What you don't like in someone else, is what you refuse to see in your self.
No one is bothering you. You are bothered by them.
The world doesn't owe you a thing. Your world is as happy or as miserable as you decide you want it to be.
You don't have the right to expect others to change. But you can change who you choose to have relationships with.
You can't expect others to like you, when you don't even like you.
You alone are responsible for your own happiness. If you're not happy, its because you're not thinking happy thoughts.
You're dysfunctional relationships, are simply manifestations of the dysfunctional relationship you have with your self.
Analyze you, before you analyze others.
If you have any hate for others in your heart, then you still don't understand that we are all connected.
This life is but a blink of an eye, in the grand scheme of the universes.
If you don't learn to control the direction of your thoughts, your living by default, and have not yet mastered the art of deliberate creating....
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
You Were Born Free, You Will Die Free-Will You Live Free?
Each one of us was born free. As newborn infants we were void of attachments to ideas. Our mind was our own, and we did with it what we pleased. Completely detached from thoughts, our beings felt free to express whatever it was we tiny beings needed to. We did what felt natural and what was instinctive. We laughed and we cried when we wanted to. And we opened our eyes and closed them according to our own will, unconcerned with the opinions, needs or wants of others.
Each one of us will also die. And in the moment our physical body ceases to be able to sustain our bodily functions, we shall once again be free. We will leave this realm detached from any form of conditioned societal, familial, religious or governmental programming. It is a fact. No one expects anything from us in the moments we are born, or in the moments we die.
The key to living a joyous experience, is found in learning how to live freely, detached from dysfunctional programming. Imagine if the world around you continued treating you as if in every moment you were still being born, or taking your last breaths. How would you think your parents, spouses, siblings, friends, or religious leaders would treat you? How would you treat you?
When infants are born, or when people are dying, the world around them leaves them alone, and stops expecting them to be something they are not. We never feel more accepted by others or of by our selves than in the moments we are born, and in the moments we are dying. The key to happiness however, is found in learning to find that acceptance right where you are, now!
Learning To Accept You
It is impossible to respect others if you do not respect yourself. Begin learning to accept you, by practicing self love, self responsibility, and self reliance. Commit to honoring your self by telling your truth. Be responsible for your own finances and well being. Stop blaming others for your downfalls or misfortunes.
Be Honest
Tell the truth even when it hurts others. You're truest responsibility is to your self.
Be Kind
Practice being kind to others, but especially to your self.
Be Easy
Stop judging others, and others will stop judging you, and eventually you'll stop judging your self.
Try to remember what it felt like the moment you were born.
Each one of us will also die. And in the moment our physical body ceases to be able to sustain our bodily functions, we shall once again be free. We will leave this realm detached from any form of conditioned societal, familial, religious or governmental programming. It is a fact. No one expects anything from us in the moments we are born, or in the moments we die.
The key to living a joyous experience, is found in learning how to live freely, detached from dysfunctional programming. Imagine if the world around you continued treating you as if in every moment you were still being born, or taking your last breaths. How would you think your parents, spouses, siblings, friends, or religious leaders would treat you? How would you treat you?
When infants are born, or when people are dying, the world around them leaves them alone, and stops expecting them to be something they are not. We never feel more accepted by others or of by our selves than in the moments we are born, and in the moments we are dying. The key to happiness however, is found in learning to find that acceptance right where you are, now!
Learning To Accept You
It is impossible to respect others if you do not respect yourself. Begin learning to accept you, by practicing self love, self responsibility, and self reliance. Commit to honoring your self by telling your truth. Be responsible for your own finances and well being. Stop blaming others for your downfalls or misfortunes.
Be Honest
Tell the truth even when it hurts others. You're truest responsibility is to your self.
Be Kind
Practice being kind to others, but especially to your self.
Be Easy
Stop judging others, and others will stop judging you, and eventually you'll stop judging your self.
Try to remember what it felt like the moment you were born.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Where Your Attention Goes Energy Flows
So what's going on with you these days? Are you depressed or happy? Are you doing well in business, or losing your shirt? Are your relationships harmonious, or are they draining?
Wherever you focus your attention, your energy is flowing in that direction. Energy makes whatever it touches grow. So, if your focus is usually upon negative things rather than positive things, know that your attention to the very thing you don't want in your life, has no choice but to expand.
If you change the way you look at your world, the world changes. Focusing on things that only make you feel worse will in no way ever make you feel better. No matter who you are, if you are breathing there is something you can be happy about. The sun always comes up tomorrow, and the world continues to spin, without checking with you first.
If you pay more attention to the things you don't like about someone opposed to pondering upon the things you do like about someone, by the law of attraction, and of course good old common sense, momentum of thought alone will cause your negativity towards that someone to grow. In time, if this thinking is not altered, a pattern of negative thought will have been ingrained within your mindset, and a habit of thought will have formed, which will ultimately cement itself in your mind as a belief. Once a belief has been learned, it is very difficult to change, although it can be done.
Learning how to steer your mind is the most important work you can do. Here are some things you can try to help you figure out what your paying attention to, so you can begin directing where your energy flows.
Journaling; Through journaling of thoughts, one learns to observe ones own belief system.
Meditation; Meditation helps clear negative thoughts.
Learning: Reading self help books that teach how to uncover faulty belief systems helps us learn about why we do what we do, and how we can change our minds for the better.
Without knowing what we think, it is hard to decide if what we think, we want to think. When we learn to think what we want to think, we finally harness the secrets to the universe, through the deliberate creating of our desired realities.
Wherever you focus your attention, your energy is flowing in that direction. Energy makes whatever it touches grow. So, if your focus is usually upon negative things rather than positive things, know that your attention to the very thing you don't want in your life, has no choice but to expand.
If you change the way you look at your world, the world changes. Focusing on things that only make you feel worse will in no way ever make you feel better. No matter who you are, if you are breathing there is something you can be happy about. The sun always comes up tomorrow, and the world continues to spin, without checking with you first.
If you pay more attention to the things you don't like about someone opposed to pondering upon the things you do like about someone, by the law of attraction, and of course good old common sense, momentum of thought alone will cause your negativity towards that someone to grow. In time, if this thinking is not altered, a pattern of negative thought will have been ingrained within your mindset, and a habit of thought will have formed, which will ultimately cement itself in your mind as a belief. Once a belief has been learned, it is very difficult to change, although it can be done.
Learning how to steer your mind is the most important work you can do. Here are some things you can try to help you figure out what your paying attention to, so you can begin directing where your energy flows.
Journaling; Through journaling of thoughts, one learns to observe ones own belief system.
Meditation; Meditation helps clear negative thoughts.
Learning: Reading self help books that teach how to uncover faulty belief systems helps us learn about why we do what we do, and how we can change our minds for the better.
Without knowing what we think, it is hard to decide if what we think, we want to think. When we learn to think what we want to think, we finally harness the secrets to the universe, through the deliberate creating of our desired realities.
Thursday, October 27, 2011
Love: What It Really Is
"Damn...I am so angry..it's raining today", "Wow, I am so happy, its sunny today". Both of these sentences describe a "feeling".
These feelings are the results of perception.
These perceptions are based on ones core beliefs.
The mind has been taught to place judgements to beliefs.
Beliefs then are judged according to our perceptions of what is happening in our reality.
So if my core conditioned belief about rain is negative, I will then experience a negative "FEELING".
If my core conditioned belief about the sun is positive, then I will experience a positive "FEELING".
LOVE MY FRIENDS IS NOT A FEELING.....
Feelings are based on values we place on experiences we have been conditioned to believe in.
The word LOVE has been abused throughout history.
Men who batter their wives, parents who beat their children, and owners who beat their dogs all "believe" they love their wives, children and animals.
LOVE-Real Authentic Love is emotionless, meaning, it is attached to no outcome...The object of your affection, needs not to be or prove anything to you in order to gain your love...
When love is pure, it is non-reactive, pure and stable.
If you were to study mountains, and flowers, and if you were to open your mind to the romance the mountains have with the sky and the wind, you would understand the true meaning of love.
Love-Authentic love requires a letting go of the intellectual and emotional ideas about love.
The key is to choose to love those who add to your experience rather than take away from your experience. Deeper, we all first must learn to love ourselves without judgements, very much the way a flower welcomes and needs both the sun as well as the rain.
These feelings are the results of perception.
These perceptions are based on ones core beliefs.
The mind has been taught to place judgements to beliefs.
Beliefs then are judged according to our perceptions of what is happening in our reality.
So if my core conditioned belief about rain is negative, I will then experience a negative "FEELING".
If my core conditioned belief about the sun is positive, then I will experience a positive "FEELING".
LOVE MY FRIENDS IS NOT A FEELING.....
Feelings are based on values we place on experiences we have been conditioned to believe in.
The word LOVE has been abused throughout history.
Men who batter their wives, parents who beat their children, and owners who beat their dogs all "believe" they love their wives, children and animals.
LOVE-Real Authentic Love is emotionless, meaning, it is attached to no outcome...The object of your affection, needs not to be or prove anything to you in order to gain your love...
When love is pure, it is non-reactive, pure and stable.
If you were to study mountains, and flowers, and if you were to open your mind to the romance the mountains have with the sky and the wind, you would understand the true meaning of love.
Love-Authentic love requires a letting go of the intellectual and emotional ideas about love.
The key is to choose to love those who add to your experience rather than take away from your experience. Deeper, we all first must learn to love ourselves without judgements, very much the way a flower welcomes and needs both the sun as well as the rain.
Want More Money? Try This...
While the Law of Attraction is one that is the quantum truth that proves likes attract like, but also proves that simply by "observing" a field of energy, the field itself changes...can bring many of our desires to manifestation in the physical realm, sometimes the actualizing of money can be a little tricky.
When we visualize things like a healthy body, or a soul mate, it is easy to tune into the "emotions" a healthy body of a soul mate will bring. Those "emotions" are waves that, when sent out into the universe, attract more unto it, since emotions are charged wave particles.
When we visualize money, what we must do is find the "feeling" money will bring to us by having it.
While visualizing money, or the more having of it, it is critical to attach to your meditation, the emotion of gratitude.
Look around you...Be thankful for the car you have, or the shoes you are wearing, or the meal you had this morning, and will have later. Be grateful for the gas you put in your car, for the plates you ate from...and most importantly, on a deep level-connect to the thought that "money" is what made all that you have, eat and do possible.
It is not the thing...that you want...it is not even the money that you want...What you want is the "feeling" the money can bring in exchange for the "thing" that will supply to you the "feeling" of having that "thing" represent...
Coupling the Law of Attraction with The Law of Gratitude is the key to manifesting more money into your life...
When we visualize things like a healthy body, or a soul mate, it is easy to tune into the "emotions" a healthy body of a soul mate will bring. Those "emotions" are waves that, when sent out into the universe, attract more unto it, since emotions are charged wave particles.
When we visualize money, what we must do is find the "feeling" money will bring to us by having it.
While visualizing money, or the more having of it, it is critical to attach to your meditation, the emotion of gratitude.
Look around you...Be thankful for the car you have, or the shoes you are wearing, or the meal you had this morning, and will have later. Be grateful for the gas you put in your car, for the plates you ate from...and most importantly, on a deep level-connect to the thought that "money" is what made all that you have, eat and do possible.
It is not the thing...that you want...it is not even the money that you want...What you want is the "feeling" the money can bring in exchange for the "thing" that will supply to you the "feeling" of having that "thing" represent...
Coupling the Law of Attraction with The Law of Gratitude is the key to manifesting more money into your life...
Lady Gaga Uses Law of Attraction
On a recent journey through keystroke land, I found a plethora of cyberspace articles written about Lady Gaga and the LOA. It seems as if there is some kind of debate as to whether her success is the result of her using magical laws of the universe to her advantage. I had to laugh out loud...and those of you who are enlightened probably already know why.
WE ARE ALL UNDER THE LAW OF ATTRACTION WHETHER WE COHERENTLY, WITH A CONSCIOUS MIND ACKNOWLEDGE THAT TRUTH OR NOT.
Ones life is the result of ones thoughts-period! What is in, will come out-period! If you are a happy being, it is because your source, your soul-your being, is...If you are an irritable person, it is because you have not connected truly to the essence of who you are, which is light, peace and love-period.
If you are in a dysfunctional relationship-that is because you are in a dysfunctional relationship with your-self.
If you abuse food, eat in secret, drink in secret, gamble in secret, have affairs in secret, and alike, that is because your true essence is a mystery to you...
BUT when you are in alignment with your magnificence, like Lady Gaga is, and when you are pure love, peace and joy, like Lady Gaga is...and when you are an Indigo Child like Lady Gaga is, you are a physical manifestation of pure positive energy source....and the world notices...
In my opinion, Lady Gaga is the Princess of Indigo Children...
She is one who has come to inspire other Indigo's with her creativity and her norm busting will...
May she forever reign....
And may all creatures eventually KNOW their lives are governed by the Law of Attraction...its just that some of us use that law to our advantage, while others live ignorant of it...
WE ARE ALL UNDER THE LAW OF ATTRACTION WHETHER WE COHERENTLY, WITH A CONSCIOUS MIND ACKNOWLEDGE THAT TRUTH OR NOT.
Ones life is the result of ones thoughts-period! What is in, will come out-period! If you are a happy being, it is because your source, your soul-your being, is...If you are an irritable person, it is because you have not connected truly to the essence of who you are, which is light, peace and love-period.
If you are in a dysfunctional relationship-that is because you are in a dysfunctional relationship with your-self.
If you abuse food, eat in secret, drink in secret, gamble in secret, have affairs in secret, and alike, that is because your true essence is a mystery to you...
BUT when you are in alignment with your magnificence, like Lady Gaga is, and when you are pure love, peace and joy, like Lady Gaga is...and when you are an Indigo Child like Lady Gaga is, you are a physical manifestation of pure positive energy source....and the world notices...
In my opinion, Lady Gaga is the Princess of Indigo Children...
She is one who has come to inspire other Indigo's with her creativity and her norm busting will...
May she forever reign....
And may all creatures eventually KNOW their lives are governed by the Law of Attraction...its just that some of us use that law to our advantage, while others live ignorant of it...
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Reality is Not a Reality (When You Hate, You Hate You)
The statement, "Reality is Not a Reality", to those who have studied metaphysics, is one that is easily understood. To those however, who have not yet found the desire to ponder the world beyond ones current understanding of it, the statement is not so easily comprehended, although the statement holds true whether it is understood or not.
Any one persons reality is based on the perceptions of the one doing the observing.
A tall oak tree, when viewed through the eyes of a mosquito, is perceived in one way, and a bird perched high on one of the trees branches perceives the tree in an entirely different way.
Both mosquito and bird observing the same tree, but whose realities concerning the tree are completely unalike, thus reality is created by the observer of it.
Reality, whether we realize it consciously or not, is based on the perceptions of the observer.
Relationships get tricky when two or more people get together, and assume they share the same reality concerning any number of topics.
The way a woman perceives the thing called "her marriage" may not be a vibrational match for the thing her husband calls "his marriage". Both sharing this thing called "marriage", but both perceiving it quite differently.
Time, is a concept that was created centuries ago to help keep people on track...but even time does not exist, for time is not a "thing" that has feet or legs, that has the ability to "pass" us. The phrase, "so much time has past", means what?
Space is not space, and although we have been conditioned to believe in these things called reality, time and space, the truth is all of it is an illusion.
Space is far from void. It is made up of electromagnetic fields full of atomic stuff...The idea or the notion that space is "empty" is bogus.
It is a testament to mankind at all that we are as civilized a society as we are, considering the scientific fact that each one of us creates our own distinct reality.
While I may look at an attractive, fun loving, intelligent woman and think, "Wow...she looks amazing. And I am going to try and be more like her, because her energy is so uplifting", another woman might look at her and think, "Hmm...who does she think she is? She is so stuck up...what a b_____."
Although both of us would be perceiving the same woman, the notions about "who" we are effects our realities concerning the woman.
In reality, no pun intended...its never about the other person...It's always about us...
We create our own realities, and until mankind wakes up...and begins to COMPREHEND the vast being he/she is, and that we are all connected on a vibrational level to all that is, and that when we hate others, we hate extensions of who and what we truly are, our realities will fail to be as joyous as our source intended it to be...
Any one persons reality is based on the perceptions of the one doing the observing.
A tall oak tree, when viewed through the eyes of a mosquito, is perceived in one way, and a bird perched high on one of the trees branches perceives the tree in an entirely different way.
Both mosquito and bird observing the same tree, but whose realities concerning the tree are completely unalike, thus reality is created by the observer of it.
Reality, whether we realize it consciously or not, is based on the perceptions of the observer.
Relationships get tricky when two or more people get together, and assume they share the same reality concerning any number of topics.
The way a woman perceives the thing called "her marriage" may not be a vibrational match for the thing her husband calls "his marriage". Both sharing this thing called "marriage", but both perceiving it quite differently.
Time, is a concept that was created centuries ago to help keep people on track...but even time does not exist, for time is not a "thing" that has feet or legs, that has the ability to "pass" us. The phrase, "so much time has past", means what?
