better.
I remember the negative feelings I had about that tree, my minivan and my fence. But I also remember the positive feelings I had when I dreamed about what my house might look like without that rotten tree spoiling the way it looked, and about getting a new white Equinox. I remember going to Home Depot and checking out what types of fences I would prefer to line my home, and I remember how happy that made me feel inside.
Just a few short days later, I had enough insurance money to help me buy the exact white Equinox I wanted. In fact I drove it off the showroom floor. I also purchased the exact cute little white picket fence I wanted to line my yard. The city has yet to replace the tree.
When things go wrong externally, sometimes its just the energy around you kicking up speed. As you become more and more in alignment with what you are truly wanting, energy speeds up.
When things go wrong, it is important to learn how to step out of your reality of time and space and take a broader perspective on your situation. Most often what manifests as something wrong, is the path the universe has chosen to get you to where you are truly wanting to go. If you are able to mind your emotions along the way, you will have an effortless transition from here to there.
When frightening thoughts enter your mind, feel the negative emotion of it, and then quickly force your focus onto something, or someone that you love. Today while writing this piece, fear began to fill me as I had intended to write about the Holocaust. As I began to write, I felt a strong negative emotion come into me, and so I deleted the piece. Then I quickly changed my point of attraction and deliberately focused on a beautiful picture of my daughter Lee Lee when she was about 4 at the beach. Her smile is wide, her hair is flowing in the breeze and the ocean is rolling towards her in the background. I immediately felt my energy shift from negative to positive. And then and only then I started to write again. This piece is what was born.
I hope it has enlightened you.
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
The Key to Manifestations
Your brain is a magnet. Your brain is a transmitter as well as a receiver. All day long, whether you acknowledge it consciously or not, you are emitting and receiving information, (vibrations). When you are driving and you notice an angry irate driver beside you, what you are noticing are his/her vibrations. You receive these messages vibrationally and then interpret them through your brain. Whatever you are in tune with internally or shall I say vibrationally, you will be drawn into your environment.
This is such great news...because if you want really wonderful things to show up in your time space reality, then all you have to do is spend more time in your mind vibrationally, thinking and pondering about things you believe are wonderful. When you allow your mind to consider only what things you know will bring you joy, and when you allow the thinking of those joyful things to grow in you like a wildfire you increase the intensity of the frequency you are emitting with your brain...You increase tremendously your brains attracting power through the intensity of your thoughts.
Doubt me?
Okay...try this...Today I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz...All day long I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz. Put a picture of a white Mercedes Benz in your mind, and consider it as often as you remember to do so today...And watch how often you notice one in your environment today...
You will notice a white Mercedes Benz today because you have keyed up your vibration for it, and in doing so you likened your vibration with it, so will draw it into your experience.
Learning to focus on what you do want instead of what you don't want so to deliberately create the manifestation you desire is the key to absolute joy.
There are no victims here. Just beings who have not yet learned to, or are aware that they are the creator of whatever reality they are living.
This is such great news...because if you want really wonderful things to show up in your time space reality, then all you have to do is spend more time in your mind vibrationally, thinking and pondering about things you believe are wonderful. When you allow your mind to consider only what things you know will bring you joy, and when you allow the thinking of those joyful things to grow in you like a wildfire you increase the intensity of the frequency you are emitting with your brain...You increase tremendously your brains attracting power through the intensity of your thoughts.
Doubt me?
Okay...try this...Today I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz...All day long I want you to think about a white Mercedes Benz. Put a picture of a white Mercedes Benz in your mind, and consider it as often as you remember to do so today...And watch how often you notice one in your environment today...
You will notice a white Mercedes Benz today because you have keyed up your vibration for it, and in doing so you likened your vibration with it, so will draw it into your experience.
Learning to focus on what you do want instead of what you don't want so to deliberately create the manifestation you desire is the key to absolute joy.
There are no victims here. Just beings who have not yet learned to, or are aware that they are the creator of whatever reality they are living.
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