Space is not space, and although we have been conditioned to believe in these things called reality, time and space, the truth is all of it is an illusion.
Space is far from void. It is made up of electromagnetic fields full of atomic stuff...The idea or the notion that space is "empty" is bogus.
It is a testament to mankind at all that we are as civilized a society as we are, considering the scientific fact that each one of us creates our own distinct reality.
While I may look at an attractive, fun loving, intelligent woman and think, "Wow...she looks amazing. And I am going to try and be more like her, because her energy is so uplifting", another woman might look at her and think, "Hmm...who does she think she is? She is so stuck up...what a b_____."
Although both of us would be perceiving the same woman, the notions about "who" we are effects our realities concerning the woman.
In reality, no pun intended...its never about the other person...It's always about us...
We create our own realities, and until mankind wakes up...and begins to COMPREHEND the vast being he/she is, and that we are all connected on a vibrational level to all that is, and that when we hate others, we hate extensions of who and what we truly are, our realities will fail to be as joyous as our source intended it to be...
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Indigo Children
Indigo's are suspected to be those amongst us who have come with a purpose. They were born tender souls, with the ability to encompass great empathy for others. Unlike so many, who are born unaware of any obligation or connection to others, Indigo's come into this world feeling connected to all that is.
The problem for Indigo's is that this material world does not encourage connectedness. In fact, it is a world system that implies separateness, and not enoughness. Mass consciousness today, is the result of old world energy systems, most of which have been born out of suffering, like the Great Depression, World Wars, Genocide and the AIDS epidemic. If we take a giant step back and sit on the moon, while peering down on our societal "mind set", the programming done by our government, through the various media streams, hovers above not only our glorious planet, but our minds, like the grim reaper.
Indigo's are children who have been chastised by others for being different. They are different. They are not bullies, for they feel too deeply for others to dare harm another emotionally. But because the world's emotional system is the result of many fear based birthed ideas, bullies stroll this planet conditioned to be the tyrants they are. Indigo's unfortunately, because they have been born with such an extreme ability to "feel", are often seen as weak, and suffer at the fingers of ill ideas.
When I was 12 years old, I was teased so severely I put a pistol to my head.
The pain of not being loved was so deep it nearly swallowed me up. I, an intense, feeling child, was bewildered by the vast contrast between my innate desire to love those around me, and their visceral inability to love me at all.
While tears broke from the corners of my eyes, and as I stared deeply into my soul, in my mothers bedroom mirror, I recall distinctly hearing a voice...who told me..."Lisa, put the gun down...One day you will show them."
Over the years, and through extremely painful experiences, I wondered what that message meant. But, always felt deep within, a pulling towards something more...
As I learned to confront fear after fear, the clouds parted, and life became beautiful.
Free of the old programming of my family, and of the world as well, I no longer listen to the news, read the paper, or speak of issues that reflect the fear "the old world system" wishes for the masses to believe in.
With the coming of 2012, only "New World Ideas" will thrive. As human consciousness rises, herd mentalities must diminish. Those who share my ideas of enlightenment have spent their time studying consciousness, ascension of the mind and alike.
To those who think my writing borders Obey One type language, I beckon you to concern yourself less with the mundane.
Know that you are enough. Know that no one has to make you happy. You have all the tools within you to be joyful, content, and one with all that is. Know that separateness is a tool of the old world system, (think Genocide...think Hitler...think KKK) to spark fear and hate in the heart of man.
Know that governments, CEO's, and the elite, know these truths. If one man can make another man angry, or hate, or believe he is in danger, then the one infusing the ideas, can predict the actions of the man he is controlling. Cancer, diabetes, adultery, alcoholism, and gambling, are all ways those at the wheel get to keep the herds in line.
And as far as ADD meds go, I find myself hoping that in the "New World", that instead of suppressing the multi dimensional forms of communication and perceptions children of ADD possess, we seek to learn from them instead.
This world is multi dimensional, all though the powers at large, prefer you go on believing in what you see on the news.
Humans are good....Humans are love...and when you love you, you cannot help but love others..Then wars stop...then obesity stops, then racism stops...then self loathing stop...then alcoholism stops...then divorce stops...Then what? What happens to our court systems, our pharmaceutical companies...our government spending on wars...on our stock market???
Think about it....
The problem for Indigo's is that this material world does not encourage connectedness. In fact, it is a world system that implies separateness, and not enoughness. Mass consciousness today, is the result of old world energy systems, most of which have been born out of suffering, like the Great Depression, World Wars, Genocide and the AIDS epidemic. If we take a giant step back and sit on the moon, while peering down on our societal "mind set", the programming done by our government, through the various media streams, hovers above not only our glorious planet, but our minds, like the grim reaper.
Indigo's are children who have been chastised by others for being different. They are different. They are not bullies, for they feel too deeply for others to dare harm another emotionally. But because the world's emotional system is the result of many fear based birthed ideas, bullies stroll this planet conditioned to be the tyrants they are. Indigo's unfortunately, because they have been born with such an extreme ability to "feel", are often seen as weak, and suffer at the fingers of ill ideas.
When I was 12 years old, I was teased so severely I put a pistol to my head.
The pain of not being loved was so deep it nearly swallowed me up. I, an intense, feeling child, was bewildered by the vast contrast between my innate desire to love those around me, and their visceral inability to love me at all.
While tears broke from the corners of my eyes, and as I stared deeply into my soul, in my mothers bedroom mirror, I recall distinctly hearing a voice...who told me..."Lisa, put the gun down...One day you will show them."
Over the years, and through extremely painful experiences, I wondered what that message meant. But, always felt deep within, a pulling towards something more...
As I learned to confront fear after fear, the clouds parted, and life became beautiful.
Free of the old programming of my family, and of the world as well, I no longer listen to the news, read the paper, or speak of issues that reflect the fear "the old world system" wishes for the masses to believe in.
With the coming of 2012, only "New World Ideas" will thrive. As human consciousness rises, herd mentalities must diminish. Those who share my ideas of enlightenment have spent their time studying consciousness, ascension of the mind and alike.
To those who think my writing borders Obey One type language, I beckon you to concern yourself less with the mundane.
Know that you are enough. Know that no one has to make you happy. You have all the tools within you to be joyful, content, and one with all that is. Know that separateness is a tool of the old world system, (think Genocide...think Hitler...think KKK) to spark fear and hate in the heart of man.
Know that governments, CEO's, and the elite, know these truths. If one man can make another man angry, or hate, or believe he is in danger, then the one infusing the ideas, can predict the actions of the man he is controlling. Cancer, diabetes, adultery, alcoholism, and gambling, are all ways those at the wheel get to keep the herds in line.
And as far as ADD meds go, I find myself hoping that in the "New World", that instead of suppressing the multi dimensional forms of communication and perceptions children of ADD possess, we seek to learn from them instead.
This world is multi dimensional, all though the powers at large, prefer you go on believing in what you see on the news.
Humans are good....Humans are love...and when you love you, you cannot help but love others..Then wars stop...then obesity stops, then racism stops...then self loathing stop...then alcoholism stops...then divorce stops...Then what? What happens to our court systems, our pharmaceutical companies...our government spending on wars...on our stock market???
Think about it....
Thursday, October 20, 2011
What's Pushing Your Mind?
These days it is all the rage to hear people talk about living in the "now". It is said that the sum of our "nows" determines our "tomorrows".
Tomorrow is very much like ones bank account. What your statement reads tomorrow, will be determined by all of your yesterdays. If right now, you withdrew all the money you had in your bank account, and later today you tried to use your bank card to make a purchase, your purchase would be denied. The aggravation, and disappointment you might feel as a result of having the purchase denied, would be the result of the the thoughts that pushed your mind to make the withdrawal in the first place.
Life's moments work the same way.
Getting the most out of life, will require higher levels of thoughts. If you are not satisfied with your life, an emotional inventory is necessary.
Think back, and learn to observe your own mind. Try to determine what thoughts are pushing your mind in the present moment. Are you fear based, shame based, or guilt based? Are your thoughts drizzled with worry about what other people think about you? Do you feel comfortable in your own skin, or do you compare your self with others?
Any unhappiness can be traced back to the thought that occurred the moment before the emotion showed up.
Happiness is possible, but it will take a certain level of awareness or awakening to harness.
If you want to be happy in the next moment, which will be your upcoming now, then pay attention to how you are thinking and feeling now.
Fill your life with as many things and people that bring you positive energy, and remove those things from your life that bring you down.
Exercise daily, to increase endorphins in the brain. Read inspirational books. Write in a journal. Buy your self a beautiful bouquet of flowers. Meditate to soothing music, and seek others who think more like you do.
Tomorrow is very much like ones bank account. What your statement reads tomorrow, will be determined by all of your yesterdays. If right now, you withdrew all the money you had in your bank account, and later today you tried to use your bank card to make a purchase, your purchase would be denied. The aggravation, and disappointment you might feel as a result of having the purchase denied, would be the result of the the thoughts that pushed your mind to make the withdrawal in the first place.
Life's moments work the same way.
Getting the most out of life, will require higher levels of thoughts. If you are not satisfied with your life, an emotional inventory is necessary.
Think back, and learn to observe your own mind. Try to determine what thoughts are pushing your mind in the present moment. Are you fear based, shame based, or guilt based? Are your thoughts drizzled with worry about what other people think about you? Do you feel comfortable in your own skin, or do you compare your self with others?
Any unhappiness can be traced back to the thought that occurred the moment before the emotion showed up.
Happiness is possible, but it will take a certain level of awareness or awakening to harness.
If you want to be happy in the next moment, which will be your upcoming now, then pay attention to how you are thinking and feeling now.
Fill your life with as many things and people that bring you positive energy, and remove those things from your life that bring you down.
Exercise daily, to increase endorphins in the brain. Read inspirational books. Write in a journal. Buy your self a beautiful bouquet of flowers. Meditate to soothing music, and seek others who think more like you do.
Monday, October 3, 2011
Can You Let You Be Happy?
Happiness? It's easy to be happy, IF you are willing to let go of wanting to feel right, angry, self righteous, or like a victim.
Happiness? Folks, happiness is easy but only if you are willing to let go of focusing on something negative, even if that attachment to the negative falsely assures you a sense of power or control.
Happiness? It's a matter of practice.
Want to be happy all the time?
Then learn to direct your thoughts.
Angry?
Grouchy?
Feeling victimized?
Wanna feel better?
Really?
You can change your state of being right now...it's easy...think of a child's smile. Think of how beautiful the planet is. Think of someone you love...Put some dance music on. Call an old friend...
You can change your mood anytime you want....its all up to you...
Happiness? Folks, happiness is easy but only if you are willing to let go of focusing on something negative, even if that attachment to the negative falsely assures you a sense of power or control.
Happiness? It's a matter of practice.
Want to be happy all the time?
Then learn to direct your thoughts.
Angry?
Grouchy?
Feeling victimized?
Wanna feel better?
Really?
You can change your state of being right now...it's easy...think of a child's smile. Think of how beautiful the planet is. Think of someone you love...Put some dance music on. Call an old friend...
You can change your mood anytime you want....its all up to you...
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Yesterday My Brother In Law Committed Suicide
Yesterday, in the early afternoon, a man that I have known since I was a little girl committed suicide. Fed up with his marital problems, and feeling as if life were no longer worth living, he put a gun to his head. As the police arrived outside his home, he pulled the trigger.
This man would be my brother in law. He and my sister were married for twenty years. Together they have a son and a daughter. One is a teenager and one is barely a teen.
When I heard the news, sadness overwhelmed me, not only for him, my sister, my niece, my nephew, myself, but for all of humanity as well. It is a sad reflection of how poorly man has been taught to think when man decides his life is no longer worth living; when man has been conditioned to think he is nothing without something or someone other than himself; when man has lost or worse has never developed the divine connection he has to all things, and to the knowing that all that is, he is, and all he is, is also all that is.
My brother in law believed he was ineffective at life. He believed that without my sister he was nothing. What he believed created tremendous negative emotion within him, which only attracted to it more negative thoughts and compounded the negative emotions building up within his body. Yesterday the scales tipped, and the negative sadly gobbled up any residual hope or belief in anything worth living for.
This is not over. The sadness that was in him, is now here in this time space reality we all share. His children now feel it. My sister is now absorbed by it. His parents, his sister, her husband and their children, me, my children...we and many many more, now get to experience a little of what John had been feeling.
The key for me during this time as an enlightened being, will be to practice being an allower.
And although my heart wants to crumble beneath the reality of this all, I know my purpose will be one who is steadfast to eternal truth.
We are all responsible for how we think, but we all must also lift others up when we can, especially when they can no longer walk because their burdens are so heavy.
May you all learn to love yourselves in ways as deep as oceans. And may mankind come into the knowing that what we do effects other people in ways we may never comprehend both for the good as well as for the bad....
Rest in Peace John...and may your now unburdened energy join the eternal energies of all souls who have past on before you...and may you know now, what you didn't know yesterday morning...
Lisa
This man would be my brother in law. He and my sister were married for twenty years. Together they have a son and a daughter. One is a teenager and one is barely a teen.
When I heard the news, sadness overwhelmed me, not only for him, my sister, my niece, my nephew, myself, but for all of humanity as well. It is a sad reflection of how poorly man has been taught to think when man decides his life is no longer worth living; when man has been conditioned to think he is nothing without something or someone other than himself; when man has lost or worse has never developed the divine connection he has to all things, and to the knowing that all that is, he is, and all he is, is also all that is.
My brother in law believed he was ineffective at life. He believed that without my sister he was nothing. What he believed created tremendous negative emotion within him, which only attracted to it more negative thoughts and compounded the negative emotions building up within his body. Yesterday the scales tipped, and the negative sadly gobbled up any residual hope or belief in anything worth living for.
This is not over. The sadness that was in him, is now here in this time space reality we all share. His children now feel it. My sister is now absorbed by it. His parents, his sister, her husband and their children, me, my children...we and many many more, now get to experience a little of what John had been feeling.
The key for me during this time as an enlightened being, will be to practice being an allower.
And although my heart wants to crumble beneath the reality of this all, I know my purpose will be one who is steadfast to eternal truth.
We are all responsible for how we think, but we all must also lift others up when we can, especially when they can no longer walk because their burdens are so heavy.
May you all learn to love yourselves in ways as deep as oceans. And may mankind come into the knowing that what we do effects other people in ways we may never comprehend both for the good as well as for the bad....
Rest in Peace John...and may your now unburdened energy join the eternal energies of all souls who have past on before you...and may you know now, what you didn't know yesterday morning...
Lisa
Friday, September 30, 2011
Reality=Programming of the Mass Consciousness
We all exist in various forms of reality throughout our day. There is the programming and conditioning of our family and its rules spoken and unspoken. There is the programming and conditioning of the generations before we may have been taught to believe in. And then there is the programming and conditioning which effects us as a whole on a mass consciousness level.
The goal of this physical experience however, must be to find your own, desired reality, to create it through thought, and then to summon it into existence so to create your own space time reality.
War is the result of generations of programming and conditioning which has rooted in the belief systems of beings born to this planet, that war is necessary for survival. We are conditioned into believing in our separateness as beings, and programmed to not only perceive others who do not think, look, or act as we do as being different than us, we are programmed to fear them as well.
The ideas, beliefs and concepts that this planet feeds into on a mass conscious level is absurd, ignorant, and plain idiotic.
If we as beings were not intended to live amongst one another peacefully, then the very nature of the thing that created us all, would show evidence of this desire for destruction and separateness. This planet, this organism we the human organism not only exist in, but rely on for our very existence, is in complete harmony with itself.
We are the disease...The mass consciousness perception of this time space reality is the cancer.
Thank heaven for the desire of man to go beyond his current thoughts. May mans mind continue to expand. The internet is a wonderful tool for the enlightened, but it can also be a valuable asset to those who do not share our enlightenment.
The goal for each being must be to awaken to truth. It is gut wrenching the moment the newly conscious being comes into the knowing that its entire life up until the moment of awakening has been a lie, an illusion, a confection of familial, and social crap.
We are all drawing to us what we believe, and so if what we believe has been programmed into us by the media, and if all the generations before us were also programmed by their perceptions of time space reality, then today as a mass consciousness we are helping to maintain that warped time space reality the masses have been cunningly programmed and conditioned to believe in.
Mind what you read my friend. Mind what the evening news, reality television, hospital and prescription drug advertisements tells you what is wrong with you. You see, the sicker you are, the unhealthier you are, the more dependent you are on doctors and pharmaceutical drugs, the healthier our stock market.
Mind the warnings about unemployment. The poorer you are, the angrier you are, the sicker your perception of life is, the more dependent you are on the higher powers, and the weaker your mind. Weak minds are unthreatening.
Believe you can never get ahead, and those at the top sleep soundly at night.
You are what you believe you are.
You behave as you believe.
Beliefs create reality.
This time space reality is nothing more than the accumulation of generations of years of idiotic conditioning and programming.
We heal the world, by sharing our ideas of enlightenment to one mind at a time.
Please visit my website at healingtheselfwell.com
The goal of this physical experience however, must be to find your own, desired reality, to create it through thought, and then to summon it into existence so to create your own space time reality.
War is the result of generations of programming and conditioning which has rooted in the belief systems of beings born to this planet, that war is necessary for survival. We are conditioned into believing in our separateness as beings, and programmed to not only perceive others who do not think, look, or act as we do as being different than us, we are programmed to fear them as well.
The ideas, beliefs and concepts that this planet feeds into on a mass conscious level is absurd, ignorant, and plain idiotic.
If we as beings were not intended to live amongst one another peacefully, then the very nature of the thing that created us all, would show evidence of this desire for destruction and separateness. This planet, this organism we the human organism not only exist in, but rely on for our very existence, is in complete harmony with itself.
We are the disease...The mass consciousness perception of this time space reality is the cancer.
Thank heaven for the desire of man to go beyond his current thoughts. May mans mind continue to expand. The internet is a wonderful tool for the enlightened, but it can also be a valuable asset to those who do not share our enlightenment.
The goal for each being must be to awaken to truth. It is gut wrenching the moment the newly conscious being comes into the knowing that its entire life up until the moment of awakening has been a lie, an illusion, a confection of familial, and social crap.
We are all drawing to us what we believe, and so if what we believe has been programmed into us by the media, and if all the generations before us were also programmed by their perceptions of time space reality, then today as a mass consciousness we are helping to maintain that warped time space reality the masses have been cunningly programmed and conditioned to believe in.
Mind what you read my friend. Mind what the evening news, reality television, hospital and prescription drug advertisements tells you what is wrong with you. You see, the sicker you are, the unhealthier you are, the more dependent you are on doctors and pharmaceutical drugs, the healthier our stock market.
Mind the warnings about unemployment. The poorer you are, the angrier you are, the sicker your perception of life is, the more dependent you are on the higher powers, and the weaker your mind. Weak minds are unthreatening.
Believe you can never get ahead, and those at the top sleep soundly at night.
You are what you believe you are.
You behave as you believe.
Beliefs create reality.
This time space reality is nothing more than the accumulation of generations of years of idiotic conditioning and programming.
We heal the world, by sharing our ideas of enlightenment to one mind at a time.
Please visit my website at healingtheselfwell.com
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Feel Better Now-Take A News Fast
Long ago I began paying strict attention to the way I was feeling. I would note how I felt around others, animals, oceans, and even how I felt while watching the news or reading the newspaper. What I discovered was that within me was this amazing guidance system that for far too long I sadly was not listening to.
I noted that my feelings would change whenever I was around certain people. Some people made me feel content, peaceful, joyful and even inspired, while others made me feel frustrated, annoyed, angry, insecure, and even depressed. On my journey towards self discovery I knew that unless I could master my emotions, I would forever be but a feather in the wind living life by default.
As I began noting my positive or negative feelings around others, I also began either pulling away from or gravitating to others. As I spent more time with people who saw the best in me, and less time with those who liked to pick out their perceived flaws of me, my state of being shifted to a much more positive state.
After watching the news or reading a newspaper, notably I would carry the weight of the negativity in my body as if what happened to others had happened to me or someone in my family. My mind would race with thoughts of "What if that happened to me or someone I loved?", and anxiety would fill my body.
Two years ago I stopped reading the newspaper and watching the evening news. It seems that the more I pay attention to me, and those I love, and the less I pay attention to the bad that is happening in the world, the more pleasant my life becomes.
These days I practice the "Wouldn't it be nice if..." game instead. Wouldn't it be nice if there were peace on earth? Wouldn't it be nice to be as healthy as a body could be? Wouldn't it be nice to win the lottery? Wouldn't it be nice to buy a new car?
It has been said that whatever a man thinks he is, he is. And whatever a man thinks he is not, he is not. Both statements are true.
By reprogramming our belief systems, we take control not only of our minds, but our entire world too.
I noted that my feelings would change whenever I was around certain people. Some people made me feel content, peaceful, joyful and even inspired, while others made me feel frustrated, annoyed, angry, insecure, and even depressed. On my journey towards self discovery I knew that unless I could master my emotions, I would forever be but a feather in the wind living life by default.
As I began noting my positive or negative feelings around others, I also began either pulling away from or gravitating to others. As I spent more time with people who saw the best in me, and less time with those who liked to pick out their perceived flaws of me, my state of being shifted to a much more positive state.
After watching the news or reading a newspaper, notably I would carry the weight of the negativity in my body as if what happened to others had happened to me or someone in my family. My mind would race with thoughts of "What if that happened to me or someone I loved?", and anxiety would fill my body.
Two years ago I stopped reading the newspaper and watching the evening news. It seems that the more I pay attention to me, and those I love, and the less I pay attention to the bad that is happening in the world, the more pleasant my life becomes.
These days I practice the "Wouldn't it be nice if..." game instead. Wouldn't it be nice if there were peace on earth? Wouldn't it be nice to be as healthy as a body could be? Wouldn't it be nice to win the lottery? Wouldn't it be nice to buy a new car?
It has been said that whatever a man thinks he is, he is. And whatever a man thinks he is not, he is not. Both statements are true.
By reprogramming our belief systems, we take control not only of our minds, but our entire world too.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Negative Social Mass Consciousness=Resistance of Manifestations
I came to the realization last night, while doing an evening meditation, that the whole reason man was created was for him/her to come into the knowing that expansion is not only the destiny of man, it is within man's deliberate control. While I have understood the Law of Attraction's premise, it only dawned on me last night, that truly this is the only reason Man was created at all. The LOA is not a law we can apply to our lives only if we want to. It is in effect whether we acknowledge it is or not, and to not use it deliberately, is like going on a cruise ship and never getting off at all the different ports of call.
Earth is like the Fun Ship. It is the planet made up physical stuff in the universe where source energy can manifest whatever it is it desires through the creative power of a conscious brain.
As our trillions of cells communicate within our physical bodies to one another, our physical bodies make up the cells of this universe in relation to other physical bodies, but also in relation to every other source of energy in our universe.
This means we not only communicate with other beings on a vibrational level, but we have the ability to communicate our desires through thought to the universe as well. And furthermore we can expect the universe to deliver.
If we can hold our wants out in front of us like we would an apple or a piece of bread and just look at them without judging them or placing expectations on them, our offering would be non resistant and the universe would deliver quickly.
It is in our resistance, found in emotions like doubt and guilt,that are created through social mass conscious programming that has helped design the self loathing mindsets so many of us have, that prevents our desires from manifesting quickly.
When we remove resistance like doubt, fear, guilt, worry, anxiety, anger and resentment, our desires rush to us quickly.
Earth is like the Fun Ship. It is the planet made up physical stuff in the universe where source energy can manifest whatever it is it desires through the creative power of a conscious brain.
As our trillions of cells communicate within our physical bodies to one another, our physical bodies make up the cells of this universe in relation to other physical bodies, but also in relation to every other source of energy in our universe.
This means we not only communicate with other beings on a vibrational level, but we have the ability to communicate our desires through thought to the universe as well. And furthermore we can expect the universe to deliver.
If we can hold our wants out in front of us like we would an apple or a piece of bread and just look at them without judging them or placing expectations on them, our offering would be non resistant and the universe would deliver quickly.
It is in our resistance, found in emotions like doubt and guilt,that are created through social mass conscious programming that has helped design the self loathing mindsets so many of us have, that prevents our desires from manifesting quickly.
When we remove resistance like doubt, fear, guilt, worry, anxiety, anger and resentment, our desires rush to us quickly.
Friday, September 16, 2011
Focus On What You Do Want
Never stop dreaming. Never stop believing. Never stop wanting. Focus less on what you do not want, and even on what is happening NOW that you do not want. Instead imagine, dream and ponder ideas of fancy, desires and possibility.
Your dreams attract all the atoms in the universe into perfect alignment, so that when what you want is ready for you, you shall step into that future reality and experience your dreams in your now.
And when that dream is had, you shall then dream another, and then yet another, and yet another still-creating-through thought all your days through...
With much love...
Your dreams attract all the atoms in the universe into perfect alignment, so that when what you want is ready for you, you shall step into that future reality and experience your dreams in your now.
And when that dream is had, you shall then dream another, and then yet another, and yet another still-creating-through thought all your days through...
With much love...
Thursday, September 15, 2011
You Program Your Children To Be What You Are-So Know What You Are
It has been said that children don't do what they are told. Instead children do what they have been programmed to do on a vibrational level. Whatever vibration or emotion the parents hold within them, the parents will by the laws of nature transfer those vibrations onto their children.
If a mother is deeply insecure, and yet on the surface runs a Fortune 500 company, no one else around her may be able to tell that under the savvy exterior lies a self doubting creature. But beneath it all, in the energy shared between she and her child, the truth will flow, or at least her inner flaw that is detached from her ultimate truth will flow.
We are all layers of beliefs, but at our core lies only one eternal truth. At our core we are all light energy, pure and limitless. Fear does not exist here.
Layered upon that truth are all the beliefs that have been programmed and conditioned into us by those we have met in the material realm along our life's path. If we fear others, it is because we have a layer that is labeled, "Fear Others" we need to peel off our Selves. If we fear the unknown, we have a layer that reads, "I Am Not Capable of Change". If we do not trust others, that is because there is a layer that blankets our mind that reads, "I Don't Believe In The Good of Others, or That I Am Worthy of Trust". And all these layers have come about because of the beliefs we picked up along the way that were innocently programmed into our thinking and thus are now a part of our vibrational offering by way of an unobserved belief.
The best way to arm our children against the disease of a damaged perception of self is to know what we think about our own selves as parents.
What kind of internal dialogue do we listen to in our heads everyday as we go about our day?
What kinds of words do we hear our programming shoot out to us as we stand in front of the bathroom mirror? How de we describe our selves to our selves?
When we are alone in the car with our children what kinds of topics do we discuss with them? Are they negatives or positive thought vibrations?
But most importantly, what emotional information are we sending our children through us on an emotional level?
Is their world a safe place?
Are we in love with our selves?
Do we trust others? Can they trust their inner guidance system?
Do we see mankind as a whole innately good?
Can we soothe our own feelings without blaming others for why we are or feel or do what we do?
Do we lash out when others don't do what we want them to do or what we think they should do, or feel, or think?
The answers to these questions will help you not only understand who you are on a deeper level, but it will help you know who you are programming your child to believe they are....
With much love....
If a mother is deeply insecure, and yet on the surface runs a Fortune 500 company, no one else around her may be able to tell that under the savvy exterior lies a self doubting creature. But beneath it all, in the energy shared between she and her child, the truth will flow, or at least her inner flaw that is detached from her ultimate truth will flow.
We are all layers of beliefs, but at our core lies only one eternal truth. At our core we are all light energy, pure and limitless. Fear does not exist here.
Layered upon that truth are all the beliefs that have been programmed and conditioned into us by those we have met in the material realm along our life's path. If we fear others, it is because we have a layer that is labeled, "Fear Others" we need to peel off our Selves. If we fear the unknown, we have a layer that reads, "I Am Not Capable of Change". If we do not trust others, that is because there is a layer that blankets our mind that reads, "I Don't Believe In The Good of Others, or That I Am Worthy of Trust". And all these layers have come about because of the beliefs we picked up along the way that were innocently programmed into our thinking and thus are now a part of our vibrational offering by way of an unobserved belief.
The best way to arm our children against the disease of a damaged perception of self is to know what we think about our own selves as parents.
What kind of internal dialogue do we listen to in our heads everyday as we go about our day?
What kinds of words do we hear our programming shoot out to us as we stand in front of the bathroom mirror? How de we describe our selves to our selves?
When we are alone in the car with our children what kinds of topics do we discuss with them? Are they negatives or positive thought vibrations?
But most importantly, what emotional information are we sending our children through us on an emotional level?
Is their world a safe place?
Are we in love with our selves?
Do we trust others? Can they trust their inner guidance system?
Do we see mankind as a whole innately good?
Can we soothe our own feelings without blaming others for why we are or feel or do what we do?
Do we lash out when others don't do what we want them to do or what we think they should do, or feel, or think?
The answers to these questions will help you not only understand who you are on a deeper level, but it will help you know who you are programming your child to believe they are....
With much love....
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Battling Collective Consciousnesses En Route To Individual Consciousness
Conception is liken to the Big Bang. First there was nothing, and then out of nothing came everything.
Only conscious beings can be observers. Reality as we know it is the result of our observation of it. Therefore we are all tied into consciousness more intimately than we may realize by the mere fact that we share perceptions of reality at all.
Reality is the result of observation. War is a reality because we can observe it, ponder about it, speak about it and involve ourselves in it. If there were no one to observe a war, would the war exist at all?
Quantum physics tells us that atoms do not exist in one fixed place. In fact atoms are spread out, and are unmeasurable until a CONSCIOUS observer decides to measure it. Atoms behave according to what the observer believes it is seeing or should see.
There are those who doubt reality exists at all, because according to quantum mechanics, the very act of observing particles changes them. What then does that mean to the average human conscious being?
It means that you are in control. It means we beings are not feathers in the wind. It means that we see what we expect to see. It means that collectively throughout history there have been general laws or ideas handed down throughout time that have been somewhat solidified and accepted by the 'mass consciousness' as what we call reality. As a mass consciousness we have learned to accept that the sun is a sun, and that the sky is the sky. We have been conditioned to collectively learn the languages we speak, the ideas we hold in our heads and the traditions we follow.
As a whole we represent a mass consciousness which is why so many believe in wars, separateness, division and supremacy over others. We can pick up a newspaper and relate to what we read because we have been conditioned to adopt the collective ideas of the generations that came before us. We believe what we believe and do what we do because we have been roped into a collective consciousness that has been past down from generation to generation.
There is a general societal consciousness that includes our collective consciousness on issues concerning government, religion, and even entertainers. Then there are more subjective collective consciousnesses like those that our particular families believe in.
The deeper truth is, that beyond what our societal consciousness programming may be, and beyond what our familial consciousness programming might be, there is "us" and our divine right to see reality as we want to see it.
People hate because they have been programmed and conditioned by a collective consciousness that has taught them to hate.
War exists because all involved are a part of a collective consciousness that believes in the act of war.
Poverty exists because collective consciousness deems poverty a reality, and thus those who have been taught to believe in it, see it, absorb it as a part of their 'perceived reality' and thus experience it.
If our collective consciousness never believed in wars, or hate, or poverty, then our observation and thus reality would be void of such things.
The key is to know this truth and to study its laws so that all beings come to know they are free to attract to them all that they desire simply by changing their perceptions of their reality.
Only conscious beings can be observers. Reality as we know it is the result of our observation of it. Therefore we are all tied into consciousness more intimately than we may realize by the mere fact that we share perceptions of reality at all.
Reality is the result of observation. War is a reality because we can observe it, ponder about it, speak about it and involve ourselves in it. If there were no one to observe a war, would the war exist at all?
Quantum physics tells us that atoms do not exist in one fixed place. In fact atoms are spread out, and are unmeasurable until a CONSCIOUS observer decides to measure it. Atoms behave according to what the observer believes it is seeing or should see.
There are those who doubt reality exists at all, because according to quantum mechanics, the very act of observing particles changes them. What then does that mean to the average human conscious being?
It means that you are in control. It means we beings are not feathers in the wind. It means that we see what we expect to see. It means that collectively throughout history there have been general laws or ideas handed down throughout time that have been somewhat solidified and accepted by the 'mass consciousness' as what we call reality. As a mass consciousness we have learned to accept that the sun is a sun, and that the sky is the sky. We have been conditioned to collectively learn the languages we speak, the ideas we hold in our heads and the traditions we follow.
As a whole we represent a mass consciousness which is why so many believe in wars, separateness, division and supremacy over others. We can pick up a newspaper and relate to what we read because we have been conditioned to adopt the collective ideas of the generations that came before us. We believe what we believe and do what we do because we have been roped into a collective consciousness that has been past down from generation to generation.
There is a general societal consciousness that includes our collective consciousness on issues concerning government, religion, and even entertainers. Then there are more subjective collective consciousnesses like those that our particular families believe in.
The deeper truth is, that beyond what our societal consciousness programming may be, and beyond what our familial consciousness programming might be, there is "us" and our divine right to see reality as we want to see it.
People hate because they have been programmed and conditioned by a collective consciousness that has taught them to hate.
War exists because all involved are a part of a collective consciousness that believes in the act of war.
Poverty exists because collective consciousness deems poverty a reality, and thus those who have been taught to believe in it, see it, absorb it as a part of their 'perceived reality' and thus experience it.
If our collective consciousness never believed in wars, or hate, or poverty, then our observation and thus reality would be void of such things.
The key is to know this truth and to study its laws so that all beings come to know they are free to attract to them all that they desire simply by changing their perceptions of their reality.
Saturday, September 10, 2011
How Can I Make A Difference In This World
I am one who believes that each of us has been born with one goal only, and that is to become all that we can by following our bliss. Our reason for being born is to to love ourselves as is if we were our own creator.
If you created you, there would be no need for you to look outside yourself for validation or worthiness. You would not fall mindless victim to societal programming or docrtine. You would go forth into every day seeing the world and others through the eyes of your source; YOU.
No matter who you are or where you live, no matter how young or how old, or how rich or how poor, how physically fit or not you may be, YOU can make a difference in this world, right here and right now.
Learn to practice seeing beauty wherever you are. If you are in traffic, notice the majesty in the skies. If you are in a small apartment, feel the softness of the sofa beneath you, or appreciate fully how expansive your lungs get when you take a deep breath. If you are on your phone, appreciate the technology it took to get these words from my mind, onto my computer, then to my blog, up onto the internet and into your palm.
Practice refusing to gossip. Practice not reading the newspaper or clicking on negative news sites on the internet. Practice NOT comparing yourself to others who seem to possess things you desire or the way they look. Practice walking and staying focused in your own mind as others pass you by. Practice tuning into your own thoughts. Create your own thoughts. Practice telling your mind what you want to think. Stop living by default on old unchecked thinking that has been laid by childhood programming.
Your mind is your own. Question EVERYTHING.
If you want to make a difference in this world, start right now by turning your mind towards appreciating, something-anything right where you are. Raise your emotional vibration higher and away from anything that drags you down.
Practice-practice-practice until seeing beauty is your norm, because when you do, you transform not only YOU but you become part of the shift in human consciousness that is leading towards a better more loving world.
When you stop giving your attention to news about wars, murders and so on, the wars stop inside your mind. Your perception of the world changes for the better and by doing so you become an inspiration to all those who know you right where you are.
The world is made up of me's and you's. If I make the best out of me, and in some way inspire you to be a better you, and you in turn inspire someone you know to be a better them, eventually we will have created enough of a positive shift in human consciousness to bring about a more peaceful world.
YOU are worthy.
If you created you, there would be no need for you to look outside yourself for validation or worthiness. You would not fall mindless victim to societal programming or docrtine. You would go forth into every day seeing the world and others through the eyes of your source; YOU.
No matter who you are or where you live, no matter how young or how old, or how rich or how poor, how physically fit or not you may be, YOU can make a difference in this world, right here and right now.
Learn to practice seeing beauty wherever you are. If you are in traffic, notice the majesty in the skies. If you are in a small apartment, feel the softness of the sofa beneath you, or appreciate fully how expansive your lungs get when you take a deep breath. If you are on your phone, appreciate the technology it took to get these words from my mind, onto my computer, then to my blog, up onto the internet and into your palm.
Practice refusing to gossip. Practice not reading the newspaper or clicking on negative news sites on the internet. Practice NOT comparing yourself to others who seem to possess things you desire or the way they look. Practice walking and staying focused in your own mind as others pass you by. Practice tuning into your own thoughts. Create your own thoughts. Practice telling your mind what you want to think. Stop living by default on old unchecked thinking that has been laid by childhood programming.
Your mind is your own. Question EVERYTHING.
If you want to make a difference in this world, start right now by turning your mind towards appreciating, something-anything right where you are. Raise your emotional vibration higher and away from anything that drags you down.
Practice-practice-practice until seeing beauty is your norm, because when you do, you transform not only YOU but you become part of the shift in human consciousness that is leading towards a better more loving world.
When you stop giving your attention to news about wars, murders and so on, the wars stop inside your mind. Your perception of the world changes for the better and by doing so you become an inspiration to all those who know you right where you are.
The world is made up of me's and you's. If I make the best out of me, and in some way inspire you to be a better you, and you in turn inspire someone you know to be a better them, eventually we will have created enough of a positive shift in human consciousness to bring about a more peaceful world.
YOU are worthy.
Friday, September 9, 2011
Evolution of Man...The Argument
Undoubtedly you, like myself at more than one time or another, have found yourself smack dab in the middle of a conversation about human evolution. I have met some who believe we are still evolving in a physical manner. I have heard it said that once we humans had tails, feathers and gills.
I was born a curious soul who instinctively questioned everything. While I was emotionally aware that my curiosity inconvenienced and certainly annoyed the teachers and caretakers in my life, this innate need to have information make sense to me on an intellectual as well as soulful level, was not something I could pull away from my self.
It confused me to think that humans were once apes. Why then do we still have apes?
It confused me to think that we were once fish, although I agree that in utero we all certainly breathe in water.
It confused me to think we all once had feathers or fur, although in utero all embryo's are covered with a thin layer of fine hair, some might call fur.
And although some might argue the tail theory, all embryo's do appear rather reptilian in stages of development.
And as my father believes we were once all just some sludge, I must agree that at conception, and in the hours that proceed, microscopically all our beginnings are rather sludge and amoeba like.
As I grew and began to own rights to my own thinking mind, I was freed to ask as many questions as I wanted, and was thrilled that I could find the answers that suited me all on my own. How I bless the internet!
What I have now freely concluded and joyously report to have discovered my minds opinion does not stand alone is, that evolution is a reality.
However, the evolution of man as a whole has far less to do with his physicality and instead has absolutely everything to do with his mind.
Evolution of man is not about whether or not he ever walked on all fours, or ate pits and wood. It is about the ever growing expansion of the human mind and its ability to go beyond its prior limiting conditioning, programming and beliefs.
If man were not an evolving collecting consciousness, we might still believe the world was flat, have never traveled out of Africa, and might still be burning intuitive people like myself at the stake.
Life is good for you and for me.
Man is evolving ever so slowly, but evolving nonetheless...It was not so long ago women could not vote and Martin Luther King was shot for believing in unity...
There are hero's amongst us, and you my friend are one of them. In you is the same seed that lived in hero's like Rosa Parks, Martin Luther King, John Lennon, Amelia Erhart and Margret Brent.
Claim your right to help improve the world by expanding your own small version, water downed opinion of YOU...and become a greater part of mankind's ever growing evolution of consciousness.
It was the reason you were created at all. A utopia is on the way. One day all boundaries and foolish ideas of separateness shall fade. Until then, alike minds like mine do what we can to spread the message through our gifts...whatever they might be.
You are loved! You are one of us, whether you embrace that or not...And WE, those of us who consider ourselves children of the universe await for you to awaken to who you truly are and why you are....
I was born a curious soul who instinctively questioned everything. While I was emotionally aware that my curiosity inconvenienced and certainly annoyed the teachers and caretakers in my life, this innate need to have information make sense to me on an intellectual as well as soulful level, was not something I could pull away from my self.
It confused me to think that humans were once apes. Why then do we still have apes?
It confused me to think that we were once fish, although I agree that in utero we all certainly breathe in water.
It confused me to think we all once had feathers or fur, although in utero all embryo's are covered with a thin layer of fine hair, some might call fur.
And although some might argue the tail theory, all embryo's do appear rather reptilian in stages of development.
And as my father believes we were once all just some sludge, I must agree that at conception, and in the hours that proceed, microscopically all our beginnings are rather sludge and amoeba like.
As I grew and began to own rights to my own thinking mind, I was freed to ask as many questions as I wanted, and was thrilled that I could find the answers that suited me all on my own. How I bless the internet!
What I have now freely concluded and joyously report to have discovered my minds opinion does not stand alone is, that evolution is a reality.
However, the evolution of man as a whole has far less to do with his physicality and instead has absolutely everything to do with his mind.
Evolution of man is not about whether or not he ever walked on all fours, or ate pits and wood. It is about the ever growing expansion of the human mind and its ability to go beyond its prior limiting conditioning, programming and beliefs.
If man were not an evolving collecting consciousness, we might still believe the world was flat, have never traveled out of Africa, and might still be burning intuitive people like myself at the stake.
Life is good for you and for me.
Man is evolving ever so slowly, but evolving nonetheless...It was not so long ago women could not vote and Martin Luther King was shot for believing in unity...
There are hero's amongst us, and you my friend are one of them. In you is the same seed that lived in hero's like Rosa Parks, Martin Luther King, John Lennon, Amelia Erhart and Margret Brent.
Claim your right to help improve the world by expanding your own small version, water downed opinion of YOU...and become a greater part of mankind's ever growing evolution of consciousness.
It was the reason you were created at all. A utopia is on the way. One day all boundaries and foolish ideas of separateness shall fade. Until then, alike minds like mine do what we can to spread the message through our gifts...whatever they might be.
You are loved! You are one of us, whether you embrace that or not...And WE, those of us who consider ourselves children of the universe await for you to awaken to who you truly are and why you are....
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Why Your Life Sucks Now
As an Intuitive Coach specializing in the Law of Attraction, I attract those into my experience who are ready to go beyond that which they are experiencing in the here and the now;what humans call time space reality.
There is something going on in their life they are not pleased with and wish to change. It is not uncommon for me to hear, "My life sucks."
As one whose life is dedicated to the evolution of human consciousness, I understand that as a mind thinks so shall the life become. Circumstances are ALWAYS the result of how and what a person is thinking, which is ALWAYS motivated by emotion.
One who is in conflict with their inner being, who has been conditioned to play mind games with others in an attempt to gain power back over their lives, often winds up as one who actively participates in self sabotage. I know of a world record holder in a sporting event, who once told me he loathed himself on a consistent basis. He struggled with depression and obesity as well as drug addiction. No one would know the war this highly gifted human being was fighting. But he did. And I did.
If your life sucks now, it is because you believe it does. It is because you are not the master of your own thoughts. Instead you are a slave to your thoughts, which are nothing more but notions and ideas that have been impressed upon you through cultural, religious and familial conditioning. Until you AWAKEN to your inner being, you will thrash about this planet feeling very much like a victim rather than the glorious, magnificent, creator you were intended to be.
Humans are the leading edge of all that is. As we look back in time, we can see the evolution of man expanding. Originally all mankind began in Africa. Slowly man migrated out of Africa and ventured across the oceans to expand. Had man not been expanding on a conscious level, the world as we know it, would exist only in the lands of Africa.
Over centuries, man's mind expands and as it does human consciousness elevates to a higher vibration. Many of us already know there are no boundaries. There is no separateness. At our truth there is only energy. And we are all simply extensions of that energy who have been created with the purpose of pulling human consciousness forward.
I am thankful for the gift of the internet, and all social media outlets that allow for the spreading of such blessed information.
If your life sucks, it is because you have never known consciously the true reason for your existence here. But it is my promise, that if you practice and study creation, your life will change.
If you study the law of attraction and if you practice listening to music infused with binaural rhythms, and if you learn to STOP all negative thoughts the minute they begin in your mind, eventually you will gather up enough momentum in your positive emotional stream and find your life turning around.
You were born with a gift. The gift is your imagination. If you are not imaging yourself into peace and harmony, you are turning away from your truth. You are thus turning more towards the dark than the light.
Your life does not suck. You just think it does.
There is something going on in their life they are not pleased with and wish to change. It is not uncommon for me to hear, "My life sucks."
As one whose life is dedicated to the evolution of human consciousness, I understand that as a mind thinks so shall the life become. Circumstances are ALWAYS the result of how and what a person is thinking, which is ALWAYS motivated by emotion.
One who is in conflict with their inner being, who has been conditioned to play mind games with others in an attempt to gain power back over their lives, often winds up as one who actively participates in self sabotage. I know of a world record holder in a sporting event, who once told me he loathed himself on a consistent basis. He struggled with depression and obesity as well as drug addiction. No one would know the war this highly gifted human being was fighting. But he did. And I did.
If your life sucks now, it is because you believe it does. It is because you are not the master of your own thoughts. Instead you are a slave to your thoughts, which are nothing more but notions and ideas that have been impressed upon you through cultural, religious and familial conditioning. Until you AWAKEN to your inner being, you will thrash about this planet feeling very much like a victim rather than the glorious, magnificent, creator you were intended to be.
Humans are the leading edge of all that is. As we look back in time, we can see the evolution of man expanding. Originally all mankind began in Africa. Slowly man migrated out of Africa and ventured across the oceans to expand. Had man not been expanding on a conscious level, the world as we know it, would exist only in the lands of Africa.
Over centuries, man's mind expands and as it does human consciousness elevates to a higher vibration. Many of us already know there are no boundaries. There is no separateness. At our truth there is only energy. And we are all simply extensions of that energy who have been created with the purpose of pulling human consciousness forward.
I am thankful for the gift of the internet, and all social media outlets that allow for the spreading of such blessed information.
If your life sucks, it is because you have never known consciously the true reason for your existence here. But it is my promise, that if you practice and study creation, your life will change.
If you study the law of attraction and if you practice listening to music infused with binaural rhythms, and if you learn to STOP all negative thoughts the minute they begin in your mind, eventually you will gather up enough momentum in your positive emotional stream and find your life turning around.
You were born with a gift. The gift is your imagination. If you are not imaging yourself into peace and harmony, you are turning away from your truth. You are thus turning more towards the dark than the light.
Your life does not suck. You just think it does.
Sunday, September 4, 2011
How Do We Help One Another In This Time
For those of us who have bucked the mass consciousness of man and whom have decidedly chosen to take the road less traveled through deliberate creating of the lives we do want by focusing on feeling good now, how do we too, help one another in this time space reality with their focusing upon their own vortex?
How do we enlighten, entice and encourage those amongst us who are still burdened with doctrine, and stinging with the fear inflicted by the less conscious humans?
How do we help one another learn to become allowers of good feelings, and appreciators of blessings seen as well as unseen, when the collective negative consciousness of man is so prevalent?
When we were first born there was no resistance in our vibrational energy that was not pulling us towards a wanting and fulfilling of greater contentment. Our desire then was to simply "be". As infants we intrinsically knew what it was to be in alignment with our source, and deeper why we were born at all.
You were born to be free. You were born to come here and to learn what those things were and are that bring you joy. You were born to find appreciation in everything your eyes laid themselves upon. You were born not only to receive love but to give it as well. You were born to feel good, all the time, and when you don't you are pinching yourself off from your source as well as your reason for being at all.
For those of us who accept and delight in the knowledge that we are each creators of our own life experience, we have already come to know that peace is ours and can be ours whenever we desire. We know that what we focus upon we cause to grow. We understand that one negative thought if focused upon will draw to it another negative thought. We understand that as each negative thought attaches to another, the energy to it increases dramatically, and so do the negative emotions that keep us unhappy and unfulfilled, complaining, whining, depressed, anxiety ridden, and looking for someone to blame for why WE feel the way we feel.
We all feel the way we feel because of the way we choose to THINK. And what we think we CAN control.
I have found that the best way to help one another in this time space reality stay closer to their vortex, is by staying as near and as deeply into my own vortex as I possibly can.
When in my vortex, I am in my zone. I am joyful, joking, light hearted and appreciative of all things whether they seem good or bad. I know that bad things serve me as well as good things, because through the contrast of the bad, I get to expand my ideas of what it is that will make me even more happy.
We help one another by being examples of "In The Vortex" creatures, who are chronic appreciators of all that is. And by example, and through the great connectors like blogging, twitter, facebook, and other online social media outlets, we bridge our broader more conscious minds and help tip the scales towards greater good for all mankind.
How do we enlighten, entice and encourage those amongst us who are still burdened with doctrine, and stinging with the fear inflicted by the less conscious humans?
How do we help one another learn to become allowers of good feelings, and appreciators of blessings seen as well as unseen, when the collective negative consciousness of man is so prevalent?
When we were first born there was no resistance in our vibrational energy that was not pulling us towards a wanting and fulfilling of greater contentment. Our desire then was to simply "be". As infants we intrinsically knew what it was to be in alignment with our source, and deeper why we were born at all.
You were born to be free. You were born to come here and to learn what those things were and are that bring you joy. You were born to find appreciation in everything your eyes laid themselves upon. You were born not only to receive love but to give it as well. You were born to feel good, all the time, and when you don't you are pinching yourself off from your source as well as your reason for being at all.
For those of us who accept and delight in the knowledge that we are each creators of our own life experience, we have already come to know that peace is ours and can be ours whenever we desire. We know that what we focus upon we cause to grow. We understand that one negative thought if focused upon will draw to it another negative thought. We understand that as each negative thought attaches to another, the energy to it increases dramatically, and so do the negative emotions that keep us unhappy and unfulfilled, complaining, whining, depressed, anxiety ridden, and looking for someone to blame for why WE feel the way we feel.
We all feel the way we feel because of the way we choose to THINK. And what we think we CAN control.
I have found that the best way to help one another in this time space reality stay closer to their vortex, is by staying as near and as deeply into my own vortex as I possibly can.
When in my vortex, I am in my zone. I am joyful, joking, light hearted and appreciative of all things whether they seem good or bad. I know that bad things serve me as well as good things, because through the contrast of the bad, I get to expand my ideas of what it is that will make me even more happy.
We help one another by being examples of "In The Vortex" creatures, who are chronic appreciators of all that is. And by example, and through the great connectors like blogging, twitter, facebook, and other online social media outlets, we bridge our broader more conscious minds and help tip the scales towards greater good for all mankind.
Monday, August 29, 2011
Reaction Creation
The same letters that make up the word 'reaction' also make up the word 'creation'.
Whatever you react to you, you are actively going to create, whether knowingly or by default.
If you are reacting to a negative situation at work, you are 'attaching' yourself to the negative emotions your thought process has learned to 'react' to.
There is no doubt that unless you 'switch your focus' the situation in front of you will only worsen. Road rage is an example of how one person interprets slow moving traffic as a negative emotion and has it manifest as frustration. Unless the person experiencing the road rage deliberately chooses to stop 'reacting' and thus 'negatively creating', the negative emotions will attract to him/her someone who is on the same frequency as frustration. As the two worlds of negativity combine an unnecessary road war erupts.
And to think...our world is held together in the cosmos by air and men/women on planet earth really, really think that slow moving traffic is something to fight about.
If you are happy because of an upcoming event, in your mind you will experience positive emotions. You might feel happy, joy, anticipation and hope. And while these emotions spew within you, you begin to see yourself enjoying the event. You are reacting and thus creating in your mind through the power of your own thoughts.
The key that many men yet to take hold of and use to their advantage is the fact that all you need to live a happy life is within you. Your mind has the innate miraculous ability to create through imagination all that he/she desires to experience.
We fail as the masses to understand that it is not the 'thing' or the 'person' that is going to make us happy. Its not the new house, or the new car. What we seek is the idea of what it will 'feel' like to have the new home, or new car. But waiting for the 'thing' to show up in your time space reality before you learn to 'allow' your self to feel what it is you believe these things will summon within you, is like not allowing your body to use its arms or hands to get through life.
Your mind is all you need. By learning to react less or not at all to negative situations, you learn to stop creating the negativity that has a way of cycling in your life.
By learning to imagine wonderful things you'd like to experience in your time space reality, you create through the power of imagination. In doing this, you train the universe to key itself up to your vibrational offerings and thus cause the universe to react to your imagining thoughts of creation.
Sit back, fuss less, react less, and imagine more....
Your cosmic sister,
Lisa
Whatever you react to you, you are actively going to create, whether knowingly or by default.
If you are reacting to a negative situation at work, you are 'attaching' yourself to the negative emotions your thought process has learned to 'react' to.
There is no doubt that unless you 'switch your focus' the situation in front of you will only worsen. Road rage is an example of how one person interprets slow moving traffic as a negative emotion and has it manifest as frustration. Unless the person experiencing the road rage deliberately chooses to stop 'reacting' and thus 'negatively creating', the negative emotions will attract to him/her someone who is on the same frequency as frustration. As the two worlds of negativity combine an unnecessary road war erupts.
And to think...our world is held together in the cosmos by air and men/women on planet earth really, really think that slow moving traffic is something to fight about.
If you are happy because of an upcoming event, in your mind you will experience positive emotions. You might feel happy, joy, anticipation and hope. And while these emotions spew within you, you begin to see yourself enjoying the event. You are reacting and thus creating in your mind through the power of your own thoughts.
The key that many men yet to take hold of and use to their advantage is the fact that all you need to live a happy life is within you. Your mind has the innate miraculous ability to create through imagination all that he/she desires to experience.
We fail as the masses to understand that it is not the 'thing' or the 'person' that is going to make us happy. Its not the new house, or the new car. What we seek is the idea of what it will 'feel' like to have the new home, or new car. But waiting for the 'thing' to show up in your time space reality before you learn to 'allow' your self to feel what it is you believe these things will summon within you, is like not allowing your body to use its arms or hands to get through life.
Your mind is all you need. By learning to react less or not at all to negative situations, you learn to stop creating the negativity that has a way of cycling in your life.
By learning to imagine wonderful things you'd like to experience in your time space reality, you create through the power of imagination. In doing this, you train the universe to key itself up to your vibrational offerings and thus cause the universe to react to your imagining thoughts of creation.
Sit back, fuss less, react less, and imagine more....
Your cosmic sister,
Lisa
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Who Am I And Why Am I Here?
Good for you. Your thoughts are working for you. You have asked, and you have received. Your conscious mind has asked, "Who am I and why am I here?", and now here you are, discovering that as you have asked you have received.
Your offering was the question. The question was summoned through thought and that thought was evoked through emotion. That emotion created energy or a vibration. The vibrational offering of the question, resulted in its vibrational equivalent resulting in the answer. And here it is, the law of attraction working for you whether you are aware of it or not.
Many millions of years ago a great energy event caused the formation of our galaxies. Earth is but one speck of dust in the universe, or perhaps even multi dimensional universes that may exist. Our reality of what a universe is, can only be defined what can be physically detected, and because our technological ability has limits, so too do many of us limit our reality of what is or what might be.
We humans have been sadly conditioned to pay far too much attention to 'physical reality'. Most of us were programmed into giving up our rights to our pure connection to self for the sake of worrying about what others might think of us. Our parents, in fear we might embarrass them, through covert as well as overt manipulative tactics, did their very best to squeeze us into their idea of what perfection was to them. Whether our parents owned tiny homes in trailer parks, or lived in castles in the Alps, more than likely whoever our parents were, they unknowingly infected us with the disease of soul alienation.
The very fact that the emotion in you has been created that has you pondering such an incredible intense question like, "Who am I and why am I here?", is evidence enough of your alienation to your very own soul. Had it been that you are one who is in alignment with ones own soul, there would be no need for you to have the energy of pondering such a question.
You are not alone.
And there is no shame in that. There can only be more positive on its way to you, for you have begun to embark on the expansive, and glorious journey of owning ones own mind through conscious and deliberate pondering of thoughts of your own choosing.
Most humans sadly do not even realize they can question how their mind thinks. They do not wonder why they do what they do or say what they say. They simply create their realities by default, wind up depressed, angry, irritable or alone, and then blame others for the situations and circumstances they have found themselves in, detached from the truth that they attracted, through the offering of negative thoughts, the equivalent of those negative thoughts in physical form that they are now experiencing in real time.
You are not here to create life by default. You are here to expand, and to acknowledge the fact that through the power of your mind; through mental focus you can draw to you all that you desire. The same energy that created this universe created you. In spite of where you may live, and what horrendous circumstances you may have found yourself born into, you can overcome. You are a great creator and through the power of your focus can get yourself out of anything you are in that does not please you. You were intended to attract to you a life that pleases you, although you may have been programmed to believe in what others think of you and want for you.
You are here for the same reason a tree, a rose or a bird is here. You are here to expand. You are here to use all the incredible gifts that being a human being has to offer to your advantage. You are here as pure focused energy, in physical form to use your unlimited brain power to its fullest potential opposed to not using it by not asking such life changing questions like, "Who am I and why am I here?".
You are here to learn to ignore reality, especially the oppressing realities that have been imposed on you by family, organized religion, as well as society. You are here to learn to create, through the power of your human ability to generate visions in your mind about how it is you would like your life to be, and to stay focused upon those visions until they manifest in your real time, in order that you may have all that you desire.
You are here to learn to be as a child again. Children are those who want only to play, who respond only to whatever it is that draws them nearer to their 'vortex, or their matrix, or their center, or themselves.' Children seek only to play, to laugh, to have fun, and thus wish to be happy rather than to worry, obsess, or to be sad. It is innate in us all to laugh, and to love. That is who we are, and why we are.
We are here to own who we are. If we are a rose, we know we are a rose and reach towards the sun because we know by how good it feels that by reaching towards the sun we get to 'expand' and be all that life has called us to be. If we are a tree, we do not worry about what the fern or the sun thinks of us. We simply keep on being a tree. If we are hummingbirds we do not develop OCD because we wished we were eagles. We simply go on being hummingbirds.
We humans are not happy because we do not use our conscious minds for what it was created for. Unlike other creatures on this planet who do not have the ability to question or create their own realities through deliberate thought, we humans have been conditioned to worry and obsess about others rather than to champion and harness our true purpose as divine creators.
Who are you? You are the stars, the oceans, the moons, and the birds. You are the cosmos seen and unseen. You are the wind, and the rain. You are all that is, and all that will be. You are an extension of all the energies that are responsible for the creating of the universes. But you have been taught to believe in circumstances instead.
You have been taught to pay attention to the negative circumstances in your life, circumstances that were created by the negative thoughts of those who came far long before you entered this time and place.
It is time to change the direction of your life, and in so doing serve humanity by helping others come closer to the knowing of who they truly are as well. As you expand and rise above, you uplift others. Through your example the world gets lighter. It may take time to get your life to where it is you want it to go, but in time, with enough attention paid to what you do want instead of paying attention to what it is that you don't want, life will begin to reveal to you more positive experiences.
You will no doubt have those who taunt you along the way. As you begin to ignore what is, and as you practice staying within your mind, inside the walls of your creative vault, others less aware than yourself may desire to discourage you out of envy. As you begin to transform and rise above those who are less willing to let go of their victim mentality, you may irritate them through the contrast of your sudden ability to be more positive. Others may turn from you, mock you and even say you are crazy. Create anyway.
The greatest creators of our time were all called crazy at one point or another. Einstein was considered by some to be far from intelligent. Van Gogh, Tolstoy and Wolf have all been labeled as crazy, and yet the works of these creators are ones this society has learned to cherish.
It can be a lonely existence. Creators who find consolation in their creating are not well understood by the masses. Because creators are born to create, and because creation is the birthing of subjective imagination, often what the creator has found excitement in is so personal it us unable to be shared by others. Others less imaginative who are more concerned with how others might judge the creation, are frustrated as well as frustrate the beauty of the creative process in the creator.
Times have changed. Had the internet been discovered centuries ago, great artists like Beethoven, Van Gogh, and Einstein would have been able to keystroke themselves into an online social network of creators much like themselves, and thus would not have suffered the stigma so stinging as the labels of crazies as they had.
You are a creator and that is why you have found this article. It is not by chance that you have been drawn to it.
If you are not happy with where you are, ignore your present reality, and begin creating in your mind the life you imagine that would bring you joy, happiness, contentment, peace and love. Find the feeling you are looking for and focus upon it. And when others ask you to stop making yourself happy, hear yourself say, "I know what I know and I know I don't want this, and in order to get what I want, I have to imagine it first." Just as you cannot drive through a fast food restaurant and expect the person at the drive thru window to know what you want without you first telling them what it is you do want, you must instruct the universe in very much the same way.
Decide what you want and then focus upon it in your mind through the miracle of creative imagination until you can feel your life turn in the direction of your wanting.
You are here to create and to uplift not only others here now, but future generations as well. And in the discovering of your true purpose, you help others discover theirs, just as I have helped you discover your true purpose, through the delicious discovering of my own.
Your offering was the question. The question was summoned through thought and that thought was evoked through emotion. That emotion created energy or a vibration. The vibrational offering of the question, resulted in its vibrational equivalent resulting in the answer. And here it is, the law of attraction working for you whether you are aware of it or not.
Many millions of years ago a great energy event caused the formation of our galaxies. Earth is but one speck of dust in the universe, or perhaps even multi dimensional universes that may exist. Our reality of what a universe is, can only be defined what can be physically detected, and because our technological ability has limits, so too do many of us limit our reality of what is or what might be.
We humans have been sadly conditioned to pay far too much attention to 'physical reality'. Most of us were programmed into giving up our rights to our pure connection to self for the sake of worrying about what others might think of us. Our parents, in fear we might embarrass them, through covert as well as overt manipulative tactics, did their very best to squeeze us into their idea of what perfection was to them. Whether our parents owned tiny homes in trailer parks, or lived in castles in the Alps, more than likely whoever our parents were, they unknowingly infected us with the disease of soul alienation.
The very fact that the emotion in you has been created that has you pondering such an incredible intense question like, "Who am I and why am I here?", is evidence enough of your alienation to your very own soul. Had it been that you are one who is in alignment with ones own soul, there would be no need for you to have the energy of pondering such a question.
You are not alone.
And there is no shame in that. There can only be more positive on its way to you, for you have begun to embark on the expansive, and glorious journey of owning ones own mind through conscious and deliberate pondering of thoughts of your own choosing.
Most humans sadly do not even realize they can question how their mind thinks. They do not wonder why they do what they do or say what they say. They simply create their realities by default, wind up depressed, angry, irritable or alone, and then blame others for the situations and circumstances they have found themselves in, detached from the truth that they attracted, through the offering of negative thoughts, the equivalent of those negative thoughts in physical form that they are now experiencing in real time.
You are not here to create life by default. You are here to expand, and to acknowledge the fact that through the power of your mind; through mental focus you can draw to you all that you desire. The same energy that created this universe created you. In spite of where you may live, and what horrendous circumstances you may have found yourself born into, you can overcome. You are a great creator and through the power of your focus can get yourself out of anything you are in that does not please you. You were intended to attract to you a life that pleases you, although you may have been programmed to believe in what others think of you and want for you.
You are here for the same reason a tree, a rose or a bird is here. You are here to expand. You are here to use all the incredible gifts that being a human being has to offer to your advantage. You are here as pure focused energy, in physical form to use your unlimited brain power to its fullest potential opposed to not using it by not asking such life changing questions like, "Who am I and why am I here?".
You are here to learn to ignore reality, especially the oppressing realities that have been imposed on you by family, organized religion, as well as society. You are here to learn to create, through the power of your human ability to generate visions in your mind about how it is you would like your life to be, and to stay focused upon those visions until they manifest in your real time, in order that you may have all that you desire.
You are here to learn to be as a child again. Children are those who want only to play, who respond only to whatever it is that draws them nearer to their 'vortex, or their matrix, or their center, or themselves.' Children seek only to play, to laugh, to have fun, and thus wish to be happy rather than to worry, obsess, or to be sad. It is innate in us all to laugh, and to love. That is who we are, and why we are.
We are here to own who we are. If we are a rose, we know we are a rose and reach towards the sun because we know by how good it feels that by reaching towards the sun we get to 'expand' and be all that life has called us to be. If we are a tree, we do not worry about what the fern or the sun thinks of us. We simply keep on being a tree. If we are hummingbirds we do not develop OCD because we wished we were eagles. We simply go on being hummingbirds.
We humans are not happy because we do not use our conscious minds for what it was created for. Unlike other creatures on this planet who do not have the ability to question or create their own realities through deliberate thought, we humans have been conditioned to worry and obsess about others rather than to champion and harness our true purpose as divine creators.
Who are you? You are the stars, the oceans, the moons, and the birds. You are the cosmos seen and unseen. You are the wind, and the rain. You are all that is, and all that will be. You are an extension of all the energies that are responsible for the creating of the universes. But you have been taught to believe in circumstances instead.
You have been taught to pay attention to the negative circumstances in your life, circumstances that were created by the negative thoughts of those who came far long before you entered this time and place.
It is time to change the direction of your life, and in so doing serve humanity by helping others come closer to the knowing of who they truly are as well. As you expand and rise above, you uplift others. Through your example the world gets lighter. It may take time to get your life to where it is you want it to go, but in time, with enough attention paid to what you do want instead of paying attention to what it is that you don't want, life will begin to reveal to you more positive experiences.
You will no doubt have those who taunt you along the way. As you begin to ignore what is, and as you practice staying within your mind, inside the walls of your creative vault, others less aware than yourself may desire to discourage you out of envy. As you begin to transform and rise above those who are less willing to let go of their victim mentality, you may irritate them through the contrast of your sudden ability to be more positive. Others may turn from you, mock you and even say you are crazy. Create anyway.
The greatest creators of our time were all called crazy at one point or another. Einstein was considered by some to be far from intelligent. Van Gogh, Tolstoy and Wolf have all been labeled as crazy, and yet the works of these creators are ones this society has learned to cherish.
It can be a lonely existence. Creators who find consolation in their creating are not well understood by the masses. Because creators are born to create, and because creation is the birthing of subjective imagination, often what the creator has found excitement in is so personal it us unable to be shared by others. Others less imaginative who are more concerned with how others might judge the creation, are frustrated as well as frustrate the beauty of the creative process in the creator.
Times have changed. Had the internet been discovered centuries ago, great artists like Beethoven, Van Gogh, and Einstein would have been able to keystroke themselves into an online social network of creators much like themselves, and thus would not have suffered the stigma so stinging as the labels of crazies as they had.
You are a creator and that is why you have found this article. It is not by chance that you have been drawn to it.
If you are not happy with where you are, ignore your present reality, and begin creating in your mind the life you imagine that would bring you joy, happiness, contentment, peace and love. Find the feeling you are looking for and focus upon it. And when others ask you to stop making yourself happy, hear yourself say, "I know what I know and I know I don't want this, and in order to get what I want, I have to imagine it first." Just as you cannot drive through a fast food restaurant and expect the person at the drive thru window to know what you want without you first telling them what it is you do want, you must instruct the universe in very much the same way.
Decide what you want and then focus upon it in your mind through the miracle of creative imagination until you can feel your life turn in the direction of your wanting.
You are here to create and to uplift not only others here now, but future generations as well. And in the discovering of your true purpose, you help others discover theirs, just as I have helped you discover your true purpose, through the delicious discovering of my own.
Friday, August 26, 2011
Why Do Bad Things Keep Happening To Me
This blog has been a lesson on how to take control over your mind. As my life sped out of control down its slippery slope, I came to a point on that road when I realized the slope was being paved by my very own thoughts. The very process by which my mind functioned; its thought process, was accelerating the speed of my emotional crash. Once I realized my thoughts were the reason I was in the negative emotionally overwhelming hell in the first place, somewhere out from the ever most edges of my mind, was the idea that if my thoughts got me in, then my thoughts could get me out; out of wherever this abstract, subjective, negative place might be.
I have learned that I am an expanding thought human being, meaning that I was meant to come here and to expand my thoughts, and that when I am put in a position where growth and expansion are thwarted, I am filled with daunting negative emotion in the form of frustration. When I feel I am not heard, or when I feel that others are exploiting or drawing attention to what they or society might consider a flaw, or when I am being lied about, or when my relationships are ones that are not permitted to grow in love and warmth, I am easily frustrated.
For years I swallowed that frustration and tried only harder to "fit in" or "be what others might have wanted me to be" all in the tattered hopes of feeling loved and validated.
I have since learned that the only love I needed was the delicious love of self. The only opinion that mattered, was the opinion I had of me, and until I fully swallowed how "incredibly good" a human being I was, my thoughts would always be "other directed" and peace would never be mine.
I have learned to treat my personal thoughts, especially the frightening ones like conversations with good friends. When I hear my mind playing with a fearful thought, I hush it away with the whispers of a nurturing mom. I have learned to go easy with my fears rather than to allow the fear to grow or to feel guilt or shame for having them gallop through my mind.
I have trained my mind NOT to value others as good or bad or situations as good or bad. Things are the way they are because of the choices I have made about them somewhere along my journey. My perceptions are the result of my childhood programming as well as an unobserved mind. If ever I have been depressed, it has been on the heels of lining the people, and situations up in my life in columns labeled "good and bad". My depression has always been attached to thoughts that have been eaten by my obsession to judge and compartmentalize my life into good and bad columns. Freeing myself of the need to judge anything or anyone has opened my heart to more love than I ever imagined possible.
It also helped me stop judging me.
And when not so pleasant circumstances find their way to me, or when things don't always go as I planned, I use the contrast of what I wanted to happen as a backdrop for what I do want to happen in the future.
When I find myself feeling a negative emotion, rather than attach to it or deem the situation as good or bad, I say to myself, "Hmm, I really don't like the way that negative emotion feels. I would much rather feel appreciation, contentment or joy. I better let that negative feeling go, and find something to love and appreciate right now, even if that's just the skin on my body, or my ability to see, to walk or to taste or touch. I would much rather attach to the joy of some part of me than to attach myself to that which feels so dead, depressing and empty."
When things do happen I would have preferred not to happen, I do my best not to label or judge it, knowing that labeling anything or anyone as bad only flames the fires of depression, and negative thinking.
I have learned that I am an expanding thought human being, meaning that I was meant to come here and to expand my thoughts, and that when I am put in a position where growth and expansion are thwarted, I am filled with daunting negative emotion in the form of frustration. When I feel I am not heard, or when I feel that others are exploiting or drawing attention to what they or society might consider a flaw, or when I am being lied about, or when my relationships are ones that are not permitted to grow in love and warmth, I am easily frustrated.
For years I swallowed that frustration and tried only harder to "fit in" or "be what others might have wanted me to be" all in the tattered hopes of feeling loved and validated.
I have since learned that the only love I needed was the delicious love of self. The only opinion that mattered, was the opinion I had of me, and until I fully swallowed how "incredibly good" a human being I was, my thoughts would always be "other directed" and peace would never be mine.
I have learned to treat my personal thoughts, especially the frightening ones like conversations with good friends. When I hear my mind playing with a fearful thought, I hush it away with the whispers of a nurturing mom. I have learned to go easy with my fears rather than to allow the fear to grow or to feel guilt or shame for having them gallop through my mind.
I have trained my mind NOT to value others as good or bad or situations as good or bad. Things are the way they are because of the choices I have made about them somewhere along my journey. My perceptions are the result of my childhood programming as well as an unobserved mind. If ever I have been depressed, it has been on the heels of lining the people, and situations up in my life in columns labeled "good and bad". My depression has always been attached to thoughts that have been eaten by my obsession to judge and compartmentalize my life into good and bad columns. Freeing myself of the need to judge anything or anyone has opened my heart to more love than I ever imagined possible.
It also helped me stop judging me.
And when not so pleasant circumstances find their way to me, or when things don't always go as I planned, I use the contrast of what I wanted to happen as a backdrop for what I do want to happen in the future.
When I find myself feeling a negative emotion, rather than attach to it or deem the situation as good or bad, I say to myself, "Hmm, I really don't like the way that negative emotion feels. I would much rather feel appreciation, contentment or joy. I better let that negative feeling go, and find something to love and appreciate right now, even if that's just the skin on my body, or my ability to see, to walk or to taste or touch. I would much rather attach to the joy of some part of me than to attach myself to that which feels so dead, depressing and empty."
When things do happen I would have preferred not to happen, I do my best not to label or judge it, knowing that labeling anything or anyone as bad only flames the fires of depression, and negative thinking.
Monday, August 22, 2011
Enabling Love
Enabling is not loving.
Love is only something we can give to someone who is capable of standing on their own two feet, who is of clear mind, and who has also been healthy enough to learn to love themselves.
Love is more a decision than it is an emotion. Emotions are guidelines we follow. A commitment is based on a decision. While our emotions may change, a decision or a commitment should not, extenuating circumstances excluded.
If a relationship is based on the rescuing of an another, then it is not love. If the primary feeling of the relationship is one of "I rescue you, and then you get to owe me your love because I have rescued you so that I can feel 'good enough' through the act of rescuing you", the relationship is not only dysfunctional, but doomed to be riddled with unnecessary drama via manipulation by both the rescuer and the one playing the wounded victim.
While on the surface the rescuer seems like a hero, in some cases the truth is the rescuer needs the helpless one so to shine in contrast to. In some cases rescuers are in need of controlling situations, and have learned that the helpless rarely put up a good fight. Sometimes the rescuers are those of us who feel guilty for being intelligent or for achieving. Because the rescuer may not have learned to love themselves selfishly, they sometimes seek others to help, so to share their good fortune, so to dampen the goodness almost as a way of punishing oneself for being fortunate.
When relationships are rooted in addictions of any kind, and the roles are such as one is the rescuer while the other is the one in need of rescuing, true authentic love is not found. Instead what is found, is a dramatic roller coaster ride of emotions that run highs and lows. When there is rescuing going on, the rescuer basks in the euphoria of the acts of being a martyr, while the one being rescued gets to act out their helplessness.
On the surface for the one in need, it would seem they are unable to tend to their own needs whether they be financial, spiritual, or physical. Perhaps the one who in need has an anger issue, or is depressed. The one in need is emotionally draining to the rescuer, and it would appear that the helpless one is in fact truly in need. But more often than not those in need are sly manipulators who have learned that by acting as if they were helpless, gets others attention. Unable to fulfill or unwilling to learn to fulfill their own emotional, financial of physical needs, the helpless manipulate attention, validation and love out of others through the acts of seeming as if they are unable to care for themselves. The enabling attention of others gets the helpless off the hook every time, and sadly helps keep the helpless one believing in their own helplessness.
The two involved are actually two sides of the same coin. The rescuer could not be without the one who has been deemed as in need of rescuing. While one is usually super independent, the other is super dependent. The two dance the dance of enabling and codependency as well as any seasoned Tango experts.
The need to rescue is so ingrained that the rescuer could not nor would not attract unto themselves a healthy non-needy partner. The 'victim mentality-the world is out to get me one-I can't do this on my own needy one' can and only will attract a partner who has rescuer tendencies. Healthy individuals, not infected by the needs to control others through enabling care-taking, or the need to play the victim and thus control others into care-taking, would not be attracted to a person who has an unusual need to put others into the victim role, or attract one who is not interested in tending to the unhealthy enabling needs of another.
Love is based on a mutual give and a take. Love is based on respect. Love is based on clear concise exchanges of feelings, words, and physical attentiveness. Love is kind. Love is a free giving. Love is empathetic. Love is strong enough to withstand distance, and humble enough not to smother. Love is joyful delight in another. Love is a strong sense of contentment.
If the love you feel is unstable, unsure, argumentative, hostile, or if you find yourself complaining more about your partner whether verbally or just within the confines of your own mind, it is not love. If you believe you are in love with someone who has an addiction, you must decide whether your love is based on your unearthed need to rescue and enable others. If you are the one playing out the role of the victim, know that manipulating others into doing for you what you are responsible for doing yourself, will never make you feel good about you.
All love starts with healthy, self actualizing, self responsible, love of self.
Love is only something we can give to someone who is capable of standing on their own two feet, who is of clear mind, and who has also been healthy enough to learn to love themselves.
Love is more a decision than it is an emotion. Emotions are guidelines we follow. A commitment is based on a decision. While our emotions may change, a decision or a commitment should not, extenuating circumstances excluded.
If a relationship is based on the rescuing of an another, then it is not love. If the primary feeling of the relationship is one of "I rescue you, and then you get to owe me your love because I have rescued you so that I can feel 'good enough' through the act of rescuing you", the relationship is not only dysfunctional, but doomed to be riddled with unnecessary drama via manipulation by both the rescuer and the one playing the wounded victim.
While on the surface the rescuer seems like a hero, in some cases the truth is the rescuer needs the helpless one so to shine in contrast to. In some cases rescuers are in need of controlling situations, and have learned that the helpless rarely put up a good fight. Sometimes the rescuers are those of us who feel guilty for being intelligent or for achieving. Because the rescuer may not have learned to love themselves selfishly, they sometimes seek others to help, so to share their good fortune, so to dampen the goodness almost as a way of punishing oneself for being fortunate.
When relationships are rooted in addictions of any kind, and the roles are such as one is the rescuer while the other is the one in need of rescuing, true authentic love is not found. Instead what is found, is a dramatic roller coaster ride of emotions that run highs and lows. When there is rescuing going on, the rescuer basks in the euphoria of the acts of being a martyr, while the one being rescued gets to act out their helplessness.
On the surface for the one in need, it would seem they are unable to tend to their own needs whether they be financial, spiritual, or physical. Perhaps the one who in need has an anger issue, or is depressed. The one in need is emotionally draining to the rescuer, and it would appear that the helpless one is in fact truly in need. But more often than not those in need are sly manipulators who have learned that by acting as if they were helpless, gets others attention. Unable to fulfill or unwilling to learn to fulfill their own emotional, financial of physical needs, the helpless manipulate attention, validation and love out of others through the acts of seeming as if they are unable to care for themselves. The enabling attention of others gets the helpless off the hook every time, and sadly helps keep the helpless one believing in their own helplessness.
The two involved are actually two sides of the same coin. The rescuer could not be without the one who has been deemed as in need of rescuing. While one is usually super independent, the other is super dependent. The two dance the dance of enabling and codependency as well as any seasoned Tango experts.
The need to rescue is so ingrained that the rescuer could not nor would not attract unto themselves a healthy non-needy partner. The 'victim mentality-the world is out to get me one-I can't do this on my own needy one' can and only will attract a partner who has rescuer tendencies. Healthy individuals, not infected by the needs to control others through enabling care-taking, or the need to play the victim and thus control others into care-taking, would not be attracted to a person who has an unusual need to put others into the victim role, or attract one who is not interested in tending to the unhealthy enabling needs of another.
Love is based on a mutual give and a take. Love is based on respect. Love is based on clear concise exchanges of feelings, words, and physical attentiveness. Love is kind. Love is a free giving. Love is empathetic. Love is strong enough to withstand distance, and humble enough not to smother. Love is joyful delight in another. Love is a strong sense of contentment.
If the love you feel is unstable, unsure, argumentative, hostile, or if you find yourself complaining more about your partner whether verbally or just within the confines of your own mind, it is not love. If you believe you are in love with someone who has an addiction, you must decide whether your love is based on your unearthed need to rescue and enable others. If you are the one playing out the role of the victim, know that manipulating others into doing for you what you are responsible for doing yourself, will never make you feel good about you.
All love starts with healthy, self actualizing, self responsible, love of self.
How To Stop Being Negative
Ever notice that the more you try NOT to think about something, the more you end up thinking about it?
Ever notice that when a parent warns a child NOT to do something, the child usually winds up doing it?
And have you ever reminded yourself over and over NOT to forget something, only to wind up forgetting that something anyway?
As children the best advice our parents could give us was to ignore whatever it was that was bothering us. As parents ourselves we tell our own children to 'just not think about' the whatever it is that is bothering them. Whether children have been bullied at school, or are worried about switching schools, it seems that the best advice anyone could ever give had something to do with doing the almost impossible. How can you really ignore a bully when they're chasing you down the hallway, and how can you really NOT think about the one thing in your life that is causing you stress? It seems simply not doable.
What if instead of giving more focus to the very thing we do not want, like the bully, or the stressor of any given situation, and the subsequent anxiety induced by any said given stressor;what if instead of reinforcing the anxiety related to a particular stressor; what if opposed to the re-telling of stories that have to do with our stressor we instead trained our minds to focus upon things that made our spirits happy?
Maybe my mother should have told me what to do instead of what not to do. Maybe when I complained about being punched in the hallway by my bully, she should have told me to instead take a dance class. Maybe the dance class would have improved my self esteem, and would have given me something to look forward to. Maybe if I had something wonderful to cling to, I would not have entertained such negative thoughts about the bullies in my grammar school. Maybe all the focus, albeit negative focus, actually helped me attract the bullies in the first place.
Maybe instead of parents telling their children to be happy, parents actually made themselves happy, by taking a yoga class, or a painting class and in return offered their children a model for what self love is, then maybe our children would learn to focus all by themselves on how to draw positives into their lives, rather than falsely assuming that being a slave to negative programming is fate.
If we want to grow an apple tree, we wouldn't stare at the ground and say, "Wow this soil sucks. There is no way an apple tree is going to grow here. It will probably not grow. It will probably die anyway, or if it does grow it won't bare any fruit anyway."
We usually have more faith and hope in the annual impatient flowers we plant around our property every spring than we do in our abilities to attract positivity into our lives. The key is to hear the programming that is swirling about in our minds.
Happiness is but a single thought away....
Peace to you my friends...
Ever notice that when a parent warns a child NOT to do something, the child usually winds up doing it?
And have you ever reminded yourself over and over NOT to forget something, only to wind up forgetting that something anyway?
As children the best advice our parents could give us was to ignore whatever it was that was bothering us. As parents ourselves we tell our own children to 'just not think about' the whatever it is that is bothering them. Whether children have been bullied at school, or are worried about switching schools, it seems that the best advice anyone could ever give had something to do with doing the almost impossible. How can you really ignore a bully when they're chasing you down the hallway, and how can you really NOT think about the one thing in your life that is causing you stress? It seems simply not doable.
What if instead of giving more focus to the very thing we do not want, like the bully, or the stressor of any given situation, and the subsequent anxiety induced by any said given stressor;what if instead of reinforcing the anxiety related to a particular stressor; what if opposed to the re-telling of stories that have to do with our stressor we instead trained our minds to focus upon things that made our spirits happy?
Maybe my mother should have told me what to do instead of what not to do. Maybe when I complained about being punched in the hallway by my bully, she should have told me to instead take a dance class. Maybe the dance class would have improved my self esteem, and would have given me something to look forward to. Maybe if I had something wonderful to cling to, I would not have entertained such negative thoughts about the bullies in my grammar school. Maybe all the focus, albeit negative focus, actually helped me attract the bullies in the first place.
Maybe instead of parents telling their children to be happy, parents actually made themselves happy, by taking a yoga class, or a painting class and in return offered their children a model for what self love is, then maybe our children would learn to focus all by themselves on how to draw positives into their lives, rather than falsely assuming that being a slave to negative programming is fate.
If we want to grow an apple tree, we wouldn't stare at the ground and say, "Wow this soil sucks. There is no way an apple tree is going to grow here. It will probably not grow. It will probably die anyway, or if it does grow it won't bare any fruit anyway."
We usually have more faith and hope in the annual impatient flowers we plant around our property every spring than we do in our abilities to attract positivity into our lives. The key is to hear the programming that is swirling about in our minds.
Happiness is but a single thought away....
Peace to you my friends...
Friday, August 19, 2011
How To Make Your Dreams Come True
If you can desire a slice of pizza, and then eat one, or if you can desire a specific car and then finally buy one, then you know how to get what is inside your mind to manifest in your reality.
You may not recognize this as the law of attraction, but it is.
Acting upon a desire and then having that desire manifest whether it is a slice of pizza or a car, is the principle of the law of attraction.
Learning to dream deliberately is the key to a happier, more deliberate life.
Just as you can decide what it is you would like to eat for dinner, you can decide what you would like to experience in life.
If you want to travel, you must allow the desire to travel to grow within you. When you look out into your environment, acknowledge consciously when the universe is trying to help align you with your desires.
When you bump into a woman who has just returned from a trip to Europe, that is not a woman bragging about her trip. That is the universe manifesting in the physical realm an opportunity for you to help decide whether you want to go to Europe or perhaps somewhere else.
When you just happen to notice a travel magazine at the supermarket checkout line, that is the universe helping to get you more clear about exactly where it is you want to go.
When you flip through the television and you notice the travel channel, again, that is the universe trying to line up your energy with ideas that have to do with travel.
You can create deliberately or by default.
If you instead go through life with this invisible feeling like "I am not good enough", the universe will deliver unto you circumstances, situations, and others to help you validate that which you focus upon.
The universe draws to you magnetically, through the attracting power of your emotions, whether they be positive or negative, the exact equivalent to what you are experiencing internally.
This is why birds of a feather flock together.
So if you are not being treated well by others, or if you find yourself frustrated by your life, you need to look within, to figure out what vibrations through emotions you are sending out into the universe.
What you are going through on the outside, is always a match to what is going on inside of you on the inside.
Learn to give your attention to, only the things, circumstances, and feelings you want.
Turn away from things, circumstances and others, who manifest to you, things you do not want.
Its that simple.
You may not recognize this as the law of attraction, but it is.
Acting upon a desire and then having that desire manifest whether it is a slice of pizza or a car, is the principle of the law of attraction.
Learning to dream deliberately is the key to a happier, more deliberate life.
Just as you can decide what it is you would like to eat for dinner, you can decide what you would like to experience in life.
If you want to travel, you must allow the desire to travel to grow within you. When you look out into your environment, acknowledge consciously when the universe is trying to help align you with your desires.
When you bump into a woman who has just returned from a trip to Europe, that is not a woman bragging about her trip. That is the universe manifesting in the physical realm an opportunity for you to help decide whether you want to go to Europe or perhaps somewhere else.
When you just happen to notice a travel magazine at the supermarket checkout line, that is the universe helping to get you more clear about exactly where it is you want to go.
When you flip through the television and you notice the travel channel, again, that is the universe trying to line up your energy with ideas that have to do with travel.
You can create deliberately or by default.
If you instead go through life with this invisible feeling like "I am not good enough", the universe will deliver unto you circumstances, situations, and others to help you validate that which you focus upon.
The universe draws to you magnetically, through the attracting power of your emotions, whether they be positive or negative, the exact equivalent to what you are experiencing internally.
This is why birds of a feather flock together.
So if you are not being treated well by others, or if you find yourself frustrated by your life, you need to look within, to figure out what vibrations through emotions you are sending out into the universe.
What you are going through on the outside, is always a match to what is going on inside of you on the inside.
Learn to give your attention to, only the things, circumstances, and feelings you want.
Turn away from things, circumstances and others, who manifest to you, things you do not want.
Its that simple.
Monday, August 15, 2011
How Do I Learn To Love Myself?
The time is coming. The collective mind of man is changing. Not so very long ago women could not vote, and segregation was a part of common society. It seems to take time for ideas of man to evolve, but they are evolving nonetheless.
I know that one day society will appreciate the value in educating children about Self love as much as they do about arithmetic and the sciences. It may take awhile for the collective minds of man to value the love of Self as much as they do earning incomes, but it is my complete belief, that that one day is coming.
When I stand on the moon and stare down at the earth, I can see how the minds of man have evolved over time. The ideas of self loathing are notions that have been carried over into the generation of the present, from the many generations before.
From the whispers of inequality of women and people of color, to the subliminal marketing techniques used by advertisers to seduce us into self loathing in an attempt to purchase products we do not need that might in some way inflate our unnecessary infantile ego for the sake of profit, self hate, self doubt, guilt, and notions of self abandonment have long been a part of the less enlightened mind of man.
If you have not been taught to love your Self, it is because those that came before you, failed to learn the lessons of Self love in their lifetime. If you tend to see yourself as a victim, and tend to ponder "Why me?" often, it is not your fault. Your thinking is the result of inappropriate programming you received by those who were responsible for raising you while you were still forming ideas about the world, and specifically your place in it.
It is futile for you to think that Self love will one day just show up. It is silly for you to assume that whining about why you are mistreated, unappreciated, misunderstood, abused, ignored, taken advantage of or disrespected is ever going to somehow infuse you with the warmth and confidence of the love of Self. Forgettabouttit'.
Are your listening ears on?
In order to love your Self, it is not enough to just think about loving your Self. You must BELIEVE you deserve to be treated well. But not even that is enough...
In order to really learn to love your Self, you must actually fall in love with your Self.
Just as you would listen to a new love in your life, you must learn to listen to your inner voice. Just as you would naturally find out what your new boyfriend or girlfriend enjoyed doing in their spare time, you need to discover about your own Self. Just as you would automatically look to buy your new love interest trinkets they'd like, you must start to buy those little gift for your Self. Just as you would want to your new b/f or g/f to feel heard, you must learn to hear your own Self. Just as you would want to treat the person you are interested in, you must first learn to treat your own Self.
If you find your Self whining about why others don't take your needs seriously, or why others think their wants are more important than your wants, or why those who claim to love you consistently find manipulative ways for making you feel guilty and thus unworthy when you do ask to be heard, the problem isn't them, its you.
If you want some free Self loving lessons, watch a rose grow. Watch how a rose naturally reaches for the light, rather than the darkness. Notice the thorns on the rose's stems. They are there to protect the rose from those who might try to harm it. The rose was put on this earth to decorate the world with beauty and color. And the universe equipped it with its own defense team to protect its beauty as well. As long as the rose keeps reaching for what feel good, its beauty will abound.
And so it is with you.
You are as natural as the rose, and like the rose one day your time to leave this planet will come. While you and the rose are breathing and growing, it is your purpose to blossom into all that you were meant to be. Your life, by sheer virtue of your existence here was intended to color the planet brightly with the colors that are you, just as flowers do. To not love your Self is as backward as a rose growing into the ground rather than towards the sun.
It is time to jump on board the Conscious Train, and to learn that you are part of something greater than you ever imagined. You are part of the evolutionary process of man, and your purpose here is to help pull the collective mind of man forward.
When enough people finally learn to love themselves, the whining of man will be no more. There will be no more anxiety, suicide, depression, bulimia, anorexia, alcoholism, or drug addiction. There will be no more jealousy, murders or thievery. The world will one day finally learn to love itself more than it does loath itself. But until your mind changes, the world stays a little darker than it needs to be.
Grow some thorns, and start reaching towards what feels right. Love your Self, before you try loving anyone else.
This is how you learn to love your magnificent Self.
I know that one day society will appreciate the value in educating children about Self love as much as they do about arithmetic and the sciences. It may take awhile for the collective minds of man to value the love of Self as much as they do earning incomes, but it is my complete belief, that that one day is coming.
When I stand on the moon and stare down at the earth, I can see how the minds of man have evolved over time. The ideas of self loathing are notions that have been carried over into the generation of the present, from the many generations before.
From the whispers of inequality of women and people of color, to the subliminal marketing techniques used by advertisers to seduce us into self loathing in an attempt to purchase products we do not need that might in some way inflate our unnecessary infantile ego for the sake of profit, self hate, self doubt, guilt, and notions of self abandonment have long been a part of the less enlightened mind of man.
If you have not been taught to love your Self, it is because those that came before you, failed to learn the lessons of Self love in their lifetime. If you tend to see yourself as a victim, and tend to ponder "Why me?" often, it is not your fault. Your thinking is the result of inappropriate programming you received by those who were responsible for raising you while you were still forming ideas about the world, and specifically your place in it.
It is futile for you to think that Self love will one day just show up. It is silly for you to assume that whining about why you are mistreated, unappreciated, misunderstood, abused, ignored, taken advantage of or disrespected is ever going to somehow infuse you with the warmth and confidence of the love of Self. Forgettabouttit'.
Are your listening ears on?
In order to love your Self, it is not enough to just think about loving your Self. You must BELIEVE you deserve to be treated well. But not even that is enough...
In order to really learn to love your Self, you must actually fall in love with your Self.
Just as you would listen to a new love in your life, you must learn to listen to your inner voice. Just as you would naturally find out what your new boyfriend or girlfriend enjoyed doing in their spare time, you need to discover about your own Self. Just as you would automatically look to buy your new love interest trinkets they'd like, you must start to buy those little gift for your Self. Just as you would want to your new b/f or g/f to feel heard, you must learn to hear your own Self. Just as you would want to treat the person you are interested in, you must first learn to treat your own Self.
If you find your Self whining about why others don't take your needs seriously, or why others think their wants are more important than your wants, or why those who claim to love you consistently find manipulative ways for making you feel guilty and thus unworthy when you do ask to be heard, the problem isn't them, its you.
If you want some free Self loving lessons, watch a rose grow. Watch how a rose naturally reaches for the light, rather than the darkness. Notice the thorns on the rose's stems. They are there to protect the rose from those who might try to harm it. The rose was put on this earth to decorate the world with beauty and color. And the universe equipped it with its own defense team to protect its beauty as well. As long as the rose keeps reaching for what feel good, its beauty will abound.
And so it is with you.
You are as natural as the rose, and like the rose one day your time to leave this planet will come. While you and the rose are breathing and growing, it is your purpose to blossom into all that you were meant to be. Your life, by sheer virtue of your existence here was intended to color the planet brightly with the colors that are you, just as flowers do. To not love your Self is as backward as a rose growing into the ground rather than towards the sun.
It is time to jump on board the Conscious Train, and to learn that you are part of something greater than you ever imagined. You are part of the evolutionary process of man, and your purpose here is to help pull the collective mind of man forward.
When enough people finally learn to love themselves, the whining of man will be no more. There will be no more anxiety, suicide, depression, bulimia, anorexia, alcoholism, or drug addiction. There will be no more jealousy, murders or thievery. The world will one day finally learn to love itself more than it does loath itself. But until your mind changes, the world stays a little darker than it needs to be.
Grow some thorns, and start reaching towards what feels right. Love your Self, before you try loving anyone else.
This is how you learn to love your magnificent Self.
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
I Want To Kill Myself
Dear Lisa,
I read your blogs, and they seem so matter of fact, as if someone is not happy, then it is their fault. I feel like you blame the victim for all their problems, and I don't think that is fair. Sometimes my life is so hard I just want to kill myself. Reading your blog, I think is supposed to make me feel better. Sometimes it does, but then others it seems like I will never get past some of the things that have happened to me in my life. Can you help me?
Dear I Can't Get Past My Past,
Darling, I hear you. I would first like to say, thank you for your honesty. I can feel your pain through your words. You are dripping in sorrow. I have been where you are. It is dark. It is lonely. It is as if a tremendous war is raging inside your mind, and only you know the war is happening. You look around and see others laughing, and you think, "What the hell is wrong with me? Why can't I laugh? Why can't I just be free-free of these daunting thoughts that keep playing over and over in my mind?"
There is so much I would like to explain, and in detail. I hope I am able to break down for you what is happening in your mind chemically, psychologically, emotionally as well as scientifically. Everything you are experiencing is normal for someone who thinks as you do. In my opinion, much of what we as a society believe in, we have been conditioned to believe in, but that doesn't make it real.
Darling, when you came into this world you were perfect. In you still exists that perfection. But because you were born to two flawed people, as we all were, you no doubt have been infected with ideas that have pulled you out of alignment from your true nature. Each being born has the innate ability to do and be whatever he/she wishes to be. The problem in our thinking occurs when we are sadly infected by the beliefs of those who are raising us. If our parents are depressed, alcoholics, addicts, worriers, compulsive, overly controlling, hovering, liars, manipulators, cheaters, aggressive or go through life appearing to be helpless, we cannot help but absorb the equivalent of that energy and thus beliefs and behaviors.
As children we are open books absorbing the energies of those around us. We cannot help it. We are more energy and free space than we are material beings made of matter. But yet, we are conditioned to believe that what we see in the world that appears in the material realm, is more important than what we feel internally. In obvious as well as not so obvious ways, many of us have been taught to worry more about what others think about us than what we think about ourselves, or we have been taught to simply worry for the sake of worrying.
You must ask yourself if you were ever taught to laugh, to be silly, to poke fun at yourself, to embrace your imperfections, to giggle when it rains, to brush negative people away, or to walk through life seeking the good. If not, it is no wonder you only see bad.
When parents worry about appearing perfect, they teach us to worry about 'not appearing' perfect to others. So when our day doesn't go quite as well as we'd like, we freak out and panic, worrying what's wrong with us. When our parents worry more about making money than they do about what's going on with us internally, they teach us to put our faith into something material, (which can be lost at anytime) opposed to teaching us to believe in our strength to handle any challenge that might come our way. When our parents talk of life being so hard, we believe them, and thus life becomes hard. When our parents speak of suicide, we absorb that depressed energy and too begin to believe in despair rather than hope. When our parents give off the vibration of anger, yet they try to appear happy, they teach us to believe that illusions are more valuable than truth.
When you are confused you get stuck in your head. One thought then attracts a similar thought to support the first confused thought. Take a lifetime of confused thoughts and add to it the negative energy that is created through confusion, and you can see how a life can easily become not worth living. Confusion, negativity, lack of movement, and a lack of positive, reassuring, self love, leaves a mind as well as a soul gasping for emotional air.
One negative thought simply attracts to it another negative thought. If you think negatively, it is probably the result of the impressions you have absorbed along your life's path that have been laid out for you by the caretakers in your life.
If you need to 'blame' someone or something, blame your conditioning, but not your parents. They did the best they could. If they had known better, they would have done better.
If you see yourself as a victim, darling, then you will behave like a victim. If you interpret that as me blaming you for your pain, all I can do is offer you my regrets that that is the way you choose to interpret my message.
The truth is, if you ponder long enough on one positive thought, that positive thought will attract to it another positive thought. Imagine an entire day immersed in positive thoughts. Imagine the flowers you'd notice, or the babies smiles you'd see, or how sweet the air would smell if you did.
Chemically when you choose to think positively you alter your brains chemistry. You literally secrete endorphins that light up your brain, which ultimately helps to lift the fog of depression.
If there are trauma's in your life you are locking down inside of you, then you need to release those dragons so they cannot make a fuss inside you anymore. If you have pain you are carrying around on your shoulders like a monkey on your back, you need to set that monkey down so he can walk back into the jungle it came from. If you are tired of the static noise in your mind, you need to retune the radio station you listen to, and listen only to the soothing part of you.
When I was twelve years old, there were so many dragons in my head, monkeys on my back, and noise in my skin, that all I wanted to do was die. I wanted to die so badly, that I had a gun to my head. I know this dark place of which you speak.
But thankfully for me I heard a voice. And that voice said, "Lisa put down that gun. One day you will show them."
As I stood there stunned staring at my reflection in my mothers bedroom mirror with my fathers pistol to my head, another thought rushed in immediately after that one, and then another. These thoughts were all positive. They weren't rose colored glasses positive, but they were thoughts that were just a little bit healthier than those that were prompting me to kill my self.
Thoughts like, "What will happen to your brother and sister if you kill yourself?" "What will happen to your parents, if you kill yourself/", "What pain will you cause your family by ending your own?"...And "If you kill yourself, you will be dead, and you won't be around to hear those who bullied you say they are sorry for being so cruel to you."
What I realized is that all my mind did was reach for a thought that was just a little bit healthier than the first truly dark one. Then little by little my thoughts reached further up the emotional chain.
My life did not improve over night. In fact my life got a hell of a lot worse, but what changed was my mind. I made a decision at the age of 12 that one day I would help make the world a better place while I was here, in any and every way I could.
I get it now, so you when you read my blog, you must understand you are reading the work of a woman who has gone through hell to get where she is. There is an easier way to get where I am, and that is what my writings are about. It is not necessary to claw your way to positive thinking, unless that is what you believe. I write the words I wish were there for me when I was going through the craziness that was my childhood programming. The internet is a gift. It is a gift I use to help me bestow wisdom on others I may never know. It is my way of giving thanks to the universe that supports me in every way, as long as I choose to see that.
Everyday I search the internet for inspiration and motivation. I still journal everyday and deliberately seek that which pleases me and I turn away from that which does not please me. It is an effort, but so worth it.
Dear friend, I do not see myself as a victim. I see myself as a Champion. And that has made all the difference.
How do you see your self?
How do you want to see your self?
Are you willing to let go of the old so you can experience the new?
Do you believe your negative thoughts and victim mentality is simply what you have been conditioned to believe you are through the thoughts, attitudes and opinions of others?
Do you believe you can create a new mind?
Know what you think, then decide what you want to think, and the world becomes your playground.
I read your blogs, and they seem so matter of fact, as if someone is not happy, then it is their fault. I feel like you blame the victim for all their problems, and I don't think that is fair. Sometimes my life is so hard I just want to kill myself. Reading your blog, I think is supposed to make me feel better. Sometimes it does, but then others it seems like I will never get past some of the things that have happened to me in my life. Can you help me?
Dear I Can't Get Past My Past,
Darling, I hear you. I would first like to say, thank you for your honesty. I can feel your pain through your words. You are dripping in sorrow. I have been where you are. It is dark. It is lonely. It is as if a tremendous war is raging inside your mind, and only you know the war is happening. You look around and see others laughing, and you think, "What the hell is wrong with me? Why can't I laugh? Why can't I just be free-free of these daunting thoughts that keep playing over and over in my mind?"
There is so much I would like to explain, and in detail. I hope I am able to break down for you what is happening in your mind chemically, psychologically, emotionally as well as scientifically. Everything you are experiencing is normal for someone who thinks as you do. In my opinion, much of what we as a society believe in, we have been conditioned to believe in, but that doesn't make it real.
Darling, when you came into this world you were perfect. In you still exists that perfection. But because you were born to two flawed people, as we all were, you no doubt have been infected with ideas that have pulled you out of alignment from your true nature. Each being born has the innate ability to do and be whatever he/she wishes to be. The problem in our thinking occurs when we are sadly infected by the beliefs of those who are raising us. If our parents are depressed, alcoholics, addicts, worriers, compulsive, overly controlling, hovering, liars, manipulators, cheaters, aggressive or go through life appearing to be helpless, we cannot help but absorb the equivalent of that energy and thus beliefs and behaviors.
As children we are open books absorbing the energies of those around us. We cannot help it. We are more energy and free space than we are material beings made of matter. But yet, we are conditioned to believe that what we see in the world that appears in the material realm, is more important than what we feel internally. In obvious as well as not so obvious ways, many of us have been taught to worry more about what others think about us than what we think about ourselves, or we have been taught to simply worry for the sake of worrying.
You must ask yourself if you were ever taught to laugh, to be silly, to poke fun at yourself, to embrace your imperfections, to giggle when it rains, to brush negative people away, or to walk through life seeking the good. If not, it is no wonder you only see bad.
When parents worry about appearing perfect, they teach us to worry about 'not appearing' perfect to others. So when our day doesn't go quite as well as we'd like, we freak out and panic, worrying what's wrong with us. When our parents worry more about making money than they do about what's going on with us internally, they teach us to put our faith into something material, (which can be lost at anytime) opposed to teaching us to believe in our strength to handle any challenge that might come our way. When our parents talk of life being so hard, we believe them, and thus life becomes hard. When our parents speak of suicide, we absorb that depressed energy and too begin to believe in despair rather than hope. When our parents give off the vibration of anger, yet they try to appear happy, they teach us to believe that illusions are more valuable than truth.
When you are confused you get stuck in your head. One thought then attracts a similar thought to support the first confused thought. Take a lifetime of confused thoughts and add to it the negative energy that is created through confusion, and you can see how a life can easily become not worth living. Confusion, negativity, lack of movement, and a lack of positive, reassuring, self love, leaves a mind as well as a soul gasping for emotional air.
One negative thought simply attracts to it another negative thought. If you think negatively, it is probably the result of the impressions you have absorbed along your life's path that have been laid out for you by the caretakers in your life.
If you need to 'blame' someone or something, blame your conditioning, but not your parents. They did the best they could. If they had known better, they would have done better.
If you see yourself as a victim, darling, then you will behave like a victim. If you interpret that as me blaming you for your pain, all I can do is offer you my regrets that that is the way you choose to interpret my message.
The truth is, if you ponder long enough on one positive thought, that positive thought will attract to it another positive thought. Imagine an entire day immersed in positive thoughts. Imagine the flowers you'd notice, or the babies smiles you'd see, or how sweet the air would smell if you did.
Chemically when you choose to think positively you alter your brains chemistry. You literally secrete endorphins that light up your brain, which ultimately helps to lift the fog of depression.
If there are trauma's in your life you are locking down inside of you, then you need to release those dragons so they cannot make a fuss inside you anymore. If you have pain you are carrying around on your shoulders like a monkey on your back, you need to set that monkey down so he can walk back into the jungle it came from. If you are tired of the static noise in your mind, you need to retune the radio station you listen to, and listen only to the soothing part of you.
When I was twelve years old, there were so many dragons in my head, monkeys on my back, and noise in my skin, that all I wanted to do was die. I wanted to die so badly, that I had a gun to my head. I know this dark place of which you speak.
But thankfully for me I heard a voice. And that voice said, "Lisa put down that gun. One day you will show them."
As I stood there stunned staring at my reflection in my mothers bedroom mirror with my fathers pistol to my head, another thought rushed in immediately after that one, and then another. These thoughts were all positive. They weren't rose colored glasses positive, but they were thoughts that were just a little bit healthier than those that were prompting me to kill my self.
Thoughts like, "What will happen to your brother and sister if you kill yourself?" "What will happen to your parents, if you kill yourself/", "What pain will you cause your family by ending your own?"...And "If you kill yourself, you will be dead, and you won't be around to hear those who bullied you say they are sorry for being so cruel to you."
What I realized is that all my mind did was reach for a thought that was just a little bit healthier than the first truly dark one. Then little by little my thoughts reached further up the emotional chain.
My life did not improve over night. In fact my life got a hell of a lot worse, but what changed was my mind. I made a decision at the age of 12 that one day I would help make the world a better place while I was here, in any and every way I could.
I get it now, so you when you read my blog, you must understand you are reading the work of a woman who has gone through hell to get where she is. There is an easier way to get where I am, and that is what my writings are about. It is not necessary to claw your way to positive thinking, unless that is what you believe. I write the words I wish were there for me when I was going through the craziness that was my childhood programming. The internet is a gift. It is a gift I use to help me bestow wisdom on others I may never know. It is my way of giving thanks to the universe that supports me in every way, as long as I choose to see that.
Everyday I search the internet for inspiration and motivation. I still journal everyday and deliberately seek that which pleases me and I turn away from that which does not please me. It is an effort, but so worth it.
Dear friend, I do not see myself as a victim. I see myself as a Champion. And that has made all the difference.
How do you see your self?
How do you want to see your self?
Are you willing to let go of the old so you can experience the new?
Do you believe your negative thoughts and victim mentality is simply what you have been conditioned to believe you are through the thoughts, attitudes and opinions of others?
Do you believe you can create a new mind?
Know what you think, then decide what you want to think, and the world becomes your playground.
Monday, August 8, 2011
How To Get Past This Present Negative Reality
Scientists are now finally coming to the brave understanding that alternate universes exist.
In fact, the current reality you are living is a fraction of who and what you are, and what you are capable of.
Your creative mind is as useful, and as important as your ability to speak, for in your mind, you can be wherever, whomever and whatever you can imagine. Your creative self is infinite.
To not IMAGINE yourself to be as your all too short dreams can imagine you to be, is to keep fortunes buried in your backyard.
You are fat, because you do not IMAGINE your self thin. You are fat, because everywhere you look society reminds you that you are, through television ads, radio commercials and so on.
You are poor, because you have been conditioned to believe you are not supposed to be rich. Read the paper, listen to the radio or watch the news...what is the programming you are receiving daily?
If you can imagine it, it exists somewhere out there...
But if all you do is stay stuck, and do not IMAGINE your life any better, you will stay stuck.
If you want to be free in physical time, you first must free your mind from what is...
IMAGINE, daydream, envision your self doing and being exactly what, how and where you want to be.
Get out of the here and the now...and pull your thoughts higher...
Please write back to me and tell me how your life has changed when you finally open your mind to your infinite possibility...
In fact, the current reality you are living is a fraction of who and what you are, and what you are capable of.
Your creative mind is as useful, and as important as your ability to speak, for in your mind, you can be wherever, whomever and whatever you can imagine. Your creative self is infinite.
To not IMAGINE yourself to be as your all too short dreams can imagine you to be, is to keep fortunes buried in your backyard.
You are fat, because you do not IMAGINE your self thin. You are fat, because everywhere you look society reminds you that you are, through television ads, radio commercials and so on.
You are poor, because you have been conditioned to believe you are not supposed to be rich. Read the paper, listen to the radio or watch the news...what is the programming you are receiving daily?
If you can imagine it, it exists somewhere out there...
But if all you do is stay stuck, and do not IMAGINE your life any better, you will stay stuck.
If you want to be free in physical time, you first must free your mind from what is...
IMAGINE, daydream, envision your self doing and being exactly what, how and where you want to be.
Get out of the here and the now...and pull your thoughts higher...
Please write back to me and tell me how your life has changed when you finally open your mind to your infinite possibility...
Friday, August 5, 2011
How To Test If Others Are Good or Bad For Me
In all of us are beliefs.
Some of these beliefs are conscious, but most of them are unconscious.
Do you enjoy the thoughts that swirl about in your head?
Do you enjoy your behaviors?
Do you love your Self?
If you are like so many young women and men today, you do not enjoy most of the B/S that is swirling about in your head, nor do you enjoy the obsessive compulsive things you do to get your mind to shift from focusing on the negative thoughts that are in your head...
WTF?
Is that where you are? Are you in that place-the WTF place?
If you are, you are not alone....
Stop...listen to this wise woman who has spent far too many years in that WTF place.
I wanted everyone to like me, to accept me, to tell me I was good enough, and it never showed up in quite the way I needed it to, to fill that WTF place up in my head.
Why???
I had friends. I had a decent job. I was attractive. I had a family and my dog loved me.
WTF...why was I so displeased with me?
The problem was, what was wrong could not be fixed by anyone or anything on the outside...DUH...I was looking for others to fix something they couldn't...But stubborn, pig headed me, kept insisting others love me enough to make this WTF feeling go away...
Okay, so WTF...how did I get my mind from way over there in psycho land where I was not only frustrating myself, but everyone around me...to this kick ass, bissful, I love me no matter what anyone else thinks of me, place???
The journey was long, but so worth the trip.
I first had to uncover what it was I believed. My beliefs were ruling my world and keeping me stuck.
I believed everyone had to like me...WRONG...
I believed everyone had to think I was pretty...WRONG...
I believed if I was good enough others would naturally treat me well...WRONG...
I believed if I loved someone they had to love me back...WRONG...
I believed I was only good enough if someone else told me so...WRONG...
I believed if I was good to someone, they had to be just as good back to me, and if they didn't that meant something was wrong with me...WRONG...
I believed that if my relationship wasn't turning out well, that it was all my fault, and that if I was good, I'd hang in there...WRONG...
I believed it was normal to fight in a relationship...WRONG...
I believed that even when I was treated poorly, I probably did something to deserve it, and I was supposed to stay...WRONG...
I believed if I loved someone, I hung in there no matter what...WRONG...
I believed being alone was a terrible thing...WRONG...
I believed that I had to be pretty, thin, and smart for others to like me...WRONG...
I believed that if someone loved me, they were supposed to be attached to my hip, and validate me always (eek..needy bitch I was..lol)...WRONG...
HOLY CRAP...
When I finally stopped whining about how miserable I was, and started uncovering what beliefs were governing my thinking, I began to understand that I was on a collision course...and I was the cause of all my WTF thinking...
There was no way a girl like me, with thoughts like these was not going to attract some piece of s---...of a man.
I was literally putting my sense of self in someone else's hands.
I was literally saying, "I will love you so you love me back, because I don't know how to love myself. I will ATTACH my needy ass self to you, and drown you with affection, not because you need it you loser, but because I believe if that I do, you MUST do what I want you to do, which is to make this WTF feeling go away...I am demanding you to fill this WTF place in me, so I can stop these WTF feelings in my head. And even though you will probably take advantage of my neediness, treat me like dog sh-- on your shoe, push me away, and only show affection when you want to get laid, I am gonna hang in there...because that's what I BELIEVE I should do."
WTF? Really, I mean WTF?
Its no mystery why I was so miserable...
So I figured it all out. I didn't think I was good enough because my mother's love wasn't all that reassuring...
I was taught to care more about what others thought about me than what I thought about me...and so I picked up all these negative beliefs along my life's path.
But now I have learned that unless I own my power, and stop giving my sense of self over to dysfunctional, self absorbed others, ( and unfortunately sometimes this includes our parents, siblings, best friends, co workers, and husbands ), I will be destined to live the remainder of my life on planet WTF.
WTF is not necessary.
If you are unhappy and the people in your life are bringing you down, GET RID OF THEM, and start paying attention to how you FEEL, when you are around people.
People that are GOOD for you will make you FEEL secure, warm, positive, and cared for.
Your energy literally goes up when you are around someone who is good for you, and down when you are slamming yourself into someone who is NOT good for you...
Check out the video above. Want to test your energy to see if those in your life are good for you or bad for you? Do the above muscle test while sitting next to your brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, boss, mother, father or even around alcohol.
Anything or anyone that is not good for you, will show up in your energy field...
If you are on planet WTF, it is because YOU are not where you belong. YOU are gravitating towards things and others that are weighing you down...
Some of these beliefs are conscious, but most of them are unconscious.
Do you enjoy the thoughts that swirl about in your head?
Do you enjoy your behaviors?
Do you love your Self?
If you are like so many young women and men today, you do not enjoy most of the B/S that is swirling about in your head, nor do you enjoy the obsessive compulsive things you do to get your mind to shift from focusing on the negative thoughts that are in your head...
WTF?
Is that where you are? Are you in that place-the WTF place?
If you are, you are not alone....
Stop...listen to this wise woman who has spent far too many years in that WTF place.
I wanted everyone to like me, to accept me, to tell me I was good enough, and it never showed up in quite the way I needed it to, to fill that WTF place up in my head.
Why???
I had friends. I had a decent job. I was attractive. I had a family and my dog loved me.
WTF...why was I so displeased with me?
The problem was, what was wrong could not be fixed by anyone or anything on the outside...DUH...I was looking for others to fix something they couldn't...But stubborn, pig headed me, kept insisting others love me enough to make this WTF feeling go away...
Okay, so WTF...how did I get my mind from way over there in psycho land where I was not only frustrating myself, but everyone around me...to this kick ass, bissful, I love me no matter what anyone else thinks of me, place???
The journey was long, but so worth the trip.
I first had to uncover what it was I believed. My beliefs were ruling my world and keeping me stuck.
I believed everyone had to like me...WRONG...
I believed everyone had to think I was pretty...WRONG...
I believed if I was good enough others would naturally treat me well...WRONG...
I believed if I loved someone they had to love me back...WRONG...
I believed I was only good enough if someone else told me so...WRONG...
I believed if I was good to someone, they had to be just as good back to me, and if they didn't that meant something was wrong with me...WRONG...
I believed that if my relationship wasn't turning out well, that it was all my fault, and that if I was good, I'd hang in there...WRONG...
I believed it was normal to fight in a relationship...WRONG...
I believed that even when I was treated poorly, I probably did something to deserve it, and I was supposed to stay...WRONG...
I believed if I loved someone, I hung in there no matter what...WRONG...
I believed being alone was a terrible thing...WRONG...
I believed that I had to be pretty, thin, and smart for others to like me...WRONG...
I believed that if someone loved me, they were supposed to be attached to my hip, and validate me always (eek..needy bitch I was..lol)...WRONG...
HOLY CRAP...
When I finally stopped whining about how miserable I was, and started uncovering what beliefs were governing my thinking, I began to understand that I was on a collision course...and I was the cause of all my WTF thinking...
There was no way a girl like me, with thoughts like these was not going to attract some piece of s---...of a man.
I was literally putting my sense of self in someone else's hands.
I was literally saying, "I will love you so you love me back, because I don't know how to love myself. I will ATTACH my needy ass self to you, and drown you with affection, not because you need it you loser, but because I believe if that I do, you MUST do what I want you to do, which is to make this WTF feeling go away...I am demanding you to fill this WTF place in me, so I can stop these WTF feelings in my head. And even though you will probably take advantage of my neediness, treat me like dog sh-- on your shoe, push me away, and only show affection when you want to get laid, I am gonna hang in there...because that's what I BELIEVE I should do."
WTF? Really, I mean WTF?
Its no mystery why I was so miserable...
So I figured it all out. I didn't think I was good enough because my mother's love wasn't all that reassuring...
I was taught to care more about what others thought about me than what I thought about me...and so I picked up all these negative beliefs along my life's path.
But now I have learned that unless I own my power, and stop giving my sense of self over to dysfunctional, self absorbed others, ( and unfortunately sometimes this includes our parents, siblings, best friends, co workers, and husbands ), I will be destined to live the remainder of my life on planet WTF.
WTF is not necessary.
If you are unhappy and the people in your life are bringing you down, GET RID OF THEM, and start paying attention to how you FEEL, when you are around people.
People that are GOOD for you will make you FEEL secure, warm, positive, and cared for.
Your energy literally goes up when you are around someone who is good for you, and down when you are slamming yourself into someone who is NOT good for you...
Check out the video above. Want to test your energy to see if those in your life are good for you or bad for you? Do the above muscle test while sitting next to your brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, boss, mother, father or even around alcohol.
Anything or anyone that is not good for you, will show up in your energy field...
If you are on planet WTF, it is because YOU are not where you belong. YOU are gravitating towards things and others that are weighing you down...
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